Kuopa "nthawi yoyamba"
Kuopa kugonana koyamba ndi kosavuta, koma kungakhale vuto lalikulu. Mwachitsanzo, amuna akuwopa kuti sipadzakhalanso erection, amayi akuwopa kuti sadzawona chisokonezo. Komabe, monga momwe amasonyezera, mantha a "nthawi yoyamba" ali amphamvu kwambiri, ochepa omwe amadziwana nawo. Choncho, ngati mukuopa kwambiri lingaliro la kuyandikana ndi wokondedwa wanu, musafulumire zinthu. Dziwani bwino bwino.
Amagulu opatsirana pogonana amalangiza amayi asanalowe kugonana kuti ataya mwachangu maganizo awo pa zovuta zomwe zingakhalepo pabedi. Pokhapo ndi chisankho cholimba, dzikanizeni nokha kuganizira za izi - ndizo zonse. Ngati ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu mutha kukambirana za mantha anu mwamtendere popanda nkhawa, zingakhale bwino. Izi ziri choncho, mulimonsemo, chotsani-nokha kapena mwa kuthandizidwa ndi mnzanu - kuchokera ku maganizo osokonezeka. Musagone ndi katundu wolemera. Ndipo njira yothetsera vuto lililonse, kuphatikizapo iyi, ndikuti mukhale nokha nthawi zonse. Musamayerekeze kuti ndinu munthu wina, koma khalani omasuka ndi omasuka.
Koma ngakhale kuti mulibe mantha anu oyamba, musaiwale mavuto a munthu wokondedwa wanu. Chifukwa inu nokha mungamuthandize kuthana nawo bwinobwino. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi, amamuletsa, ndikumuuza mwachidwi malingaliro ake a demokarasi pa kukula kwa ulemu wa amuna. Kuwonjezera apo, malingana ndi oimira za kugonana kolimba, mkazi amawathandiza kuthana ndi nkhawa, poyang'anira mosamala zofuna za mnzanuyo, kuyamba kuwatsitsa.
Zojambula za malo ogona
Mukhoza kulimbikitsa zowawa komanso kuchepetsa mavuto omwe mwakhala nawo mukuyembekezera malo ogona, ngati mutayandikira pakhomo lachisangalalo chosangalatsa ndi malo oyenera. Choyamba, onetsetsani kuti chilengedwe chimakhala bwino ngati inu - akazi. Ndipotu, pokhapokha mutakhala ndi mwayi wochulukitsa mwayi wokondweretsa ubwenzi, womwe udzathetseratu mavuto. Ndiyeno samalirani kuti mupange mwayi kwa amuna.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zothandiza musanalowe kugonana kuti muyambe kuwala. Ndibwino kuti, kanizani makandulo. Njira yakale yovomerezeka yokhala ndi chikhalidwe cha chikondi idzachepetsa kwambiri jitters chifukwa chodziwika bwino. Ndipo kuchoka ku "nthawi yoyamba" mawonedwe osakwanira kwa zaka zambiri. Musanagonane, onetsetsani kuti mufunseni ngati mwamunayo sakulepheretsa TV kapena nyimbo yomwe akufuna kumvetsera pa nthawi yovuta imeneyi. Ndipo ziribe kanthu konse yemwe akuyendera ndani. Ngakhale mutakhala m'gawo lawo, kukonza gawo limodzi lokhazikika ndi ntchito ya mkazi.
Monga zosankha, funsani mnzanuyo kuti ayambe kusewera masewera achikondi ndi njira zamadzimodzi - pamsambidwe kapena mu kusamba. Inde, ngati inu nokha mulibe chirichonse chotsutsa izo. Ndibwino kuyambitsanso zokambirana zolimbitsa thupi musanafike pakamwa. Kawirikawiri kapu ya champagne imathandiza kuthetsa vutoli. Koma izi zikutsutsana ndi ana!
Musaiwale lamulo loyamba la chiyanjano cha chikondi: khalani mwachibadwa. Nanga bwanji ngati mukugonana kwa nthawi yoyamba komanso simukudziwa momwe mungachitire pabedi? Khulupirirani chikhalidwe chanu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Khalani monga momwe chikhalidwe chanu chikufunira, ndipo osati momwe, mu chinyengo chanu, mayi aliyense wodzilemekeza yekha ayenera kuchita zinthu zoterezi. Komanso, malinga ndi amuna ambiri, palibe chimene chimagwira ntchito mofanana ndi iwo omwe amakhala okondana komanso okoma mtima omwe amasangalala ndi zomwe zachitika.
Poyambirira!
Amuna ndi abambo ambiri amavomereza kuti sangayambe kuyanjana mpaka atalandira kulandira chizindikiro kuchokera kwa anzawo. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi - mantha okana kukanidwa, zomwe zimaphatikizapo zowawa zina zambiri. Ngati mumaganiza kuti kugonana ndizomene mumasowa kwambiri mu ubale, musabise zofuna zanu. Khalani wofatsa ndi wokondedwa ndi mnzanuyo. Musaiwale kuti mumacheze naye maso - pambuyo pake, kuyang'ana mwachidwi kunganene zambiri za momwe mumamvera. Ngati inu kapena munthu wokondedwa simunakonzekere kugonana koyambirira, musamafulumire chochitika chofunika ichi. Zokwanira kukumbatira wokonda ndi kukupsompsona.
Ngati mwakonzekera kugonana koyamba, ndipo mnzanuyo sakuyang'anitsitsa, yesetsani, koma osati mwaukali. Sipadzakhala kulakwitsa kwakukuru ngati mutatenga dzanja lake ndi kuligwira pa gawo lirilonse la thupi lanu, kapena kumangirira malaya ake. Pomaliza, mungathe kunena za chikhumbo chanu ndi mauthenga otseguka - amuna ambiri onga iwo. Koma kumbukirani: nkofunikira kuchita izi pokhapokha mutatsimikiza kuti wokondedwa akugonjetsedwa ndi zilakolako zomwezo.
Siyani kapena mukhale?
Zinthu zomwe zimachitika mwamsanga chibwenzi choyambirira, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuposa chiyambi chake. Mwachitsanzo, aliyense amadziwa kuti amayi ambiri amadziwa kuti akuchotsa mnzawo mwamsanga ngati umboni womveka bwino wa momwe akumvera. Khalani kosavuta kuti akufuna kukusiyani mukatha kugonana. Chabwino, yesetsani ndikuganiza kuti angakhale ndi zinthu zina zoti achite! Ngati mumumiriza kuti akhale, kumbukirani: Amuna samakonda kwambiri. Osati kuwakonda iwo kulimbikitsana kulikonse pa ufulu wawo wamtengo wapatali. Musaganize kuti atatha kugonana, mwamuna uyu akuyenera kukwatira. Ndi munthu uyu amene akuwopa kwambiri! Ngati akuganiza kuti izi ndizo zomwe mukuganiza, adzathawa. Inde, iye akhoza kugonjera zofuna zanu zoumirira ndi kukhalabe pambuyo pa kukumana koyambirira koyambirira. Koma ichi ndi chitsimikizo kuti chachiwiri, mwinamwake, simudzakhala. Choncho kumasulirani kumbali zonse zinayi ndi mtima wosavuta. Pambuyo pake, ngati akadakhala bwino ndi inu, ndithudi adzabwerera. Eya, sikuti ndi wopusa ngati akufuna kudzipatulira yekha chimwemwe!
Musakhale chete ponena za mavuto ogona
Malinga ndi anthu ogonana, zolakwa zambiri za kugonana koyamba ndizokhala chete kwa abwenzi, ngati sakonda chinachake. Izi ndi zowona makamaka pa zakugonana koyamba - mavuto omwe angakhalepo pano akutsogoleredwa ndi kusowa kwa chidziwitso. Azimayi nthawi zambiri amanyazila kuvomereza kuti zochitika zina zogonana zimapangitsa kuti azivutika. Iwo amaganiza kuti akuchita chinachake cholakwika. Udindo wa wotsankho mu kufunsa mafunso, wogwiranso pakamwa pake, osungira nkhani ina.
Ngati mnzanu akuchita chinachake cholakwika kapena sangathe kulingalira zokhumba zanu - musakhale chete! Kumvetsetsa: Amakufunirani zabwino ndipo amafuna kusangalatsa. Koma kodi mungachite chiyani ngati amuna omwe ali mumsasa sakuwonekera bwino? Muuzeni zomwe mukuyembekeza kuti achite. Inu mudzawona - iye adzakumane nanu mwachikondi. Koma ngakhale pamene zonse zikuyenda bwino, sikungakhale zopanda pake kuuza mnzanu za izo. Chifukwa palibe chomwe chimatembenuza amuna ngati mawu a mkazi wokondedwa amene amamupangitsa kuti amusangalatse.
Muzimasuka ku thupi lanu
Chifukwa chofala kwambiri cha nkhaŵa ya amayi ndi mantha a kupanda ungwiro kwa thupi lawo, lomwe poyamba linawonekera mu umaliseche pamaso pa wokondedwa. Ngakhale sizikuwonekeratu chifukwa chake amayi adatenga, kuti amuna akusowa ma supermodels okha? Pambuyo pake, ngati zikanakhaladi zoona, onsewo akanagona ndi zidole za Barbie zomwe zingatheke. Ndipo popeza adakusankhani, zikutanthawuza kuti inu, mosakayikitsa, mumayang'ana maso ake okongola komanso okongola. Koma ngakhale mutakhulupirira kwambiri izi, kusokoneza pachiyambi cha masewera achikondi ndi mphindi yofunika kwambiri, kufunika kwake komwe sikungatheke. Ndicho chifukwa kutsatira malamulo ena kungakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ogwirizana pa bedi limodzi.
Koma zogulitsira, ndiye, malingana ndi kugonana kwa amuna, kwa nthawi yoyamba ziyenera kukhala zanzeru, koma osati zosewera. Zovuta kwambiri "zokongola" zovala zimapulumutsidwa kwa nthawi yayitali, chifukwa cha nthawi yowonjezereka, yomwe mungapeze, ngati chikondi chanu chidzayenda bwino. Malingana ndi umboni wa anthu ogonana, amuna ambiri amalandira masitomala pa lacy zotupa mabungwe, komanso ma thongs a lace. Koma bras pa ravu ya mphutsi pamsinkhu wolimba samagonjetsedwa. Zimakwiyitsa kwambiri chifukwa cha kusiyana kwakukulu kwa kukula kwa mzakeyo asanayambe komanso kuchotsa chigawo ichi. Koma amayiwa omwe amazoloŵera kuchita popanda zovala zamkati povala mathalauza ndi kupuma pantchito, chifukwa choyambanso kugonana pachibwenzi koma akulimbikitsidwa kuvala. Ndiye, pamene wokondedwa wanu akhala wamuyaya, ichi ndi chizoloŵezi chanu chokongola chidzamuukitsa kwambiri. Koma, atapeza izi kwa nthawi yoyamba, munthu akhoza kudabwa modabwitsa. Sikunatchulidwe kuti pakadali pano mayiyo angawoneke kuti akupezeka kwa ena.
Chiyambi choyambirira kwa kugonana koyamba kungakhale kufanana kofanana, kochitidwa pang'onopang'ono, pamene abwenzi akuchotsa pang'onopang'ono chinthucho kuchokera ku chinthucho. Kukonzekera kotereku kumathandizira kungolimbikitsa chidwi. Chabwino, za kuchotsa zovala zomwe zimachokera kwa wina ndi mzake ndipo simunena kanthu - m'mabuku a okonda masewera, njirayi imangotengedwa ngati yachikale chabe. Zoonadi, liwiro la ndondomekoyi siinatchulidwe, chifukwa zonse zimayendetsedwa ndi chikhalidwe cha maphwando. Koma ngati onse awiri ali ndi manyazi, posakhalitsa izi zimachitika bwino.
Kupewa
Amuna oyamba kugonana amachititsa mavuto omwe angakhale nawo okhudzana ndi mimba yosafuna. Ngati muli ndi nkhawa pa nkhani ya chitetezo ku mimba kapena matenda, ndiye kuti muli ndi funso logwiritsa ntchito kondomu. Yambani kukambirana nkhaniyi mwamsanga mukazindikira kuti ndi nkhani yachibwenzi. Musati muzichotsere mpaka mtsogolo, pamene chilakolako chidzadzaza. Tavomereza, ndizosautsa kuti tisokonezedwe ndi kukambirana kwa bizinesi pamapeto pake. Ndipo kawirikawiri, ndibwino kuti muzindikire momwe mnzanuyo akuonera njira yotetezera. Pambuyo pake, ngati amakana mwachindunji kuchokera kwa iye, mudzakhala ndi njira imodzi yokhayo - kuchoka mumalingaliro enieni. Koma ngakhale ndi njira yothetsera vutoli, musaiwale zotsatirazi. Ngakhale kuti abambo enieni nthawi zonse amakhala ndi makondomu nawo, zingakhale bwino ngati muwasungira pasadakhale, ngati mutero. Ponena za kugwiritsira ntchito mwachindunji nkhaniyi, ndiye, monga mwa amuna, amakondwera kwambiri pamene mkazi amawathandiza kuigwirizanitsa. Choncho, konzekerani, mwachitsanzo, pa nthochi.
Kwa kugonana kwa nthawi yoyamba mkazi ali ndi zokumbukira zabwino zokha, musalole kuti chochitika ichi chokha. Konzani pasadakhale ndipo madzulo ano mukhale wapadera!