Ngati zinthu zoyamba zamayi zamakono zimapambana bwino, ndiye kuti mutha kumvetsetsa kwathunthu ndikupeza njira yowonjezera kwa amuna, ngakhale patatha zaka zambiri ndikukhala limodzi.
Kotero, momwe angapezere njira yowonjezera kwa mwamuna wake, yikani iye yekha, kumulola iye kuti azidzitsogolera yekha, ndipo osati potsutsa kudzikuza kwake ndi kunyada kwa amuna.
Kusamalira amuna ndizo sayansi yomwe imafuna kuchita ndi kudziwa, ndipo ili ndi njira zambiri, kugwiritsa ntchito moyenera komwe kudzakulolani kuti mumveke mosavuta ndi mwachibadwa kuti munthu achite zomwe mukufunikira, ndipo, pakupanga chinyengo cha chikhumbo chake.
Mukaphunzira njira zoterezi, ndipo pang'onopang'ono mudzawafikitsa ku moyo, mudzakhala chithandizo, kupeza njira kwa mwamuna wanu, ndi kupeza chikhulupiliro chapadera cha munthu wokondedwa wanu, ndipo potero mupeze chinsinsi chofunika kwambiri kwa otsogolera.
Chivomerezo.
Kuyamba kumunyoza mwamuna ndikofunikira kuyambira pachiyambi cha zanu, zocheperapo, zakugonana kwakukulu. Gawo loyamba kumsonkhano liyenera kukhala lokhazikika poddakivanie. Gwirizanani mu chirichonse sikofunika, mofotokozera molimba mtima malingaliro anu, ngati inu simukuvomereza mu chinachake, koma onetsetsani kuti mukuthandizira malingaliro ndi zochita za amuna. Mwachitsanzo, mumutsimikizire pomwe akulankhula za mikangano kuntchito, kapena chimwemwe, ngati akuyankhula mwachidwi za chochitika chomwe chidzachitike, chimene adapatsidwa kuti amutsogolere. Chizindikiro choterocho pa mbali yanu chidzaonongedwako osati kokha ngati ulemu wamba, komanso ngati chiwonetsero cha chidaliro, chikhulupiriro mwa munthu ndi luso lake ndi kugawikana moona za zofuna zake ndi zodandaula zake. Choncho, pambali panu, mwamuna wanu adzamva bwino, ndipo posachedwa mudzakhala woyamba kuphunzira za zonse zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wake, komanso munthu amene maganizo ake adzakhala ofunika kwambiri kwa iye.
Komanso, pokambirana ndi mwamuna wanu, musaiwale liwu la mawu, momwe amatchulidwira, manja ndi nkhope. Chilankhulo cha munthuyo chimamvekedwa ndi womulumikiza pa mlingo wosadziwika ndipo kenaka sichikuthandizani kumanga chiyanjano. Choncho, ngati mukunena kuti "Inde, inde" ndi mau, ndipo mawonekedwe anu amasonyeza zosiyana - palibe kupambana kungapite pa chilichonse.
Koperani kakang'ono.
Njira yabwino yodzipezera nokha ndikutengera khalidwe la interlocutor. Pachifukwachi, pokambirana, nkofunika kuti woyimilira azibwereza manja ake. Mukamayankhula ndi mwamuna wake, mungagwiritse ntchito manja amodzi ovomerezeka achimuna. Njira iyi kwa mwamuna wake, idzapatsa mpata woti amuthandize ndi mawu. Pakuyankhula, kuigwira, kugwira pamapewa, kapena ngati kuli kotheka, gwiritsani ntchito pat. Ziribe kanthu momwe muliri pafupi ndi mwamuna wanu, musanyalanyaze dzanja lake. Musanayambe kumupsompsona, kapena mukakumana naye, onetsetsani kuti mwamugwira ndi dzanja. Zokhudzana izi zimakhala chizindikiro osati chikondi chanu, koma chifukwa cha ulemu, chifukwa choyesera kukhala pafupi ndikupanga mtundu wa ulesi.
Kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa njirayi kwakhala kwa nthawi yaitali kutsimikiziridwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo, ndipo zizindikiro zomwezo zimagwiritsidwa ntchito osati mu ubale weniweni koma m'magulu a bizinesi, malo omwe amachitira anzawo ndi akugulitsa.
Makhalidwe a akazi.
Njira zamkazi, ndi njira yotsimikizika, momwe wina angapezere njira kwa mwamuna wake. Ngati simunali chaka choyamba palimodzi, zikutanthauza kuti mumayenera kuphunzira wina ndi mzake, ndipo mumadziwa kuti "chiwombankhanga" chikoka pa nthawi yoyenera, ndikutha kudikira nthawi ino. Akazi ali okhoza makamaka pa zinthu zoterezi. Pali njira zambiri za amai zomwe amuna amazisunga chaka ndi chaka, ndipo sangathe kukhala ndi chitetezo m'njira iliyonse. Njira yowonjezereka komanso yopanda mavuto yochitapo kanthu ndi misonzi ya akazi. Koma, malingana ndi anthu, njira iyi ndi nkhanza, ndipo mwachiyanjano ndi iwo. Pamene amalira, mkazi wake wokondedwa ali wokonzeka kupeza thambo kuchokera kumwamba, ngati misonzi ileka kutha. Akazi ambiri amadziwa izi ndikuzigwiritsa ntchito, amuna amadziwanso kuti amai amasangalala ndi zofooka zawo, komabe ali. Izi sizithungo zokha kulira nthawi iliyonse, kotero chizolowezi ichi chiyenera kusungidwa pa vuto lalikulu kwambiri.
Aliyense amakonda chikondi.
Chithandizo chachikondi monga aliyense, ndipo amuna ndi amodzi. Koma, kusonyeza chikondi pa mbali yanu sikuyenera kungobwera pamene mukufunikira chinachake kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu, koma kukhala chizoloŵezi cha moyo. Pachifukwa ichi, mwamuna, atapempha pempho lachikondi, sangawakane mwamphamvu asanamwalire. Musaiwale kutamanda munthu wanu mwanjira yomweyo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti munthu amene amadziona kuti ndi wofunika, wofunikira komanso wapadera, adzakhala ndi malo ogona, ndipo adzakwaniritsa udindo wa atate ndi mwamuna. Musati muyesere kutenga mwayi uwu kwa iye.
Ingomulola iye akusamalireni inu, ndi kusonyeza nkhawa zanu. Kusamalidwa kumapangitsa mkazi kukhala wodziimira yekha, koma musaiwale kuti, ngakhale kuti ife sitinali amphamvu bwanji, kugonana kwachikazi ndi kofooka. Lolani munthuyo akutetezeni, akuthandizeni, ndipo akhale "khoma" kwa inu. Pankhaniyi, mungathe kukwaniritsa kuti simukumbukira nkhani zapakhomo, ndipo zofuna zanu zidzakhala zochita zake.
Musamudandaulire mwamuna wanu ngati chinachake chalakwika, ndipo makamaka musalole wina kuchita zimenezo. Amuna ali olimba mwakuthupi, koma amayi amakhalidwe abwino amatha kuyambitsa zovuta. N'zoona kuti munthu sayenera kuthamanga kukangokhalira kukangana, koma alole kuti mlangizi wosafunika adziwe kuti simukuyenera kuchita izi, mukhoza.
Ndi uphungu woperekedwa pamwambapa, mudzatha kupeza chidaliro chofunikira chotero, ndipo mudzakhala gawo lachiwiri la mwamuna wanu. Kukhala pamodzi ndiko kukhala moyo umodzi, ndi zochitika zonse ndi chimwemwe. Ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti ukwati wotere ukhoza kufanana ndi kukhala wamba, komwe aliyense ali yekha, ndipo amagawaniza pogona komanso chakudya. Kokha, pogwiritsa ntchito mfundoyi pakuchita, kumbukirani kuti uphungu umaperekedwa mwachindunji, ndipo mwamuna wanu ali payekha. Ndipo pofuna kupeza njira kwa mwamuna wake, muyenera kudalira zizoloŵezi zake, zokonda, zofuna zake, makhalidwe ake, ndi zofunika kwambiri, kumvetsera mtima wanu. Ndiyeno mudzapambana.