Mwinamwake onse "okonda" apamtima, mazira a mmimba, chitukuko cha m'mimba, ndikuphunzira Kamasutra - kungotaya nthawi? Mwadzidzidzi, amuna samakhala oipa konse, ndipo ena onsewo "amangothamanga"? Inde, izi siziri choncho! Simungapeze udindo wa mbuye wabwino kwambiri, ngati simunyalanyaza zonsezo. Koma siyeneranso kupitiriza kuchita zinthu mopitirira malire. Pano mlingo ndi luso ndizofunikira. Pali malamulo asanu ndi limodzi oyambirira a momwe mungakhalire mbuye wanu wabwino kwa mwamuna wanu.
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Lamulo loyamba 1. Khalani okhudzana ndi kugonana Mutu # 2. Musachite mantha kuyesa Rule # 3. Yankhulani zomwe mukufuna muzogonana Mutu # 4. Phunzirani kunena kuti ayi .. Rule # 5. Musamachite nawo manyazi Mutu # 6. Muzigonana osati chikondi basiLamulo nambala 1. Kukhala wokonzeka kugonana
Zimatsimikiziridwa kuti anthu samasamala konse za chomwe chinali chifukwa chenicheni cha changu chathu. Msungwanayo akugwira ntchito mwansangamsanga - ikuwombera. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ziribe kanthu kaya zimatentha ndi chilakolako kapena kukhala wathanzi. Mwachitsanzo, ndinasowa ntchito yomaliza ndipo tsopano ndikugwira ntchito. Chabwino ndi pa thanzi! Mwamuna adzakhala wosangalala mulimonsemo. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti mkazi samangoganizira za chipika ndi mawonekedwe ake.
Ndikhulupirire, ndi wofanana ndi yemwe amadziwa bwino luso labwino, munthu adzichepetseratu mofunitsitsa koposa wowononga, waulesi kuti adandaule kachiwiri ndikupenya maso ake mokondwera. Wachiwiriyu amalepheretsa mwamsanga. Izi ndizochitika pamene abambo amamvetsera akunyengedwa kuti asanyengedwe, koma mzimayi weniweni-maloto amasangalala kusewera. Pambuyo pa zonse, chirichonse chomwe anganene, ndi kugonana ndi masewera a masewera, nthawi zonse amakhala atsopano komanso osangalatsa popanda bwenzi. Pamapeto pake, pali lingaliro lodzipangira okha kapena lamulo lokhudza chilakolako chomwe chimadza ndi kudya. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, ngati mkazi akudziyesa kwa nthawi yaitali ndi chilakolako ndi kumverera, mukuwona - chiwonongeko ndipo sichidzakusungani inu. Ichi, mwa njira, chiri chowonadi chotsimikiziridwa, ndipo osati chopangidwa chopanda kanthu.
Lamulo nambala 2. Musachite mantha kuyesa
Chabwino, kumene popanda kuyesera! Malinga ndi amuna okhawo, amadziwa kuti chipinda chogona chimakhala ngati labotala la sayansi, zomwe zimapezeka tsiku ndi tsiku (kapena kuti usiku). Zonsezi zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi lingaliro lakuti ndi okhawo omwe angathe kuchita chinachake "chomwecho", chimene mkazi angathe kuzikumbukira moyo wake wonse. Mwinamwake mwamunayo amamva kupweteka kuti alephera kukhala woyamba, ndipo kotero amafuna kuchoka mumtsinje pambuyo pake, kumbukirani chinthu chachilendo. Mwamuna amamvetsa bwino, ndipo ntchito ya mkazi weniweni siyimuyanjanitsa ndi izi. Chabwino, pamlingo woyenera, ndithudi.
Choyamba, musanayambe kunena monga: "Kodi mukuganiza kuti mukuganiza?" Kupeza mphamvu kuti mupatse munthu mwayi wokhutiritsa njala ya wogonana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pulogalamu yoyamba yomwe akufuna kukhazikitsidwa. Ndipo kachiwiri, limbikitsani wokondedwa wanu kuti anene kuti anayamba kuganiza za kusintha kosayembekezereka mu masewera achikondi.
Lamulo nambala 3. Kulongosola molunjika zomwe mukufuna mu kugonana
Inde, zikanakhala zophweka kwa aliyense ngati abwenzi ake adasintha malangizo a kugonana m'chipinda chogona. Monga, apa ndiwe, wokondedwa wanga, mndandanda wa malo anga osadziwika - mudziwe bwino. Kwa inu ndi zopusa, ndipo munthu aliyense wokondwa akhoza kuthandizira lingaliro limenelo. Amuna amanjenjemera kuti ayang'ane mwakachetechete, mvetserani kumbuyo kwathu "Mmm" ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha chisangalalo kapena kupweteka pang'ono.
Atsikana ambiri amaganiza kuti zinthu zonse zizipita pamene zikupita. Ndipo iwo akulakwitsa. Mzimayi weniweni sazengereza kuchita ntchito yophunzitsa asanayambe, pena panthawi yogonana. Kuphunzitsa mwamuna kuti azichita bwino pabedi akhoza komanso n'kofunika. Pali chinsinsi chimodzi chokha - mawu amatsenga "inde". "Inde, okondedwa, achikondi", "Inde, zabwino zanga, mofulumira" - ichi ndi chitsanzo cha malangizo achidule ogonana. Mwamuna adzakhala wothokoza chifukwa cholunjika, ndipo mudzalandira zosangalatsa zomwe mukufuna. Adzalandira mbali zonse ziwiri.
Chilamulo No. 4. Phunzirani kunena "ayi"
Nsembe si nthawizonse kuyamikira. Osachepera pogonana. Amuna, ngati iwo sali achiwawa, amatha kukakamiza mkazi ku chinachake chimene sakuchifuna. Koma chifukwa cha ichi, amafunika kudziwa pamene akutsutsa. Ndikhulupilireni, ndi bwino kukhala pabedi ndi mwamuna mwakamodzi, kunena kuti "ayi" kuposa apo iye adzamva ndi kuyang'ana kochititsa manyazi, kunena, yang'anani zomwe munachita kwa ine.
"Ayi" wanu sichikutanthauza kuti mukutsutsana ndi kugonana, koma pokhapokha mawonetseredwe ake. Chovuta kwambiri ndi chosasangalatsa kwa inu. Mayi, ngati akuyesa kulenga chinachake chosayenera, ali ndi ufulu komanso ayenera kukana. Ndipo, pokana zochitika zomwe mwamuna adakufunsani, mungathe kumupatsa nokha.
Lamulo nambala 5. Musakhale wamanyazi thupi lanu
Malo oyipa osokonezeka a munthu aliyense ndi maso. Zowonjezereka - hypothalamus, yomwe imalowa mu ubongo wamwamuna zosiyana siyana (ndiko komwe kumaganizira za kugonana). Munthu aliyense ndiwonekedwe 100%. Amatha kuyang'ana maola ambiri pa zolaula, atakhala mu kampu yovulaza ndipo amadana ndi kugonana pansi pa bulangeti mumdima. Kulimbana kotereku kumakhumudwitsa kwambiri.
Zikuwoneka kuti akazi ndi omwe amatha kuyang'anitsitsa, kuyesa, kufunafuna ziphuphu papa. Zonsezi siziri choncho. Amuna ali ndi malingaliro osiyana. Iwo amangoganizira za fizikiki ya mphindiyo. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungagwirire ndi munthu, kumbukirani: pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri yomwe akufuna kukuwonani nonse, onani matupi anu ndi nkhaniyi. Ndipo ngati simupereka mpata wotere, mwamuna amangofuna kutseka maso ake ndikuyamba kulingalira wina aliyense, komanso pazinthu zochititsa chidwi kwambiri.
Lamulo nambala 6. Muzikhoza kugonana, osati chikondi
Amuna samakhala opanda chikondi, koma nthawi zina samafuna kudandaula za mkhalidwe wapamtima, mafuta, nyimbo ndi nthawi yaitali. Nthawi zina amangofuna kugonana. Zogonana zamakono zogonana. Ndipo mkazi weniweni nthawi ndi nthawi amakulolani kuti mugwiritse ntchito nokha ngati chiwonetsero cha kugonana. Malingana ndi amuna omwe, nthawi zina, kukhutira kwawo ndi kugonana kumangokhala kochepa. A 100% amamva kuti "Ndine Munthu". Mfundo iyi ikuwombera kale. Mwa njira, amayi ambiri amafunanso kugonana mofulumira, choncho ndiyeso.