Mwatsoka, chikondi sichibweretsa chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe nthawi zonse. Anthu ena zimawavuta kuti azikonda, ndipo ena, mosiyana, samadziwa momwe angasiyire chikondi ndi kuchotsa malingaliro omwe samabweretsa chikhutiro cha makhalidwe. Pambuyo pake, nthawi zambiri pamakhala zochitika pamene chikondi chimabwera mwadzidzidzi osati konse kwa munthu amene ayenera. Ndiyeno akazi amayamba kuvutika ndi mafunso okhudza momwe angasiyire kukonda ndi kupirira imfa yotereyi? Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri pali funso: Kodi mungaleke bwanji kukonda mnzanu kuntchito?
Ndipotu, vuto ngatilo ndilolimodzi lovuta kwambiri. Ngati nthawi zina, wokondedwa sangaoneke kapena kumva, yesetsani kuiwala za iye, ndiye kuntchito nthawi zonse timayenera kuwoloka, kukambirana, kuthetsa mavuto ena. Kuti mumvetsetse momwe mungasiyire kukonda mnzanu kuntchito, nkofunika kuphunzira malamulo ena, omwe ayenera kutsatira nthawi zonse.
Kuyankhulana ndi bizinesi yokha
Woyamba wa iwo - palibe kukambirana kwenikweni ndi mawonetseredwe a chidwi. Kulankhulana kuntchito ndi munthu amene mumamverera, nthawi zonse muzidziletsa. Kuti ugwe mu chikondi, iwe uyenera kuphunzira kuphunzira naye, monga ndi wogwira ntchito wamba. Choncho, mukulankhulana, musalole kuti mumveketseke kawiri, ngakhale zowonongeka. Kawirikawiri, mungathe kudziletsa komanso kuzizira. Zoonadi, izi sizosangalatsa kwambiri kwa oyankhulana, koma mwa inu muyenera kusiya zonse zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti muzimva bwino. Kuonjezerapo, ngati mukudziwa kuti wogwira ntchitoyo akukumana ndi malingaliro ena, ndi kumwetulira kwanu ndi nthabwala zosaneneka mumupatsa chiyembekezo, chimene simungachilole. Choncho, dziyang'anireni nokha ndipo musalole chirichonse chopanda pake. Kulankhulana kwanu kuyenera kukhala kokha malonda.
Musayang'ane misonkhano
Chachiwiri, yesetsani kumuwona mnzanu wokondedwa mochepa. Inde, kuntchito izi si zophweka kuchita. Koma yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito mpata uliwonse kuti musamayanjane naye. Mwachibadwa, okonda onse amafuna kuyang'ana pa chinthu chomwe amamva. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zolakwa zoyambirira komanso zofunika kwambiri. Kotero, inu mumadzipatsa nokha chiyembekezo chopanda chidziwitso. Simusowa kuyang'ana njira yowonera mnzanuyo. M'malo mwake, ngati mutagwira ntchito m'maofesi osiyanasiyana, yesetsani kulowa m'gawo lawo.
Kuntchito - ntchito
Chachitatu, kumbukirani kuti mwabwera kudzagwira ntchito kuti mugwire ntchito. Musalole nokha maloto, kuganiza ndi kudandaula. Yesetsani kutenga maudindo ena, kotero kuti mutu wanu ukhale ndi zinthu zovuta, osati ndi kuusa moyo. Yesetsani kuganizira kwambiri ntchito. Musalole kuti mupumule zambiri. Inde, kugwira ntchito mopitirira malire, koma mofulumira kwambiri kumaponyera malingaliro onse osafunika kuchokera mmutu mwanga. Mukaona kuti mwasokonezeka kuntchito, dzikani nthawi yomweyo, yesetsani kuika maganizo anu pazifukwa zilizonse, musapereke zotsalira. Mwachibadwa, izi sizingakhale zosavuta, koma m'kupita kwa nthaŵi mudzapeza mosavuta komanso mosavuta kudziletsa nokha.
Ngati antchito anu, kuphatikizapo mnzako, akukonda kudya masana pamalo omwewo, muyenera kusiya kuthamanga kotereku. Kulankhulana kosavomerezeka kumabwerera ndipo muzochitikazi mudzabwereranso ku malingaliro anu achikondi, mukuyang'ana mnzanu. Kotero, sankhani nokha malo ena oti muzitha kupuma, zomwe sizikukumbutsani za chikondi chanu.
Ndipo chinthu chomaliza kukumbukira ndi chakuti musayese kukakamiza mnzanu wina. Pankhaniyi, pali ngozi kuti chifundocho chidzasintha, koma kumverera komweku kumapitiriza kukubweretsani ululu. Inde, iwo akunena kuti mphero imagwedezeka ndi mphete, koma izi zimangogwira ntchito pamene maganizo amadzuka okha ndipo amatha. Kotero mmalo mofunafuna chikondi chatsopano, ingophunzira kudziletsa nokha ndi kuyang'ana pa ntchito. Ndipo pambuyo pa ntchito mutha nthawi yambiri ndi abwenzi ndi abambo, chitani zinthu zomwe mumakonda. Kotero mudzaiwala za chikondi chanu mofulumira ndipo posakhalitsa mungathe kuyankhulana ndi chinthu chomwe mumamva, monga ndi antchito wamba.