Munthu wa Narcissus, ndi yani?

Mayi aliyense amalota mwamuna wamphamvu yemwe adzamva kuti watetezedwa. Mwamuna wamphamvu masiku ano ndi wovuta. Monga amakhulupirira kale, amuna amakhala ogonana kwambiri, koma nthawi yathu nthawi zambiri timayenera kuona zosiyana.
Sikuti amayi onse amapirira zofooka za abambo awo kuti aziwongolera mobwerezabwereza, ambiri amayesera kubisa mbali iyi ya osankhidwa awo, ndipo mbali ya maganizo a banjawo amawoneka abwino, koma monga momwe moyo umasonyezera, palibe chiyanjano chabwino.

Tonsefe timadziwa nthano za mnyamata wokongola Narcissa. Amuna ndi akazi ali otsetsereka kuzinyoza, komabe amuna amavutitsidwa kwambiri kuposa akazi. Asayansi atsimikiziranso kuti kunyalanyaza ndi chizindikiro chimodzi cha kugonana kwa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.

Ma daffodils oyera ndi ochepa kwambiri. Amuna ena, amadziwonetsera ngati njira yodzitetezera, amayesa kusonyeza anthu omwe amakonda kuwakonda. Momwemonso munthu amayesera kupeza mwa iye mwini chuma.

Kudzikonda kumaphatikizapo kusudzula. Monga mukudziwira, egoists ndi anthu osasangalala, chifukwa chisangalalo chawo chimadalira kudzidalira okha, kotero iwo sangathe kumvetsa chimwemwe chenicheni. Narcissus yamakono sichiwona zolakwa, osati maonekedwe ake okha, komanso mawonekedwe ake. Anthu otere sakonda kuti iwo amanyalanyaza. Ndi angati omwe sanatamande narcissus, iye amakhala wamng'ono nthawi zonse, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti chikhalidwe chake chimakhala chopanda malire.

Anthu otere samawona zenizeni ndikuzindikira dziko lozungulira iwo momwe akufunira. Munthu wotero samadziona yekha wolingana, amadziona kuti ndi wangwiro. Narcissus pamsonkhano woyamba ndi ovuta kuzindikira, koma pakapita nthawi, zizindikiro zake zowonjezereka zikuwonetseredwa. Pokambirana, munthu woteroyo amalankhula za iye mwini, wamng'ono wake, kapena m'malo mwake osakhudzidwa ndi anthu ena.

Amuna oterewa amasankha kuthetsa mavuto omwe amawononga ena.

Popanda kunyengerera, samavomereza zolakwitsa zawo, kuvomereza kuti kulakwitsa kwawo kukufanana ndi kugwa kwa dziko lamkati komanso zolinga za moyo.

Kudzudzula ena chifukwa chosadziletsa, koma osati kwa iwo okha. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, kusagwirizana kwa mlanduwu sikofunikira.

Narcissus ndi wangwiro, chirichonse chiri chabwino mwa icho ndipo mawu awa sangathe kutsutsidwa ndi aliyense.

Kwa iye, palibe chowopsya choposa kuchita manyazi. Sitiyenera kuyang'ana kuchokera kumbali ya zoipa. Iye nthawi zonse amafunikira kumverera bwino kwake, pakuti ichi ndi chitsimikizo cha kukhalapo kwake, iye ali wokonzeka kuchita ndi kunena chirichonse, kungoti asavomereze khalidwe lake loipa.

Narcissus si mwamuna wabwino m'banja. Ma daffodils Amuna nthawi zonse amalengeza okha ndipo nthawi zonse amayesetsa kuwathandiza. Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti munthu wanu ndi narcissus, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kusintha kuti izi zitheke (ndizovuta).

Mkhalidwe uliwonse wamtendere womwe umakhudzana ndi kusakhutira kwa mkazi, kwa iwo, ukuwopsya kuti alipo umunthu wake. Narcissus amakondanso kupatsa mphatso ndikudzikondweretsa yekha, ndipo kenako wokondedwa, muyenera kuvomereza izi, koma muzochitika izi pali limodzi limodzi - makamaka m'nyumba ya narcissus pali zonse zofunika ndi zabwino zonse.

Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ngati hafu yanu ina nthawi zambiri ikukutsutsani zolakwika zanu, izi ndi zoipa, chifukwa patapita nthawi chiwerengero cha zolakwika chidzakula ndipo pamapeto pake mukhoza kuchepetsa, chifukwa nthawi zonse zidzakhala zangwiro, ndipo simudzatero.

Kuti zikhale zosangalatsa kwa munthu woteroyo, ziyenera kumangokhalira kumangokhalira kumangokhalira kumusangalatsa, ndipo kenako ayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera. Kukonza munthu-narcissus sikutheka.

Ngati muli ndi munthu wotero, dzifunseni funso ngati muli okonzeka kulisamalira ndikulikonza ndikukhala ndi vuto lililonse.