Matenda. Zoganiza kapena zoona?
Musanayambe kumvetsetsa, panali chisokonezo chogonana kapena ayi, ndikofunika kudziwa, kuti chizoloŵezi chomwecho kapena chiwerengerocho. Apa ndizomveka kuti musakwatire mnzanuyo ndi mlingo wake aliyense. Zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zitha kusiyanitsa chikhalidwe cha kugonana kuchokera kuchipatala zingakhale zosiyana, koma poyamba munthu ayenera kukhutira ndi moyo wake wa kugonana. Ngati izi sizichitika, ndi nthawi yopempha chithandizo kuchokera kwa katswiri yemwe angaphunzire zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhutira: kudzidalira, kudzimvera chisoni kwa mnzanu, zochitika zogonana zogonana pakati pa anthu, kapena matenda enieni a kugonana omwe ayamba kapena atapita kutali.
Mwinamwake, ilo ndi funso la kukhumudwa kwongoganiza. Izi zimaphatikizapo kupusitsa-kuperewera komanso kusokoneza. Mwachitsanzo, kusowa kapena kufooka kwa kukakamizika kwa anthu kumaonedwa ngati wopanda mphamvu (masiku ano "mawu okhumudwitsa" amatengedwanso ndi ena - erectile dysfunction). Koma kodi n'zotheka kulingalira kuti zopanda pake ndi zoona ngati zimayambitsa zifukwa zomveka bwino - zosakondweretsa mnzanu, kutopa, kudzidandaula, kuopa kuthamangitsidwa mwamsanga kapena kusokonezeka kuchokera kunja?
Matenda achiwerewere okhudza kugonana angagwirizane ndi mantha a chidziwitso kapena kusadziŵa zambiri. Kuti mudziwe bwinobwino, kufunsana n'kofunika, mwinamwake osati. N'kutheka kuti simukuyenera kutembenukira kwa wodwala wogonana, komanso kwa a urologist, azimayi, katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena wodwala zamaganizo. Ndipotu, zinali zovuta kudziwa chomwe chinayambitsa matendawa. Chinthu chimodzi chikuonekeratu: Ngati mumamva bwino mu chiwalo chogonana, mabanja sangachedwe ndi ulendo wopita kuchipatala. Ine ndekha ndidzakhala wotsika mtengo kwambiri.
Zokhumba zosakwaniritsidwe
Vuto lalikulu kwa amayi ndikuti nthawi zambiri samapita kwa wogonana. Kwa amayi makumi asanu amai amagwiritsa ntchito katswiri. Ndipo, kawirikawiri, zimamveka chifukwa chake: kutsanzira kukakamizidwa kumakhala kovuta kwambiri kuposa chiwonongeko. Amuna ambiri samakayikira ngakhale pang'ono kuti akazi awo sadziwa kanthu pa ubwenzi wawo, makamaka, "kulekerera". Nthawi zambiri zimachitika: mwamuna amaganiza kuti mkazi wake ndi wokwiya, ndipo iye, amatembenuka, ndi wokonda chabe. Ndipotu, mavuto okhudza kugonana kwa amayi ndi akulu kuposa amuna, koma amangowawonera okha opatsirana pogonana. Mwinamwake, akatswiri a maganizo kapena opatsirana maganizo amagwira ntchitoyi, koma osati madokotala-azimayi.
Ngati amayi amabweranso ku ofesi ya kugonana, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri amadandaula ndi mavuto okhudza kugonana - kusalidwa (anorgasmia) kapena kuchepetsa chilakolako chogonana (libido). Mwa njira, kafukufuku amasonyeza kuti 16 peresenti ya amayi ndi omwe amamva zolaula ndi kugonana, ndi kugonana kwachiwiri - 22%, ndipo sadayambe kugonana pafupi 18%. Anorgasmia ingayambidwe chifukwa chodziŵa zambiri za mnzanuyo, zochitika zalamulo, zowawa pakati pa chibwenzi, kusakwanira kokondana, kukonza mkati, kapenanso njira yotupa m'mimba. Nthawi zina nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta. Pazochitika zonsezi, kufufuza bwinobwino kwa wodwalayo ndikofunikira.
Ikani pansi pa belt
Kwa zaka 30 m'magulu opatsirana pogonana, palibe chilichonse chatsopano, ndipo amuna amabwera kwa akatswiri omwe ali ndi mavuto ofanana ndi awa: kufooka kosalekeza ndi kukwera msanga. Nazi zifukwa zambiri. Tiyenera kulingalira nthawi yovuta yomwe tikukhalamo. Kusokonezeka kunakhala kofunika kwambiri, ndipo, poyamba, kumenyedwa pa thanzi la munthu.
Kawirikawiri, amuna a zaka zapakati pa 20 ndi 35 amapempha thandizo, ngakhale kuti zimabwera kuti adzichepetse komanso achikulire. Achinyamata ena amanjenjemera atayamba kugonana, ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala kuti munthu wakhala akuvutika ndi matenda opatsirana kwa zaka 40 ndipo pakali pano, ali ndi zaka zoposa 70, potsirizira pake adaganiza zobwera.
Posachedwapa, pakati pa abambo muli otchedwa syndrome. Ntchito yovuta ndi nkhawa zimapangitsa kuti amuna asachepetse ngakhale ndi mwayi, komanso zikhumbo. Izi ndi zoona makamaka kwa anthu amalonda. Amakhala osagonana mobwerezabwereza kusiyana ndi omwe amagwira ntchito momasuka m'madera ena. Ndipo, mwachiwonekere, si malipiro kapena zaka, koma zimakhala zolemetsa. Amuna "amangotentha." Kumbukirani boma pamene munayenera kukayezetsa. Kodi izo zisanayambe kugonana? Muvuto, munali ola limodzi kapena awiri, ndipo amunawa amakhala miyezi ndi zaka. Mavuto kwa iwo - mwachindunji, kutuluka kwa mavuto a kugonana kwa anthu okwatirana.
Nthawi zina chirichonse chimathetsedwa mosavuta: kupita, kupumula, ndi chirichonse chinkawoneka chachilendo. Tsoka, kwa kanthawi kochepa - kubwerera kuntchito, kubwerera ndi mavuto. Koma ngakhale pakati pa anthu, sikuti aliyense akufulumira kuti alankhule nafe kuti atithandize. Kumbali imodzi, pali "akatswiri" omwe sali okonzedweratu mu dongosolo la chithandizo chamankhwala, ndipo, kwina, mankhwala omwe amawapangitsa iwo kumverera ngati munthu wokhutira. Tengani ngakhale Viagra yotchuka. Nthaŵi ina dokotala wina anati: "Kuoneka kwa Viagra ndiko kufa kwa kugonana kwa kugonana." Zaka zingapo zapitazo mu lipoti la mndandanda wathu wa ma pharmacy adadziwika kuti mankhwalawa ali pakati pa khumi omwe amagulitsidwa kwambiri m'dzikoli. Tangoganizirani anthu angati omwe akuvutika ndi kukhumudwa! Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, odwala m'magulu opatsirana pogonana anayamba kuchepa. Sindikufuna kuti anthu apitirize kulakwitsa, chifukwa palibe mankhwala otere omwe angachiritse matenda.
Vuto limodzi kwa awiri
Kulankhulana za mgwirizano m'banja, ponena za maubwenzi apabanja, timatanthauza banja lonse, pamene vuto ligawidwa muwiri ndipo vuto la mmodzi mwa okwatirana ndilo limodzi. Sitingathe kufotokozera zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana kwa anthu okwatirana m'dziko lathu - kufufuza kwakukulu kumafunikira apa, ndipo izi ndizo ndalama zambiri. Ife tiri ndi ziwerengero zokha za Kumadzulo. Panopa vutoli ndi lofala kwa ife, tingathe kuweruza, malinga ndi chiwerengero cha olembapo.
Mwamwayi, zaka zaposachedwapa, amai sawopsya kwambiri chifukwa cha vuto la kugonana pakati pawo. Amuna amasiyidwa okha ali ndi vuto lawo, ndipo panthawiyi, chiwerengero cha ubale wogonana kunja kwa mkazi pakati pa akazi, malinga ndi kafukufuku wina, chawonjezeka pafupifupi theka. Pafupifupi zaka 30 zapitazo zinthu zinali zosiyana. Mabanja anali amphamvu, ndipo panalibe mabanja ochepa. Banjali linasungirana. Munthu wina atakhumudwa, anabwera ku phwando ndi mkazi wake. Nthawi zina akazi ankafika pa zokambirana poyamba, ndiye abambowo anatumizidwa.
Kuwonjezera apo, lero pafupifupi azimayi pa atatu aliwonse amachititsa "kugwedeza" khalidwe la kugonana. Zikhale kuti ngakhale munthu wathanzi sangathe kuchita zachiwerewere. Amayi awa samakopeka ndi mgwirizano wapamtima ndi mwamuna, koma ndi "malipiro" omwe angapezeke. Ndipo iwo amawona ntchito yawo kuti asadzipatse okha ndipo mwamunayo akusangalala, koma kuti azipangitsa mwa iye kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa: "Izo sizinagwire ntchito pabedi - ntchito!" Ndipo "amagwira ntchito" - mphatso, ndalama kapena katundu. Ndipo ngati iye, mwachibadwa, adzachira, mkaziyo adzapindula. Choncho, akaziwa samalola anthu kuchiritsidwa, ziribe kanthu momwe dokotala amayesera. Koma kuti mumvetsetse, kaya zikuchitika kapena zimachitika kwenikweni, n'zotheka, pambali pake, pokhapokha mutagwirizana. Palibe malo ena padziko lapansi omwe ali ogwira ntchito yogonana okhaokha omwe amapanga chithandizo chogonana. Izi ndizochitika kwa anthu awiri. Ndipo ubale wamphamvu m'banja umadalira momwe mwamuna ndi mkazi alili okonzeka kuchita nawo miyoyo ya wina ndi mzake.