Ntchito yopambana mu lingaliro lachimuna nthawi zambiri imafanana ndi asphalt yomwe imayikidwa pa bedi la moyo wa banja. Koma ngati mayi wa banjayo akuchita bwino monga bizinesi, amatha kuchita zonse kuti asinthe bridgehead monga munda wamaluwa omwe ntchitoyo imakondwera ngati ana osangalala, amphaka ndi agalu akuthamangira udzu wofewa, ndipo akuluakulu amasangalala nawo alimi wamunda wa paradaiso uyu ...
Kulephera kwa amayi
Monga mukudziwira, malingaliro a mapulani oterowo mu moyo amafuna kuti amayi azichita khama - izi ndizochitika zamakono. M'mawonekedwe owuma a ziwerengero, ndalama zopanda chitsimikizozi zimabisika pambuyo pa chiwerengero chabwino cha 50 - amayi amodzi okha ogwira ntchito amagwiritsidwa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku ndi ntchito ndi banja kusiyana ndi amuna. Izi zikutanthauza kuti onse kuntchito ndi kunyumba mkazi amagwira ntchito ziwiri. Ndipo palibe chifukwa chofotokozera zomwe mgwirizanowu ukuchita - pafupifupi theka la amai nthawi zonse amagwira ntchito panyumba, ndipo ntchito zapakhomo zimatha patatha pakati pausiku kuti agwire zonse.
Chifukwa cha ichi, zilakolako za amai ndizovuta kwambiri kuzigwiritsa ntchito kuposa amuna - muzinthu izi, kusagwirizana kosayenera kwa amuna ndi akazi kumafotokozedwa. Chifukwa amayi ambiri amakakamizidwa kuwerengera phazi lililonse. Koma funso lalikulu, mwinamwake, tonsefe timamveketsa kuti: "Choyamba, mukhale ndi ana, ndiyeno pangani ntchito, kapena mosiyana?" Koma yankho likudalira kuti ndani yemwe ali woyenera.
Njira yogwirira ntchito
Pofuna njira yoyamba kuti zifukwa zomveka bwino madokotala anganene - kubwezeretsa kubadwa kwa mwana "pakapita nthawi", ndithudi, n'kotheka, koma nthawi zina nthawiyi imakhala yosakwanira. Kwa katswiri pa osankhidwa, kupezeka kwa ana mwa mwana kumatanthauza kuti posachedwapa sichidzapita ku lamulolo. Koma zotsutsa za "careerist" zikuwoneka zofunikira kwambiri: muyenera kuyamba "kuwuka", ndiyeno "kukhala pansi" kuti musakhale ndi mavuto ena azachuma. M'mawu ena, ozunzidwa sangapeweke. Kawirikawiri, mtengo wawo - zovuta kudziimba mlandu, kufunafuna amayi-careerists. Ena sanamve ana awo akunena mawu awo oyambirira, ena sanaone choyamba cha mwana wawo, wachitatu sanakumbukire dzina la mphunzitsi wa kalasiyo. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, izi ndi zoona: ochepa nthawi zambiri amadandaula kuti ana a mabwana akulepheretsa makolo awo kuthana ndi ntchito. Pa nthawi yomweyo, atsogoleli aakazi amatsutsidwa kaŵirikaŵiri monga amuna. Ngakhale kuti madandaulo onsewa, makampani ambiri ndi makampani ambiri ali okonzeka kukumana ndi makolo ogwira ntchito kuti awathandize kukwaniritsa ntchito zawo zapakhomo. Chithandizo chophatikizapo chithandizochi chimaphatikizapo inshuwalansi ya zachipatala kwa mamembala, masiku ena a "ana" a tchuti, mphotho zapadera zomwe zimaperekedwa pamisasa ya ana komanso malo ochitira misonkhano. Njira yofewa imasonyezanso kuti antchito a makampani ena ndi makampani angathe kubweretsa ana awo ku ofesi, ngati kuli kofunikira, kubweretsa mwana wawo kuntchito, m'malo mokhala naye kunyumba, kapena kuti atenge nthawi kuti azigwira ntchito, monga mwachitsanzo, kukhala ndi msonkhano wa makolo ku sukulu kapena sukulu. Ndipo akuluakulu a boma amayang'ana izi kudzera mwala zawo - malinga ngati ntchitoyo yachitidwa moyenera komanso pa nthawi. Koma kuthandiza kwanuko kumayesa kugwirizanitsa ntchito ndi banja ndikutsika pansi pa mwala wowala wa moyo wazimayi tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo ngati mwala uwu umapangika, mkaziyo ayenera kuganiza molimba kuposa kudzaza ming'alu iyi. Kwa moyo wawo wonse, sizingasokonezeke, amayi adayesetsa kuti apindule ndi amayi onse a bizinezi, ndi bwino kumvetsera malangizo a omwe apambana nkhondoyi.
Nambala ya nambala 1 Mukamakhala ndi ana mwamsanga, mwayi wambiri wopitiliza ntchito, chifukwa chiwerengero cha akazi chimafika zaka 35-40.
Mfundo # 2 Ngati njirayi siyanu kwa inu, ndiye musanayambe mwana, pangani ntchito, osatambasulidwa.
Phunziro # 3 Pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana, pezani bwana wabwino, bwana kapena mlembi. Ngati mukufuna kuchita izo nokha, ndiye bwino kulipira mlembi.
Phunziro # 4 Ngati mukufuna kukhala ndi ana angapo, tenga nthawi yochuluka ya amayi oyembekezera. Chifukwa chake ndi chodziwikiratu: ana ambiri - nthawi yochuluka kwa iwo.
Momwe mungakhalire moyo wanu?
Kodi mkazi, kuphatikiza ntchito ndi banja, sangamve "akuthamangitsidwa ndi kavalo"? Mwinamwake! Chinthu chachikulu ndichokonzekera chirichonse. Mndandanda wa amayi azimayi pa chaka cha sukulu umakhala ndi ndondomeko inayake, masiku ena - kusambira ndi kuvina, kwinakwake - Chingerezi ndi nthawi yaulere. Khalani osasintha osasintha, kuphika, ntchito. Yesetsani kusokoneza ntchito ya banja, chifukwa poyamba, banja ndi mavuto ake, koma pa nthawi yomweyi siyeneranso kukula kuntchito. Musalole kuti khalidwe lake livutike. Kwa zaka zambiri, akatswiri amapanga malamulo: kuti m'mawa panalibe vuto lililonse, zokonzekera zonsezi zimachitika madzulo. Ngati mukukonzekera tchuthi, konzekerani izi: gulani mphatso, ganizirani pulogalamuyo. Ndizovuta kwambiri, pamene zonse zili pamphindi womaliza, zimakhala zovuta komanso zosangalatsa. Komabe n'zotheka kutanthauzira maola onse mphindi 7 patsogolo. Chifukwa chakuti ndi anthu ambiri zimakhala zovuta kutuluka nthawi - nthawi iliyonse munthu amathyola. Kawirikawiri, izo zinadziwika kalekale: makamaka mkazi ayenera kukhala pa nthawi, momwe iye aliri wokonzeka kwambiri. Amangodziwa kuti lero simungathe kupumula, ndiye kuti mumaganizira kwambiri.
Mwachitsanzo, zikuwoneka kuti kuchita masewera kwa inu ndi ntchito yopanda malire. Kamodzi. Ndipo zinapezeka kuti mukhoza kupita ku dziwe pa 8:30 - pasanayambe ntchito muli ndi nthawi yosambira. Poyamba, nthawi zonse mumatumiza aliyense kumsukulu, sukulu yam'nyumba komanso ora lonse akupita kukagwira ntchito. Izi ndizo nthawi yabwino kwambiri: mungathe kumwa mowa mwabwino, dzipangire nokha. Koma ngati mutachoka panyumbamo ndi aliyense, ndiye kuti mutha kukhala ola limodzi mu dziwe kapena masewera olimbitsa thupi - mumachoka kumeneko ndipo ndinu wonyada! Zomwezo ndi kumapeto kwa sabata: mukhoza kukhala tsiku lonse pakhomo pamutu wakuti "Ndikuyeretsa!" Ndipo palibe chofunika kuchita. Ndipo mukhoza kulingalira ndikukonzekera lero kuti muthandize ana kuti aphunzire, apite ku rink, ndi kuphika mkatewo madzulo, ndi kumwa tiyi pamodzi. Ndipo, ndithudi, munthu sayenera kusiya thandizo la achibale: alole makolowo amuthandize, alole mwamuna kukhala nawo mbali pazochitika zonse za pabanja.
Kodi mkazi angagwirizane ntchito ndi banja lake zolinga zake ndi njira zake zowakwaniritsira? Mkazi aliyense mwanjira imeneyi ali ndi njira yake. Ndipo mphamvu ya aliyense wa ife ndi yodabwitsa. Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsa zomwe mukulimbana ndi zomwe mumakonda komanso moyo wanu. Popeza poyamba kuti mkazi aliyense wabwino ndi banja komanso ana, ndiye bizinesi ikugwirizana ndi ana. Komanso, ana akhoza kutenga nawo mbali pantchito! Aphatikizidwe muzitukuko, thandizo lothandizira ku ofesi. Inde, izi zimagwira ntchito kwa ana okalamba. Ndipo isanafike m'badwo uno iwo ayenera kukhala okwera mtengo kwambiri. Komano, mutasankha nokha ngati mkazi angathe kugwirizanitsa ntchito ndi banja, mutha kuchotsa chosowa choti musankhe njira yanu. Zasankhidwa kale. Yesetsani cholinga - ndipo chidzakwaniritsidwa.