Ngakhale amuna akulemba zozizwitsa zokhazokha monga "Zolakwa makumi anayi za amuna ogona", amai amafunika kudziyang'ana okha kunja ndikuzindikira kuti munthuyo si robot osati ng'ombe yobereketsa. Sitiyenera kukhala angwiro ndikuganiza kuchokera ku theka la mwala zokhumba zanu zonse. Makamaka ngati simunavutikepo kuganizira zomwe zimamukhumudwitsa, ndi zomwe akusowa.
Sungani ndi "logi"
Tsekani maso anu ndi kunama - ichi ndi chinthu choipitsitsa chimene mungachite. Mwamuna ayenera kudziwa kuti wokondedwa wake amavomereza naye kugonana, osati chifukwa cha kukhumudwa, koma chifukwa chakuti amafuna kuti aphedwe. Chikondi chanu chachikondi ndi chokondweretsa chiri cholandiridwa. Komanso kumapemphera mochokera pansi pa mtima, kupuma ndi kupuma kwachisangalalo. Koma chimene simukusowa kuchita ndi kufuula ngati kale ku Roma Coliseum. Maonekedwe, ngakhale kuti ndi abwino, koma osati pabedi.
Kulimba Mtima
Kukambirana moona mtima ndikobwino kuti titsogolere, kapena patatha kugonana, koma osati panthawi yogonana. Kulankhulana kotero mwamuna amadziona ngati wonyoza, amatsimikiza kuti ngati mkazi ali ndi chilakolako cholankhulana, ndiye kuti sakondwera naye. Dzizindikireni nokha lamulo limodzi lophweka, chinthu chachikulu chomwe mumaloledwa kunena pa nthawi yogonana ndi dzina la wokondedwa wanu, ndi mawu omvera. Kupempha "kokoma," "okondedwa" ndi mawu okondwa kwambiri. Mkhalidwe wa zonyansa ndi zokhutira zidzadalira pa msinkhu wa kunyansa kwanu. Ngati mukufuna kukambirana za bulawa yanu yatsopano pakadutsa njirayi, njira yabwino ndikugwirira mtsamiro mkamwa mwako ndipo, popanda kuvula mano anu, lankhulani. Izi ndizomwe mumaganizira mozama zomwe zidzakwaniritsidwa mwa munthu ngati kubuula kwa zosangalatsa.
Chiphunzitso cha Narcissism
Kuwopa kupangidwira kapena kugonongeka pa nthawi yogonana ndi chizindikiro chenicheni chakuti mnzanuyo samapereka modzidzimutsa ponena kuti popanda iye pali wina pabedi. Ngati zili choncho, kumbukirani kuti kukongola kwa mkazi pambuyo pa kugonana kumakhala kosalala tsitsi ndipo kumangoyang'ana m'maso mwake, osati kusankhidwa bwino komanso kosasankhidwa bwino. Ziri ngati Margarita pambuyo pa mpirawo. Dziyang'ane nokha kamodzi kuchokera kumbali ndipo pomwepo mudzazindikira kuti m'dziko lonse simungapeze dona wokongola kwambiri, ngakhale atapanga chakudya ndi mnzanuyo, ndipo chikhomocho chimaikidwa pamaso.
Kusadziŵa thupi la wokondedwa
Zokongola ngati zikuwoneka, koma munthu m'thupi ali ndi malo oposa awiri. Ndipo ngati mumanyalanyaza mfundo imeneyi, ndipo mukamayambitsa mwayi wopita ku chiwalo chogonana, ndiye kuti m'kupita kwa nthaŵi kudzakwiyitsa munthuyo. Chikondi cha mbolo chimatanthauzanso kuti kukwaniritsidwa kwa chiyambi. Ndipo ngati simukudziwa zomwe mungachite mpaka pano, yesani, yambani kupanikizika mkati mwa mchiuno, m'mimba (makamaka m'mimba mwathu), ntchentche, mwa amuna omwe ali ovuta kwambiri, khosi la wokondedwa wanu. Ndipo mwa zomwe zidzachitike, mukumvetsa kuti munthuyo amakonda kwambiri. Sitiyenera kupita nthawi iliyonse pa "njira" yofananayo. Chiwonetsero chimapha chikondi, ndipo kugonana ndi ntchito yokonza.
Kuthamangitsidwa
"Wokondedwa, tiyeni tigule ine ndikusunga zovala, ndipo ndikukonzerani tsiku losaiwalika lachikondi pa izi!". Ngati munalankhulapo kanthu kwa munthu wanu, ndipo sanakusiye pakati pa malo ogula, ndiye kuti mutangotenga munthu woyera. Samalani. Mwamunthu, abambo samalola kuti azigwiritsidwa ntchito, ndipo kugwiritsira ntchito kugonana ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu. Muyenera kuiwala za izo.
Manyazi
Pakati pa kugonana, mumakhala ngati namwali wazaka 12, yemwe ali pa phwando la amayi, onse amafinyidwa ndikuyesera kuti amugwirizane kwambiri ndi manja ake. Zimatha kupha kamodzi ndi kukopa kwa munthu kwa inu. Amuna ngati akazi omasuka omwe ali okonzeka kusangalala ndi kukonda thupi lawo. Pamene ali pa nkhope ya mkaziyo amawona manyazi, mantha ndi chidziwitso chothawa, kutenga nawo zinthu zonse, ndiye ndi mkazi woteroyo sangathe kumasuka ndi kumaliza ntchitoyo.
Zovala zamkati za agogo
Masiku anthawika ndi masiku omwe kukula kwa thalauza sikunali kochepera kukula kwa pillowcase. Chovala chabwino kwambiri chazimayi ndicho chimene munthu angathe kuchotsa kwa iwe mwamsanga. Izi sizikugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa panties yokhala ndi bras yodzala.
Kukana kugonana kwachinsinsi
Ife akazi tinawononga amuna athu, ndipo ichi ndi chenicheni chowopsya. Masiku ano, amuna ambiri omwe alibe zibwenzi amaganizira kuti kugonana kuli kochepa. Kukana kugonana kwachinsinsi mwamuna amamva kupweteka kwambiri, samamvetsa momwe mkazi wake wokondedwa angawonetsere choyera kwambiri komanso chamtengo wapatali chomwe ali nacho. Ndipo simungathe kumufotokozera chifukwa china chilichonse. Izi sizikutanthawuza kuti kuyambira lero, muyenera kusangalala ndi chisangalalo chisanafike ndi cham'mbuyo. Ngati mwamuna nthawi zambiri amawona m'munsi mwa belt yake, ndiye kuti palibe chabwino chomwe chidzabwere. Koma musaike ziboda pamagonana. Bwino kuti ikhale "yamchere" okoma kapena kumapeto kwa chiyambi kwa wokondedwa wanu.
Bezynitsiativnost
Inde, ndibwino pamene thupi lanu lingathe kutenga vuto lililonse limene akufuna kuwapatsa. Koma pali malire. Nthawi zina tizimvetsetsa bwenzi lanu lomwe simunali phokoso la pulasitiki, koma mkazi wokonda kwambiri kugonana ndikuyamba kuyesetsa.
Nkhani ya kale
Mukawauza okondedwa anu za momwe mumagwirizanirana, mukuyembekeza kumudzutsa, mudzakhumudwa pamene adzuka ndikusiya, ndipo zidzakhala zopweteka komanso zowawa. Mkazi ayenera kukhala ndi mwambo, ndipo kulembetsa mndandanda wa chikondi cha adventures ndi udindo wa amuna. Komanso, sikoyenera kuwonetsa kwa iwo pamaso pa oimira amuna kapena akazi. Choncho, iwe udzipangire wekha fano la mtsikana wa mumsewu wa Yaroslavl, osati kungowonjezera kukhulupilika kwanu.
Tsopano tikudziwa zomwe zilakwitsa zazikulu za amayi. Werengani zolakwa zomwe takambiranazi, ndipo yesetsani kuti musamazichite pabedi.