Mwamuna wokhala ndi zaka zolemekezeka ayeneradi kukhala ndi tchuthi mwaulemu. Zikhoza kukhala tsiku lakubadwa, tsiku losaiŵalika kapena phwando la kubadwa - ziribe kanthu chifukwa chomwe chilipo pa tchuthi. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti agogo aamuna okondedwa amakhala amodzi mwa phwando la chikondwerero, ndipo chifukwa chake tchuthi losaiwalika lidzakhala lapadera, ndipo ndifunikanso kukonzekera makamaka.
Inde, mwambo wamakono ndiwo msonkhano wa alendo ambiri pa tebulo, chakudya chambiri chokoma ndi chosiyanasiyana, makasitomala osasinthasintha ndi zikhumbo zosatha za thanzi labwino. Komabe, tchuthi ndilosayembekezereka kudabwa ndi agogo aakazi, chifukwa zaka zambiri iye amagwiritsa ntchito zochitika zoterozo ndikuziona kuti ndizozoloŵera. Popanda kulakalaka, agogo amadziwa kuti chimwemwe chachikulu ndi ana ndi zidzukulu, ndipo chifukwa cha iwo akalamba ake ndi kunyada kale. Kawirikawiri zimakhala zosasangalatsa, ndipo pakati pa chikondwererochi munthu wachikulire akhoza kumva atatopa ndipo akuyembekeza kutha kwa phwando limeneli.
Choncho, zingakhale bwino kupanga phwando losangalatsa, lodziwika bwino komanso lamphamvu, lomwe lidzakupangitsanso agogo ake kumverera kuti ali achinyamata komanso olimba. Mphindi iliyonse ya tchuthiyi iyenera kubweretsa chinthu chatsopano, kotero, osadabwa kuti agogo asakhale ndi nthawi yotopa.
Mwinamwake, mu moyo wa agogo aamuna panali anthu ambiri okondweretsa omwe kwa nthawi yochepa anali okondedwa kwa iye ndi pafupi naye. Chimodzi mwa zidziwitso izi zimatayika ndi nthawi, zimangokumbukira zabwino zokha. Zitha kukhala ogwira nawo ntchito, ogwira nawo ntchito, anansi oyandikana nawo - ndi bwino kumvetsera mwatcheru ndi kukumbukira nkhani zonse za agogo aamuna za zaka zake zakale. Mwina zidzukulu zomwe zimagwiritsa ntchito zochitika zamakono zamakono, sizingakhale zofunikira kwambiri kubwezeretsanso anthuwa. Ndipo holide ya agogo ake ndi mwayi wapadera woitanira anthu omwe sanawaonepo kwa zaka zambiri. Ngati ali a zaka zapakati, ndi bwino kuwathandiza kupita kumalo a phwandolo. Kukumbukira zakale, anthu achikulire amatha kumvanso mphamvu zomwe anatsagana nazo m'zaka zapitazo. Akuluakuluwo amayamikira zidzukulu zake chifukwa cha mphatso imeneyi.
Kulankhula za mphatso, ndikuyeneranso kukumbukira zolakwa zambiri zomwe zidzukulu zambiri zimapanga, pofuna kusangalatsa agogo awo. Kawirikawiri, zinthu zamtengo wapatali zomwe zimakhala ndi mtengo wapamwamba, ndithudi, zidzamuuza abambo ake kuti iye adalera mdzukulu wowolowa manja komanso wosakhudzidwa. Komabe, kuwerengera sikungakhale mphatso, mosasamala kanthu za mtengo wake, koma chidwi cholipidwa kwa munthu wachikulire. Ndipo chisamaliro sichitha kukhala ndi ndalama zofanana, choncho mphatso yoyenera ikhale yoyenera kusankhidwa yosasankhidwa malinga ndi mtengo wamakono wotchuka komanso zofunikira, komatu malinga ndi khalidwe labwino, lokopa ndi lodzipereka kwa agogo aamuna.
Momwe mungakonzekere tchuthi moyenerera, kodi chigawo chake chachikulu ndi chiyani? Tebulo lapamwamba nthawi zonse limakhala ndi phwando lokongola kwambiri. Komabe, pa tchuthi komwe kuli anthu ambiri okalamba, chakudya chiyenera kukhala choyamba, kukhala wathanzi. Ndiponsotu, pazaka zino, zakudya zodyera zamakono zimatha kuwononga thanzi lanu. Kuwonjezera apo, mwina, kwa nthawi yayitali, agogo aakazi ayesa kale mbale zambiri. Choncho, m'pofunikira kuphika zokoma zomwe amakonda, ndipo gawo lalikulu la menyu lili ndi zipatso, ndiwo zamasamba komanso zakudya zopatsa thanzi. Chisamaliro chiyenera kuperekedwa ku chisankho chakumwa mowa - ngati chimatsutsana ndi agogo aamuna, kumwa mowa pa tebulo kungakhale kochepa ngati n'kotheka.
Ngati agogo aakazi ndi agogo ake akadali pamodzi - ndi bwino kukumbukira izi patebulo ndipo, mwina, aloleni kuti azivina kumamtima omwe mumakonda kwambiri achinyamata. Koma ngati agogo aamuna amakhala osakwatiwa, amayi okongola ayenera kukhalapo pakati pa alendo, omwe amatha kuchita phwando kuvina kumalo okwera ndi amphamvu. Ngati kuvina kwa agogo aamuna chifukwa cha zifukwa zakale sizingatheke, simuyenera kusiya lingaliro lakumvetsera nyimbo zomwe mumazikonda - pambuyo pake, mwina agogo adzakondwera kuyimba nyimbo za kuvina kwake pa kuvina kwa ana ndi zidzukulu zake.
Pa msinkhu uliwonse, kupita ku chilengedwe ndibwino kuti ukhale ndi thanzi, kotero kuti agogo aamuna abwino adzasangalala kukuchezerani kumidzi. Zikhoza kukhala dacha yachinsinsi, malo okongola kapena kukwera kumtunda - zimadalira mphamvu za agogo ake. Ngati pali ana ang'onoang'ono m'banja, adzasangalala kuona kiti ikuwulukira kumwambako, ndipo, mwinamwake, adzatenga nawo mbali pazochitika zoterezo.
Chisangalalo cha okalamba ndi masewera osiyanasiyana. Komabe, ngakhale masewera omwe amawoneka mwachizolowezi akhoza kukongoletsedwa ndi pikisano ya mpikisano ndi mphoto ndi mphatso kwa opambana - kotero holide idzakhala yamoyo, yogwira ntchito ndi yowala!
Ngati agogo awo ali ndi zidzukulu kapena zidzukulu zapakati, choyamba choitanidwa ku chikondwererochi ndi chawo. Anthu okalamba amakonda ana, ndipo iwo alibe chimwemwe chochuluka kuposa kulankhulana ndi ana. Mosiyana ndi makolo, agogo ndi agogo, omwe amazoloŵera kulera ana, sakhala ochepa kwambiri kuti athe kutopa ndi mawu osangalatsa osatha ndi kumayenda mozungulira ana. Ndipotu zonsezi zimawapatsa chimwemwe!
Pa chikondwererochi agogo aamuna ayenera kukhala khalidwe lalikulu ndipo palibe wolemekezeka. Kugwira nawo ntchito mwakhama kungamupangitse kukhala wosangalala. Tsogolo la agogo awo lidzakumbukiridwa kosatha, ndipo mudzakhalanso osangalala!