Chitsanzo chopatsirana
M'dziko lamakono, pali zachiwerewere zambiri, tikufuna kukhala otchuka, olemera komanso ofuna kusintha magolovesi a abwenzi athu. Ngati mukuganiza za izo, ife tiri pamaso pathu zitsanzo za anthu otchuka ambiri omwe anachiritsidwa ku zipatala kuchokera ku chilakolako ichi chogonana.
Ngakhale zisanakhalepo posachedwapa, panali nthano za mitala yamwamuna (komanso mbali yachikazi), koma masiku ano nthano iyi inakhala matenda. Ndipo ichi ndi chenicheni chotsimikiziridwa ndi sayansi.
Masiku ano, matendawa akuwonjezeka kwambiri, ndipo adayikidwa kale m'ndandanda wa matenda otchuka kwambiri m'zaka zapitazi zazaka za m'ma 2100. Kafukufuku amatsimikizira kuti matendawa ndi otchuka chifukwa masiku ano anthu 5 mwa anthu onse padziko lonse akuvutika ndi kugonana. Malingana ndi kuyerekezera kwakukulu, ndi anthu pafupifupi 360 miliyoni. Kugonana kumagwirizana ndi matenda a m'maganizo ndipo amafuna kupanga zipolopolo mu American Bible.
Sichiwatsitsimutsa
Kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi chogonana nthawi zonse kusinthika ndi kugonana kwa nthawi yaitali sikuwatsogolera. Sali chidwi ndi maganizo, koma chidwi monga njira. Ndipo zambiri zogonana, zimakhala zabwino kwa iwo. Ndipo kugonana kuyenera kukhala kosiyana, kuphatikizapo zinthu za sadomasochism, kuwonetsa mafilimu olaula nthawi yaitali, komanso kuganiza za kugonana koopsa. Chidziwitso chimagogomezera kugonana, chiwerengero chake chikukula mofulumira. Ndipo chifukwa chaichi nthawi zambiri samasowa wokondedwa. Pali zolaula zolaula pa intaneti.
Kudalira kwathunthu
Asayansi amanena kuti chifukwa cha matendawa chimakhala m'mavuto a m'maganizo. Odwala matendawa ndi anthu osatetezeka, ndipo kugonjetsa kugonana kumawapatsa chifukwa chodzikweza okha. Palinso zifukwa zina zowonekera kwa matendawa - kusowa kwa caress vladetstve kapena kuzunzidwa. Kulimbikitsidwa ndi abwenzi ake komanso kusagonjetsedwa ndi mwanayo kampaniyo kudzatsimikiziranso kusasinthasintha kwake, kusinthira okondedwa nthawi zonse. Mwachidziwitso, matendawa angayambitse kudzimva kwakukulu kosawerengeka.
Koma kugonana ndiko msanga kuposa matenda, ndi kudalira. Zili zofanana kwambiri ndi uchidakwa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo: Odwala matendawa ali ndi ludzu losatsutsika la gawo lotsatila la kugonana. Amalandira chisangalalo kuchokera mu ndondomeko yokha pokhapokha mphindi zochepa, ndipo pambuyo pake chidziwitso chatsopano ndicho chowathandiza. Kuchokera kuzinthu zowonongeka, kugonana ndi kosiyana chifukwa sikumayambitsa zotsatira zoopsa za thupi, kupatula zotsatira za kugonana kosateteza. Koma panthawi imodzimodziyo khalidwe labwino likuvutika kwambiri mu nkhaniyi.
Ochita kafukufuku, ndithudi, amawonekedwe onse ndi ovuta kwambiri. Posachedwapa, asayansi mu Israeli adapeza jini lomwe limayambitsa zolimbikitsa. Amakhulupirira kuti majini amathandiza kwambiri ogwira ntchito yogonana. Pano pali anthu omwe kugonana ndikofunika kwambiri kuposa ena. "Wokondedwa, sindiri wolakwa, ndimangokhala ndi gene mutation, congenital!" Kodi timakondweretsa bwanji vutoli? Ndipo ngati kugonana kuli kwa munthu chifukwa chabwino chokhalira pamaso pa ena wosauka mwanawankhosa wodwala, ndi chithandizo chofunika chiti?
Moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana si moyo wamba
Wogonana weniweni sangathe kulamulira khalidwe lake. Khalidwe losalamulirika koteroko limakhudza kwambiri mbali zonse za moyo wake. Nthawi zonse amangoganiza za axex, amalankhula za kugonana, amachita zinthu mochuluka, amakhala omasuka komanso amakhala okonzeka kugonana.
Kugonana sikukwera mpikisano
Samasamala yemwe amagona naye. Sichikutsatiridwa ndi zithunzi zina zazimayi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti kukhalapo kwa wokhala nawo nthawi zonse sikulipo. Mwamuna amangogwiritsidwa ntchito pokhapokha ndi kugonana kwachikondi kumakhala kwachilendo kwa iye.
Kugonana kumadziwa kudalira kwake.
Makhalidwe osalongosoka ndi okondedwa ambiri, monga lamulo, sadziwika ndi anthu. Chifukwa cha izi, antchito ogonana akhoza kugwa mwachisokonezo, kudzipatula okha ndikuzindikira kuti ali oledzera ndipo akuyenera kuchotsa kudalira kumeneku. Zikatero, kambiranani ndi wodalirika, mvetserani, ndipo yesetsani kumuthandiza, koma musamamukakamize. Musatembenuke kwa munthuyo. Kumbukirani kuti chinthu chachikulu ndicho chithandizo cha anthu omwe ali pafupi naye.