Zimadziwika kuti akazi ali ndi zizolowezi zomwe zimadziwika okha. Koma, palibe amene amaganizapo kuti zizoloŵezi zathu zonse zimakhala ndi zochitika zogonana. Tiyeni tiwone zomwe angatiuze.
Mumasiya tsitsi lanu. Posachedwapa, wosankhidwa wanu adakondwera tsitsi lanu, adayankhula za momwe amamukondera, akuwongolera, akusangalala ndi fungo lokoma. Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyi zonse ziri zosiyana kwambiri. Kupeza malo osiyanasiyana a nyumba, amakwiya ndipo amakwiya. Amachokera ku tsitsi, amapezeka pa zovala kapena mwina chakudya. Mafoni anu theka ndi chinthu chodabwitsa, osachepera, choipa, chosasunthika. Koma malingaliro owona za kugonana, njira yofananayo imatchedwa kuti umwini wa umwini. Mwachitsanzo, mumasiya tsitsi lanu pazovala zake, ndipo pamsinkhu wosadziwika, mukufuna kuti aliyense adziwe kuti wanu yekha ndi wanu. Ichi ndi mtundu wa chizindikiro. Ndipo mumatchula mfundo imeneyi ndi kusowa mavitamini kapena kusintha kwa nyengo, zomwe zimatchedwa "moult".
Mu kugonana, mumadzipereka kwathunthu ku zisonkhezero, ndikusankha maudindo akuluakulu okha.
Mumakonda kwambiri kugula, mukuchita malonda osiyanasiyana. Kwa amuna - kwa iwo uku ndiko kuzunzika kwenikweni, kosasangalatsa komanso koopsa. Kuchokera pamaganizo a akazi ogonana, amayi omwe amakonda nthawi zonse komanso opanda chifukwa choyendayenda m'masitolo osiyanasiyana, kupanga malonda achinyengo, odyslovom, kugula, ndi odzikonda kwambiri. Sali ndi chidwi ndi zikhumbo ndi zokonda za ena. Lingaliro lake lokha ndi lofunika, lomwe, ndithudi, ndilo lofunika kwambiri ndi lofunika kwambiri. Palinso njira yomwe imanena kuti mkazi amene walandiridwa ndi shopomania mwina sangakumane ndi wosankhidwa wake, yemwe angakhale m'malo mwa phunzirolo, kumunyamulira ku malo ochepa. Mu mgwirizano wa kugonana, mwamuna, ali ndi mtundu wofanana wa mkazi, sayenera kumanga zoyembekeza. Pambuyo pa maubwenzi otentha pabedi sadzatero. Ndipotu, poyamba, kugula, choncho, nthawi yomwe mumakhala ndi anzanu, kusonkhanitsa miseche. Chikondwerero cha chikondi sichimasewera mbali yofunika kwambiri. Ndipo komabe, nkotheka kuti zonsezi zidzapitirira mpaka munthu yemwe angakhoze kuima pa malo aakulu akukumana panjira.
Mumakonda kukweza tsitsi lanu. Apa ndikutanthauza kuti sikutanthauzira kwenikweni. Pali chinthu chomwecho kuti pali mtundu woterewu wa amayi amene amakonda kukweza tsitsi pamtundu wawo, ndikusiya kukhala ngati mtundu wonyansa. Amatha kupotoza tsitsi la tsitsi lake, panthawi yokambirana ndi theka lake, ndikuyang'ana kudutsa, ndikulolera kudzera m'makutu ake, zonse zomwe adanena. Pankhaniyi, mungathe kumaliza mfundo imodzi yokha. Mu ubale umenewu, pa gawo la amai, sipangakhale funso la chikondi.
Chikondi kuti muyang'ane malingaliro anu. Ngati mumakonda kupota ndi galasi, ndikuganizira momwe mukuganizira, ndipo njirayi ikhoza kukhala maola ambiri. Pokhala mukugwira ntchito yofunikira ngati imeneyi, mukhoza kuiwala za zinthu zofunika zomwe mungakonze. Kuiwala za alendo omwe anaitanidwa, za mwamuna wobwerera kuntchito ndikudikirira chakudya chamadzulo. Tchulani zomwe zingatheke kwamuyaya. Choncho, kwa mtundu uwu ndi munthu wolota. Mwamuna amene ali pafupi ndi wolota, muyenera kukhala osamala kwambiri. Ndipo pankhani ya kugonana, mkazi wa mtundu umenewu ndi wodabwitsa komanso wosadziŵika. Kwa amuna, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudziwa zofuna zake zonse.
Mumagwiritsa ntchito kuponya zovala kuzungulira nyumbayo. Zikakhala kuti nyumbayo ili ndi nsalu, zovala, mabasi, masituniketi, ndi zinthu zambiri za zovala zochepa za mitundu yosiyana siyana, mukhoza kuganiza kuti ndinu munthu wopanga zinthu, komanso munthu amene ali ndi luso lojambula. Inu muli ndi malingaliro aakulu mu kugonana konse, ndipo ndinu chikhalidwe chokhwima.
Mukuiwala kuchotsa mapangidwe anu musanagone. Ngati inu, omwe mukugona nthawi zonse ndi nkhope musasambe usiku, mungathe kunena kuti mnyamata wanu ali ndi mwayi, chifukwa ndinu munthu wokoma mtima komanso wachisomo. Koma, zofananazo zikunena kuti simuli chikhalidwe chokhwima.
Mumadya zambiri musanagone. Inde, aliyense wa ife amakonda kudya asanagone. Koma ogonana ndi abambo ali otsimikiza kuti mu kugonana, awa ndi atsikana operewera.
Inu muli ndi chizolowezi choluma milomo yanu. Izi zikusonyeza kuti ndiwe wamwano. Zomwe akunena zimasonyezedwa nthawi iliyonse komanso pamalo aliwonse, osaganiza za zotsatira zake.