Koma zambiri mwazimenezi zimakhudzidwa mwadzidzidzi, komanso zimawotcha. Anthu okonda kusinthanitsa amamasuka mosasangalatsa, kenako amasiya ngakhale kusinthanitsa nambala za foni.
Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Bwanji, kuchokera ku kuwala kowala kwa chidwi, chifundo (ndipo ndithudi chinali), sizinatanthauze kuti sikunali moto, ngakhale moto wofooka? Zifukwa zikhoza kukhala zingapo, tidzakambirana zafala kwambiri. Kotero, chilakolako, kugonana kwa usiku umodzi ndi zifukwa khumi.
1. Chilakolako chachilengedwe ndi kugonana kwa kugonana
Kawirikawiri, mabwenziwo samangoyamba kukhazikitsa kuti apitirize chiyanjano. Kugonana kwa usiku umodzi - sikuli chinthu chokha, kotero, njira yosiyana kwambiri ndi moyo wamba. Kaŵirikaŵiri mikangano yotere imagwira ntchito ndi amuna omwe safuna kukhala omangidwa ndi chibwenzi cholimba. Amachita mantha ndi mawu akuti "chikondi", udindo waukulu kwambiri, womwe umayambitsa chikondi chachikondi.
Misonkhano yopanda malire ikugwirizana nawo kwambiri kuposa amayi ena. Ambiri omwe ali ndi ntchito komanso moyo wapadziko. Pa ubale wa azimayi samangokhala ndi nthawi, koma ayenera kukhutira.
Kugonana pogonana - chinthu chofala kwambiri. Kawirikawiri okonda nthawi zina amayembekezera kunyumba kuti azikhala nawo nthawi zonse.
2. Kusakhutitsidwa
Zosangalatsa, koma zimachitika choncho. Chisangalalo, chomwe chirichonse chinayambika kwenikweni - sichinalandire. Muzikumbukiro panali kokha: kukambirana kokondweretsa, chithunzithunzi cha kumwetulira kwa mnzanu, kuyamba koopsa kwa chikondi choyang'ana patsogolo komanso kumapeto kofulumira kapena kothamanga kwambiri. Mu liwu - kusamvana. Kotero inu mukufuna kufotokoza mwamphamvu kuti: - "Khalani chete, msonkhano wathu unali kulakwitsa! "Ndipo mwansangala ndikusiya ntchito. Koma mu chikhalidwe chitukuko ndi chizoloŵezi chogawana nzeru. Wothandizana naye sangaganize ngakhale kuti sakuchita zomwe mukuyembekezera. Musamukhumudwitse mwachinsinsi chake. N'zotheka kuti simunayandikire wina ndi mzake, ndipo ndi mnzanu wina, zonsezi zidzasintha bwino kwambiri. Kusagwirizana kwa thupi sikunali kozolowereka.
Zikatero, ndi bwino kuchoka pamalangizo olimbikitsa: kutenga nambala ya foni ndikulonjeza kubwereranso, kumwetulira kokoma kumasowa pakhomo.
3. okonda abwenzi
Chabwino, ndani amene ananena kuti ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi sizingatheke? Mudziko lino, palibe chomwe sichingatheke. Inde, mwamuna ndi mkazi akhoza kukhalabe ndi mabwenzi a nthawi yaitali, omwe nthawi zonse sakhala nawo pachibwenzi. Ubwenzi wautali umakhala ngati ubale wa magazi. Mukuwona mwa mwamuna mbale kapena mlongo ndipo palibe maganizo, kupwetekedwa kwa mahomoni mukamayankhula naye simukumva. Choncho, abwenzi amakhala okonda nthawi zambiri. Monga lamulo, izi zimachitika mukumwa mowa, pamene zowona zimayambitsidwa kudzera mu ndondomeko ya ziwonetsero zosavuta. Chinthu china chofala ndi chitonthozo cha wokhumudwa. Ndipotu, kuthandizira mnzako ndi chibadwa chachibadwa, ndipo amuna akhoza kuthetsa amayi mwa njira imodzi.
4. Kugonana usiku ndi mowa
Kusakanikirana bwino. Kwa ambiri, kugonana ndi mowa ndizofanana, malingaliro omwe amatanthauza chinthu chofanana. Cinderellas wamakono akufunafuna akalonga m'mabwalo a usiku, ndipo atatha mabala oledzera angapo amapeza ... wokonda usiku umodzi. Kugonana mu chikhalidwe chomwecho sikungatheke kuti mupitirize kukhala ndi mfundo zomveka kapena ngakhale kumaliza kukwanitsa. M'maŵa, abwenzi sangathe kuzindikira wina ndi mzake, chifukwa maanja okwatirana amatha kukongoletsa choonadi ndi luntha lalikulu.
5. Zizolowezi ndi Zoipa
Nthawi zina munthu wokongola, wokondweretsa amakomera mtima poyang'ana poyamba. Koma kuchokera kwachiwiri, amapezeka kuti amamwa komanso amacheza. Musawope ngati simukupitiriza kukhala pachibwenzi, ndizo zizoloŵezi izi zingathe kupweteka ndi mphindi yokondana. Maganizo a amuna amasiyana ndi azimayi, chifukwa chakuti amatha kumva zambiri za miseche yatsopano za anthu otchuka, kuziyika mofatsa, ndi zochepa. Chomwechonso, wokondana naye amakumana ndi mavuto. Mwamuna amatha kupitiliza kutuluka kwa mawu kamodzi kamodzi, ngati njira yokhayo yopezeramo "thupi". Koma m'mawa, mtsikana yemwe amalankhulana sayenera kuwerengera kuti apitirizebe kumwa, komanso amayi omwe amamwa mowa mopitirira muyeso.
6. Kulephera kwathunthu
Pa chifukwa chilichonse, munthu sangathe kuzindikira chilakolako chake cha thupi. Zinthu sizikukondweretsa inu ndi zomvetsa chisoni kwa iye. Mwachidziwikire, kuyamba kumeneku kwapitiriza, mosakayikira sikudzachitika.
7. Kodi kupezeka kulibe vuto?
Amuna ambiri amakopeka ndi kugonana komweko. Ndani angakane kuseka ngati mtsikanayo atagona pamutu pake? Palibe, koma lamulo ili limatha mausiku angapo - osakhalanso. Pakati penipeni mumagulu a chigonjetso cholimba mumasungiramo kukumbukira makolo makolo awo - osaka, omwe amayamikira zomwe zinali ndi mtengo wapatali. Choncho, sikuli koyenera kuyembekezera amayi omwe angathe kugula pasipoti. Izi zimagwira ntchito kwa mwamuna wamwamuna wokongola. Msungwana wamkulu, osati wokonda kupita kuzinthu, sangagwirizanitse moyo wake ndi munthu wosasamala komanso wosafunikira. Chabwino, kodi mwamuna wake ndi bambo ake ndi chiyani?
8. Ndipo ndife osiyana kwambiri!
Chifukwa chake ndi banal, koma chifukwa chake anthu amagawanika. Zizolowezi zosiyana, malingaliro, malingaliro, biorhythms. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kusatheka ndi kusafuna kusokoneza.
9. Kulera
Aliyense amadziwa zomwe zingatheke chifukwa cha kugonana kosatetezeka ndi wokondedwa. Ndipo komabe kwa anthu ambiri kugwiritsa ntchito kondomu kumagwirizana ndi feat. Kuchita kuchita izi ndi mkazi kumatha kuwonetsa ngati chiwonetsero cha kudzikonda ndi kusasamala, zomwe sizikongoletsa wokondedwa pamaso pake.
Momwemo, pamene mkazi amanyalanyaza "chitetezero", mwamuna akhoza kumuganizira kuti akufuna kukhala ndi mwana, ngakhale kuti zolinga zake siziphatikizapo abambo.
10. Wokondedwa
Anthu otere ali pabedi amathamanga kukwaniritsa zokhumba zawo zokha, ponyalanyaza kwathunthu malingaliro ndi zokhumba za wokondedwa. Mwachibadwa, palibe amene angafune kukhala ndi chibwenzi chokhalitsa ndi munthu woteroyo.
Nazi zifukwa khumi zomwe zimachititsa kuti anthu omwe aloŵerera mwachangu, posachedwa adzagawanike. Koma ngati lawi lavunda pakati pa zipsinjo za chifundo, ndiye palibe chifukwa chomwe chingalepheretse kukhala okwatirana okondwa.