Pali nthawi zina pamoyo zomwe mukufuna kuchoka mu kukumbukira kwa nthawi yaitali. Pali anthu omwe ndibwino kuti asachoke. Pali zinthu zomwe zimapangitsa moyo kukhala wabwino. Koma izi zimachitika choncho, pamene chinachake chakhala chitatha kale kuchotsa, koma sichigwira ntchito. Chabwino, osokoneza. Zifukwa zosiyana. Ndipo nthawi zambiri mumakhala zinthu zolemetsa zomwe zimachititsa kuti tisakhutire ndi moyo. Tiyeni titsegule makadi ndipo tilankhule malangizo a akatswiri a maganizo a momwe angagwirire bwino ndi mavuto a moyo. Ndipo ife tiyamba kudzigwira tokha.
1. Chotsani zovala zopapatiza, zomwe mungakwere pakangotha sabata imodzi yowomba njala.
Ayi, ndithudi, iwe ukhoza kudzikometsera wekha ndi chiyembekezo kuti tsiku lina ... Ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale kuti "tsiku lina" ili lidzabwera ... Rasprekrasno! Sikuti mukufunikira kudzizunza nokha, mwinanso, pasadakhale. Tsiku lililonse ndi lofunika kwambiri, choncho musamalimbane ndi inu nokha ndi kusokoneza maganizo anu ndi zomwe simukuzipeze. Malangizo a akatswiri a maganizo: ndizochepa zazikulu zowonjezereka - ndi zina ziti zomwe zimafunika kuti mukhale osangalala ...
2. Kutaya mantha akudziwonetsera wekha - mu utumiki, pabedi, pa dansi, ndi zina zotero.
Chikhumbo chobisala kwa aliyense, kuthawa, kubisa nthawi ndi nthawi mwa aliyense wa ife. Ndipo izi ndi zachilendo! Koma kubisala nthawi zonse akufufuza kale. Musayesere kukhala nthawi yonse imene simunali. Ndi zopusa komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo ngakhale "I" wanu weniweni posachedwa adzalengeza okha. Apa ndi pamene aliyense amvetsetsa kuti wakhala akudziyesa ndikukonzekera nthawi zonse. Ndipo pamodzi ndi mavuto a moyo, manyazi, kukhumudwa ndi kuvutika maganizo kudzabwera kwa inu. Khalani nokha! Osachepera, mudzawona amene samakukondani, amene akufuna kuti mukhale osangalala, amene amakonda ndi zolakwa zanu zonse.
3. Khala pa ntchito yomwe sikukulolani kusangalala ndi moyo.
Inde, nthawi ili yovuta tsopano. Ntchito, ndithudi, ikufunika. Koma ngati mukuganiza: kodi tikugwira ntchito kuti tikhale ndi moyo kapena kugwira ntchito? Kodi ndi chiani chopirira kuchititsidwa manyazi, kupsinjika ndi zina zowonongeka kuntchito, ngati zimasokoneza moyo wanu wonse? Kodi tanthauzo la moyo wanu ndi chiyani? Mu ntchitoyi? .. Kodi simukuganiza kuti izi ndi zamkhutu?
4. Musaiwale za ndudu ndi ziwiya.
Zomwe zili zowonjezera, sizowonongeka ndi thanzi labwino. Ndudu ndizoledzeretsa. Icho sichiri mfulu. Inu muli mu ukapolo nthawi zonse, ndipo izi ndizochititsa manyazi. Pambuyo pa zonse, mulidi mfulu! Mukufuna kudzimva nokha? Kotero pansi ndi ukapolo! Msonkhano wa Akatswiri a Zaganizo: Sungani moyo wanu mokwanira, ndipo musalole kuti matendawa akuwongolerani.
5. Siyani maloto a m'mbuyomu a kugonana ndi nyenyezi.
Inde, nthawi zina ndi zabwino. Poyamba. Ndiyeno mukadzuka, mumapukuta maso anu - ndipo mumagwa. Zikuwoneka kuti sizikuwunikira, iwe ndiwe wosayenera, ndiwe "umodzi" ... Chabwino, nkhuyu ndi iwo, ndi nyenyezi! Pafupi ndiko pali anthu ambiri okongola, aluso, aluso omwe mungathe kuchita nawo. Ndipo mukamupeza - malingaliro anu okhawo okhudzana ndi kugonana ndi nyenyezi adzapita ku nthawi zonse. Mwina chifukwa usiku sungagone.
6. Kutsika ndi amatsenga!
Inde, ndinu wofulumira. Inde, ndi zosasangalatsa kwa inu kapena kwa ena. Inu mumangokhala omverera kuposa inu, mwinamwake, ambiri angakonde. Ndikhulupirire, njira iyi yothetsera mavuto idzakufikitsani ku imfa. Kapena kupita kuchipatala. Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti mukulimbana ndi chifukwa chenicheni, yesani kukhala chete. Amanyazi samakopeka aliyense - amangoyamba. Ichi ndi choonadi cha moyo.
7. Siyani anyamata omwe akukhala nawo pansi pa mwambi: "Anapereka mawu akeeni, ndipo adatenga yekha."
Kodi mumaganiza kuti zambiri sizinayenera? Kapena mukuganiza kuti anyamata onse ali choncho? Izi siziri choncho! Pafupi kwenikweni anthu "enieni". Dzikhulupirireni nokha - ndipo pita! Ku ubale watsopano, wodzaza ndi kumvetsetsa, ulemu ndi chikondi.
8. Pewani anzanu apamtima, mutatha kukumana ndi omwe mumamanga maofesi.
Kwenikweni, si chibwenzi kwenikweni ... Koma, mulimonsemo, simukusowa nambalayi pafupi ndi inu. Ngakhale iwo, kwenikweni, alibe chochita ndi izo. Ubwenzi ndi wofanana. Pezani nokha msungwana yemwe sangakuchititseni manyazi kapena kukukhumudwitsani. Kufufuza kungatenge nthawi, koma zotsatira sizingakhumudwitse.
9. Kumbukirani, pomaliza, antics anu osapambana chaka chapitacho.
Chabwino, iwe unakwiya apo, koma dziko silinagwe! Ndipo iwe umakhalabe wofanana. Ndipo ena kale, ndikhulupirire ine, ndakhala ndikuiwalika kale za izi. Chabwino, ngati, ndithudi, simukuwakumbutsa za izo nthawi zonse. Lekani kuzunzika ndi kuzunzika. Lekani kupita kumbuyo ndikupita, potsiriza, mtsogolomu. Kuwala.
10. Kaseti ndi zolaula kunyumba - mu zinyalala! Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti simungapeze pa kanema iyi.
Ndikhulupirire, iye adzakudziwani! Panthawi yovuta kwambiri. Kodi munayamba mwalingalirapo izi? Lembani zolembera nthawi yomweyo! Musanyalanyaze mfundo iyi! Panthawi ina izi zingawononge moyo wanu.
Tikukhulupirira kuti, chifukwa cha malangizo awa a akatswiri a maganizo a momwe angagwirire bwino ndi mavuto a moyo, pamapeto pake mudzasintha kusintha moyo wanu. Kungoyamba - zidzakhala zosavuta. Mudzadabwa kwambiri kuti ndi zovuta bwanji. Ndiyeno chirichonse chidzatha.