Ndizoopsa pamene mwamuna amenya mkazi wake, ngakhalenso ana aang'ono. Ngakhale pali milandu pamene kumenyedwa kumachitika, ngati nthawi yake, ndipo mkazi woopsya amalephera kuchitira nkhanza zoterezo. Tcheru. Ndizowopsya, koma adasiya kudzimva kuti amve zovuta zogonjetsa thupi lake. Inde, ngati mkazi wodziwika amenyedwa, ndiye kuti zidziwitso zimenezi zidzakhala katundu wa dziko lonse. Zithunzi za nyenyezi yovutitsidwayo idzakhala yodzaza masamba a nyuzipepala ndi mapulogalamu a TV. Onse pamodzi adzasangalala ndi moyo wapadera ndi ntchito za banja lodziwika bwino. Ndizodabwitsa, koma pali ochirikiza mwamuna wokwatira. Koma anthu amaiŵala mbiri yakale, ndipo ngakhale mutu wa nkhanza za m'banja. Ngati chiwawa chimachitika m'banja losavuta, ndiye kuti sichikondweretsa aliyense.
Chiwawa ndi chiyani? Nkhanza zapakhomo ndizochita mwadongosolo munthu wina m'banja kuti amenyane ndi mmodzi kapena angapo mamembala a banja limenelo. Zochita izi zingakhale zachiwerewere, zakuthupi, zamaganizo ndi zachuma. Monga lamulo, ziwawa zoterezi zimaphwanya ufulu, komanso ufulu waumunthu, kuphatikizapo kuvulaza khalidwe, zimapweteka kwambiri thupi ndi maganizo a munthu. Malingana ndi chidziwitso cha boma, anthu oposa 4 miliyoni amalembedwa m'mabungwe a malamulo a Russian Federation omwe amachita zachiwawa m'banja lawo. Ngakhale kuti anthu omwe akuzunzidwa okha kapena apolisi sazengereza kupanga mavoti amenewa. Zimadziwika kuti kuchokera mwa anthu okwana 4 miliyoni okwatulidwa, anthu 3,355,000 ndi anthu olemekezeka omwe amalemekezedwa, ngakhale kuti amaonedwa kuti amazunza mabanja.
Amayi omwe amachitiridwa nkhanza m'banja ndi amayi. 70 peresenti ya zovuta zonse zapakhomo ku Russia zimapangitsa imfa ya wogwidwayo, motero, mdziko lathu, mkazi mmodzi amamwalira maminiti 40 alionse m'manja mwa mwamuna wamkwatulo. Anthu ambiri a ku Russia amachitiridwa nkhanza zapakhomo chifukwa cha uchidakwa kapena zachuma. Chaka ndi chaka ku Russia, amayi pafupifupi 2,000 amaliza moyo wawo mwa kudzipha, omwe sangalekerere kumenyedwa ndi kunyozedwa m'banja. Ziwerengerozi zimapangitsanso anthu masiku ano kumvetsetsa vutoli ndikuyang'ana yankho la funsoli, momwe angathandizire mkazi kupulumuka chiwawa ndi mwamuna wake?
Ngakhale kuli koyambirira kwambiri kuti akambirane za kuthandiza amayi ku mbali ya anthu. Popeza kuti gululi palokha silinakonzedwe osati kuthetsa kokha, komanso kukambirana zambiri za nkhaniyi. Mwachitsanzo, Amzako ambiri komanso achibale omwe amaona kuti akumenya akazi nthawi zonse amakhulupirira kuti ozunzidwawo ali olakwa pazochitika zoterezo. Iwo okha anasankha amuna awo, ndipo poyamba choyamba choncho kunali koyenera kumusiya mkwatulo! Nthawi zina malingaliro amavomereza kuti mkaziyo mwiniwakeyo ali ndi mlandu wa kumenyana kwake, amamukwiyitsa. Inde, mungamuthandize bwanji kuti apulumuke ngati akulekerera, osachokapo?
Komanso, m'mayiko ena, chiwawa chapakhomo chakhala chikukhazikitsidwa mwalamulo. Mwachitsanzo, m'mayiko ena pali malamulo omwe amapereka ufulu kwa mwamuna kuti adziwe ufulu ndi kumasuka kwa mkazi wake ndi ana ake.
Kwa nthawi yoyamba, chidwi chinaperekedwa ku vuto la nkhanza zapanyumba m'mayiko a Kumadzulo, kumayambiriro kwa zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri zapitazo zinali zokonzeka ku zaka zapitazo. Mavuto oyambirira a amayi omwe anapulumuka chiwawa anawonekera ku America. Masiku ano anthu a ku Russia adasankha "kutenga zovala zonyezimira m'nyumba". Iwo anazindikira kuti ngati mwamuna amenya, sikuti nthawi zonse mkazi wake akulakwitsa. Tsopano ku Russia amapangidwa ndikugwiritsa ntchito mabungwe ambiri omwe si a boma omwe amateteza ufulu wa amayi. Poyambira ndi amayi omwe adakumanapo ndi zovuta zofananazo, malo ogona, malo othawirako komanso mafoni a telefoni athazikitsidwa.
Chifukwa cha zochitika zoterezi, potsiriza anthu adatha kuphunzira za ziwawa zankhanza m'banja ndi kuthandiza omwe akuzunzidwa. Mzimayi yemwe wagonjetsedwa kwakukulu sadzakhalanso yekha pachisoni chake. Ntchito za mabungwe ndi mabungwe amenewa zasonyeza momveka bwino kuti n'zotheka kuthandiza mkazi kupulumuka chiwawa cha mwamuna wake. Mabungwe apaderawa angathandize kuchepetsa chiwerengero cha anthu omwe anafa kapena ovulala chifukwa cha mikangano ya m'banja.
Pang'onopang'ono, pakati pa anthu, lingaliroli limapangidwa kuti pali chiwawa mu mabanja achi Russia, omwe ayenera kuti adzalangidwa. Kuonjezera apo, pamsinkhu woyenera, nkhanza zapakhomo zimatchulidwa kale ngati tsoka ladziko. Lero, vuto la nkhanza zapakhomo likuyankhidwa pa dziko lonse lapansi. Mwamwayi, njirayi ndi yochepetsetsa, koma tsopano akazi ayenera kukhala ndi chidziwitso chofunikira kwambiri chomwe chidzawathandiza pazovuta.
Ngati pali vuto lalikulu, muyenera kuchoka panyumbamo mwamsanga. Iyenera kuchitidwa mwamsanga, ngakhale pali ndalama, zikalata ndi zodzikongoletsera zomwe zatsala m'nyumba. Moyo ndi wotsika mtengo, koma ali pangozi! Tikulimbikitsanso kukonzekera kuthawa pasadakhale. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kukhala malo abwino ndi ma telefoni, owerenga, omwe mungapeze thandizo mwamsanga. Ngati mkazi ali wachiwawa, afunikanso kulankhulana ndi apolisi ndi chipatala, kuitanitsa hotline, kufunafuna malo obisalamo ndi malo, ndikufika ku uphungu wokhudzana ndi maganizo.
Ngati mkangano umayamba mwadzidzidzi ndipo simungathe kuitanitsa apolisi, nkofunika kufuula mokweza ndikukhala galasi m'nyumba. Mwamsanga mukamenyedwa, muyenera kupempha thandizo lachipatala ndi kupeza chiphaso cha zamankhwala pa zovulazidwa zonse. Kumbukirani, pofuna kukana chiwawa ndi kulimbana nacho, nkofunika kuti izi ziwonekere kwa ena.