Kugonana pamlomo.
Tsopano ndi kovuta kuganiza kuti wina akhoza kuchita manyazi ndi katatu. Kugonana kwachangu kwakhala nthawi yaitali kukhala chikhumbo chofunika kwambiri cha lask wapamtima. Koma, zikuchitika, ngakhale masiku athu alipo anthu amene amaona kuti kugonana ndikamwa n'kosavomerezeka. Kawirikawiri izi ndi zotsatira za kulera mwamphamvu m'banja. Nthawi zambiri makolo amauza ana kuti kugonana ndi chirichonse chokhudzana ndi izo, ngati si zonyansa, ndiye kuti ndizosavomerezeka kwambiri. Si mwambo wolankhula za izi, kukambirana mavutowa. Choncho, timapampampu timapangidwira kuti tisamakhale achikulire.
Ngati mwasokonezeka ndi kusowa kwa chidziwitso, ndiye mutha kuthetsa vutoli mwa njira imodzi - kuyesera ndi kuyesa. Anthu ena amaphunzitsa zamasamba asanawonetse luso lawo kwa munthu wamoyo. Ngati mantha anu amayamba chifukwa chosemphana, ndiye ayambani ndi chizolowezi chopsompsona, phunzirani pansi. Musamafulumire ndipo musadziteteze nokha kuntchito. Ngati ndinu wamanyazi, titsani kuwala. Mu mdima wambiri simudzawoneka kuti silovomerezeka.
Ngati mnzanuyo akupitirizabe, ndiye kuti mutha kudziletsa nokha, ndikuika dzanja lanu pansi pa mbolo.
Chiwerewere.
Dera ili likuletsedwa kwa mabanja ambiri. Wina amaona kuti kugonana koteroko ndi koyipa, wina ndi wotsimikiza kuti izi sizikusangalatsa komanso zowononga, ndizovulaza.
Muyenera kudziwa kuti kugonana kwa abambo sikuli kwa aliyense amene amakonda, ndipo palibe chodandaula ngati simukukonda. Yesani ndikupeza ngati mukufuna. Kuti izi zitheke, muyenera kukhulupirira kwathunthu. Kugonana kotero sikuli pa ubale weniweni, makamaka ngati mulibe chidziwitso.
Chitani kaye kaye kawiri kawiri kawiri kawiri, ndipo mumayang'anitsitsa zowawa zanu. Ngati mutasankha zogonana, musamve chisoni ndi mafutawa komanso muzitha kulowera. Mukangokuvulazani, chirichonse chiyenera kuima kapena kusiya.
Zosewera zochokera ku shopu la kugonana.
Ngati muli okondana makamaka, ndiye kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito masewera olimbitsa thupi, mukhoza kukudodometsani. Inde, palibe chikondi mwa iwo, iwo ali ovuta kwambiri. Koma kodi ndi bwino kuchititsidwa manyazi ndi zolakalaka zanu?
Kuti mudziwe zomwe mwasangalala nazo, funsani munthu wokondedwa wanu kuti azikonzekera chikondi chapamwamba. Lolani usiku uyambe momwe mumakondera - zokongola, ma kandulo, mpeni, kusisita. Mukafika pamtunda waukulu, mumakhala wokonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito zolimbikitsa zina. Pamene mumakhala okondwa kwambiri, mumakonda kwambiri zomwe mukukumana nazo.
Yambani ndi kugwiritsa ntchito chinthu chosapitirira kwambiri, ndipo mubweretseni katunduyo pang'onopang'ono. Musayambe ndi kugwiritsa ntchito magulu a mantha, omwe cholinga chawo sichikuwonekera.
Kugonana kunja kwa nyumba.
Ngati mwangoyang'ana kamodzi kanema kanema, ndiye kuti, kumbukirani kuti masewera omwe anthu amasonyeza chikondi mu kanema kapena kanema ndi otchuka kwambiri. Pazenera zonse zimawoneka zokongola. Mu moyo, ndi kovuta kwambiri kusankha, pambali, ndizowopsya kuti mugwidwe mosadziwa.
Choyamba, muyenera kudziwa kuti ichi si chizindikiro cha kupotoka kapena chiphuphu, kungoyesera kupeza zokhudzidwa zatsopano. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chodera nkhawa chiyanjano chanu. Pezani malo kunja kwa nyumba kumene mungakhale pamtunda wotalikirana ndi maso. Sikoyenera kuchita izi mu chipinda choyenera kapena paki pakati pa mzinda, chifukwa pali malo ochepa kwambiri.
Ngati mmodzi wa inu akufuna kugonana kunja kwa nyumba kuti akhale pachibwenzi chokhazikika, mwina muyenera kuganiziranso ubale wanu, chifukwa wina nthawi zonse ayenera kusokoneza.
Muzogonana, zenizeni, palibe choipa ndi chodetsedwa ngati chiri chokondedwa ndi onse awiri. Kuyesera kungathandize ngati kuteteza kusintha, kumathandiza kwenikweni kulimbikitsa maubwenzi. Kotero kodi ndi koyenera kuti mantha a zomwe mamiliyoni a anthu asangalala nazo?