Mawu oti "mosiyana" amatanthawuza "kutsutsana", ndiko, wina, mosiyana. Ndipo ngati amuna ndi akazi amaonedwa kuti ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, n'zosadabwitsa kuti dziko lapansi limadziŵa, ndikuchita zinthu, ndi chikondi m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Osati ife tinazindikira kuti munthu amakhulupirira pamene iye akuwona, ndipo mkazi_pamene iye amva. Koma kodi nzeru za mibadwo ikusonyezedwa bwanji pamapeto pake: "Ndi bwino kuona kamodzi kamva kamodzi kokha"?
Mwambi wa Kazakh unalinso ndi mawuwo, omwe amati: "Mwamva ali okonzeka kutenga chilichonse chosafunika, maso samatsanzira chitsanzo chawo." Ndipo Sari Gabor akunena kuti mwamunayo amakonda maso, ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi makutu. Ndipo chiyani? Kodi izi zikutanthauzanji ngati mutatsatira mfundo? Kuti mkazi ndi wosavuta kumanyenga, chifukwa amakhulupirira makutu kuposa maso? Tsoka, kwakukulu ndithu izi ziri choncho.
Mkazi wachikondi kuchokera kumalo amodzi akubwera chinthu chosasangalatsa - amasiya kutha kukhulupilira zomwe akuwona, ngati sakufuna kukhulupirira. Koma ndine wokonzeka kukhulupirira bodza lililonse la milomo ya wokondedwa wanga, kuti ndisadandaule nazo. Kulakwitsa kofunika kwambiri kwa mkazi wachikondi ndiko kukhazikitsa pansi, kumuika wokondedwa, kuima pambali, kuyamikira ndi kuyesa ndi mphamvu zake zonse kuti amusunge pa chovala ichi. Munthu akhoza kuchita izi monga momwe mumakondera, kunyenga, kusintha, koma musaiwale kung'ung'udza m'makutu a mawu omwe mumawakonda achikondi komanso achikondi, mumutsimikizire chikondi chanu. Ndipo iye adzamvetsera ndi kukhulupirira. Kwa mawu onse. Chinyengo chirichonse. Ngati zokhazokha zokhudzana ndi chisangalalo chake sichidzatha kapena kutha.
Ndipo ikhoza kuwonongedwa ndi anthu olemekezeka kwambiri - oyandikana nawo, anzako, anzanu chabe kapena anthu achisoni. Chifukwa cha kunyoza, kunyoza ndi miseche, makutu amafunikanso. Mwinamwake ndichifukwa chake iwo amalengedwa ndi kufalitsidwa, ndipo makamaka amayi amamvetsera.
Mwamuna ndi wovuta kwambiri kuti akondwere ndi chinachake poyankhula. Ndipo ngati adawona chinachake, ndiye kuti n'zosatheka kumutsimikizira. Chifukwa chake mawuwo, adawona zonse!
Anthu amadziwa zofooka za wina ndi mzake ndipo ambiri amazigwiritsa ntchito mopanda mantha. Pafupifupi mkazi aliyense akhoza kupindula, kulankhula, kulankhula, kumuuza mawu okongola. Nthawi ndi nthawi amanena kuti amamukonda, kuti moyo wake ulibe wopanda nzeru, kuti wakhala akumufunafuna kwa zaka zambiri ndipo potsirizira pake amapeza ... Mkazi aliyense posakhalitsa amasiya ndikuyamba kukhulupirira. Ndipo akupitiriza kukhulupirira, ngakhale munthu atakwaniritsa cholinga chake ndi kutaya chidwi chake, mawu ake amakhalabe mawu okha, osatsimikiziridwa ndi zochita. Koma mkaziyo adayamba kale kukonda ndi chinyengo, adamupatsa wosankhidwa makhalidwe abwino a chifanizo chimene iye analota, ndipo alibe kukayikira kuti amafunidwa ndi wokondedwa. Kufunikira komwe kukondedwa, kumvetsera kuchokera kwa wokondedwa mtsinje wa mawu okongola kumamuchititsa iye kukhulupirira zomwe sizinalipo kapena ayi.
Mkazi wachikondi amasangalala, ndipo chimwemwe chimenechi chimakhala ndi nthabwala yoopsa. Amayiwala kuti munthuyo sayenera kuweruzidwa ndi mawu, koma ndi ntchito. Ndipo ngati wokondedwa akungoyang'ana, musakwezeko chala kuti mumuthandize, kumuthandizira, kumuchitira chinachake kapena m'malo mwake, icho chimanena zambiri. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti akafunsidwa umboni womwe mkazi angamukonde, mkaziyo akhoza kutsogolera, zomwe zimakhala ndi mkwiyo zimayankha kuti: "Chikondi sichiyenera kutsimikiziridwa! Inu mukusowa kukhulupirira! "Koma kodi izi ndi zotsutsana? Amuna pa nkhani imeneyi ali kutali kwambiri, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina amachita zamatsenga.
Chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri ndi nyimbo yotchuka kwambiri kale kwambiri za mnyamata yemwe adalowa usilikali ndipo anaganiza zowona momwe chikondi cha bwenzi lake chirili. Iye analemba kalata yomwe adanena kuti watentha nkhope yake ndipo adathyola miyendo, namupempha kuti abwere naye kunyumba. Koma wokondedwayo anayankha kuti panalibe chikondi chilichonse, ndipo adafunsidwa kumuiwala. Mnyamatayo atatumikira ndi kubwerera, mtsikanayo adakomana ndi chisangalalo ndikuyesa kukukumbatira, koma anakana mwamphamvu. Ndipo ndizo zonse. Panalibenso mawu osowa - ntchitoyo inali yanga ndekha. Akuwuzani, sichoncho?
Pano ife ndife osiyana - amphamvu mwa mmodzi ndi otetezeka wina. Amuna ndi akazi, maso ndi makutu. Koma ngati tifuna kulankhula momasuka, kutaya ziweruzo zonse ndi mawu, munthu wachikondi samakonda ndi makutu kapena maso, koma ndi mtima. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti ndi ndani - mwamuna kapena mkazi, chifukwa palibe china champhamvu kuposa chikondi chenicheni.