Pali maanja omwe, panthawi ya chitukuko chawo, amayamba kuganiza kuti zingakhale bwino kukonzanso ubwenzi wawo, kuwasokoneza ndi zina zatsopano, mwachitsanzo, kugonana ndi abwenzi angapo. Kwa ena, izi sizikutanthauza zongoganizira chabe, koma kwa ena, zochitika zenizeni za zilakolako zawo zobisika ndi zofunika. Sizokhudza kugonana kwa magulu. Anthu amalingaliro a mtundu umenewu wa chiyanjano amatchedwa swingers.
Mumasulira kuchokera ku English swing (swing) - swing, swing. Kawirikawiri, iyi ndi nyimbo yomveka yomwe imabwera kuchokera ku jazz ndipo ikutanthawuza kusinthika mwamsanga kuchokera mutu umodzi kupita ku wina. Choncho, kutanthauzira kwamakono, kutanthawuza kwa kusambira, monga nthawi yochepa, kugwirizana komwe kugwirizanirana kwa ogonana nawo. Ambiri amaona kuti ndi chiwerewere, kupotoza, khalidwe lopanda pake. Osunthira, amaumirira kuti uwu ndi ubale weniweni, uwu ndiwo mawonekedwe a moyo, kusuntha, mtundu wa filosofi. Mfundo yakuti ubale umenewu ulipo ndipo ali ndi omutsatira ambiri ndi omutsatira ndizoona. Kuthamanga, pansi pa mtundu uwu wa chiyanjano, yesetsani kubweretsa mbiriyakale. Malingana ndi malemba awo, mwamuna, makamaka amuna, ndi mitala, motero mtundu uwu wa moyo wa kugonana, ubale ndi zosangalatsa zakhala zikuchitika kuyambira kale. Koma izi zimaonedwa kukhala mwayi wa anthu kwaulere, omasulidwa, opanda zovuta ndi tsankho.
Lingaliro lofunikira la kusambira ndiloti munthu aliyense amafunikira zosiyana pa moyo wogonana. Mulirilonse, ngakhale pomwe panthaŵiyo panali chikondi chosafuna, posakhalitsa mphindi yokhala ndi chizoloŵezi chokwanira chimachitika wina ndi mzake. Ena amayamba kungokhala mabwenzi, kusiya ubwenzi wawo ngati wokondweretsa kukumbukira, kapena nthawi zina kuchita ntchito yaukwati kwa wina ndi mzake - ndipo okha. Ena, chifukwa cha mbali zambiri - pitani kukafunafuna kumbali. Ukwati uli pafupi kutha. Ndipo apa akuwombera amachitirako pabwalo la zisewero, zomwe zimapereka ndondomeko yawo yotsutsana ndi kusakhutirana ndi kugonana m'banja. Omwe akukambirana nawo, kugonana anayi. Otsutsana akunena kuti mwanjira iyi, simungathe kupulumutsa ukwatiwo, osaphatikizapo chiwonongeko, komanso kuphunzira kupindula kwambiri. Icho chiri pano, mukuthamanga, kuti malo apamwamba a chilakolako ndi zosangalatsa amadziwika.
Poyang'ana koyamba, ubale wa osambirawo ndi wovuta, koma izi siziri zoona. Pano, monga mwa kayendetsedwe kalikonse, pali malamulo akulu ndi miyambo, maziko awo ndi miyambo. Ngakhale kuti simungathe kuchepetsa malamulo ozungulirana ndi chikho chimodzi (ngakhale kuti akudzifunsa okha kuti malamulo amenewa alipo), koma chinachake chikhoza kuperewera. Zoonadi, malamulo oyambirira a kusambira maubwenzi - izi sizongopeka, pali kusiyana pa mutu uwu, kumene malire ndi zoperewera zimawoneka kuti zataya mphamvu ndi mphamvu.
Choncho, malamulo oyambirira a kusambira maukwati angakhale ngati zotsatirazi:
- Ufulu wa swinger iliyonse ndikuti ayi. Ikhoza
amatanthawuza chirichonse, mkati mwa maziko a lingaliro la mawu opatsidwa. Ili ndi ufulu wosasintha wa swinger iliyonse.
- Simungayesetse kuononga ukwati, kulowerera mu ubale ndi banja la wina. Palibe chopanikizika. Kusinthana kwa awiriwa kuyenera kuchitika pakati pa awiriwawiri. Kutenga mbali kwa omwe amatchedwa osakwatira kungachititse kuti kutuluka kwa buku latsopano, lomwe limatsutsana ndi lamulo ili ndipo silikugwirizana ndi lingaliro la kusambira.
- Kusambira kungakhale kotseguka - kusinthanitsa kumachitika patsogolo, ndi kutsekedwa. Pamene mawonekedwe a swing atsekedwa, maanja amayamba kulankhulana pamodzi, ndiyeno pofuna kugonana kwambiri amachotsedwa ku zipinda zosiyanasiyana. Kutsegula malemba sikuli koyenera kwa aliyense, kungakhale kochitidwa ndi anthu odzidalira okha ndi maluso awo ogonana. Apo ayi, izo zingayambitse nkhawa, ndi mavuto osiyanasiyana. Pofuna kupewa mikangano, maanja ambiri amayesetsa kutseka zowonongeka, monga momwe angasinthire kugonana.
- Kuyanjana kwa mtundu umenewu kumayenera kukhala okonzeka komanso osagonjera.
Anthu ambiri sakudziwa kuti kusambira sikutanthauza kusinthanitsa mabanja. N'zotheka kugonana ndi wina ndi mnzake, pafupi ndi banja lina.
Ndikukambirana mwachidule, ndikufuna kuzindikira kuti maubwenzi otha msinkhu amakhala omasuka, amawonekera osati ufulu wokhalana nawo, komanso ufulu wodzisankhira, ufulu waumwini, pomwe palibe malo oti achite nkhanza.