Koma, mwatsoka, kwa amuna, khalidwe lachikazi silili bwino nthawi zonse, koma za malingaliro ndi malingaliro, mwinamwake, ndipo sikuli koyenera kuyankhula za. Koma zowonjezera, mkaziyo akufuna kumverera yekha, kumverera izi, ndi kuchita zonse zomwe amawona kuti ndizofunika m'maganizo ake. Tiyeni tidziwitse pang'ono ntchito izi, mwinamwake ndiye zidzakhala zosavuta kuti abambo achite "zabwino" ntchito.
"Ayi-izo zikutanthauza kuti inde, koma kenako."
Yankho limeneli, mwinamwake, nthawi zambiri limaika amuna kumapeto, ndipo amachititsa kusakhutira kwa amayi. Chifukwa cha ichi ndi chikhumbo cha mkazi kuti asiye chinsinsi china, kapena kuti apange chisokonezo chimene munthuyo angakhale nawo mwayi woti atengepo kanthu, kapena ambiri kuti aganizire za chikhumbo cha mkazi. Motero, chifukwa chake, mkazi amayesera kukhala wokondweretsa nthawizonse, ndipo malinga ndi momwe ankafunira, komanso wapadera. Koma amuna okhaokha amavomereza khalidweli, komabe, nthawi zambiri amatha kusiyanitsa chovala cha amayi ndi kukana, kapena kuvomereza. Ndipo zimakhala zophweka kwa iwo ngati mkazi akuyankha yankho lake, komanso amalengeza zomwe akufuna. Zotsatira: chikhumbochi chikukwaniritsidwa, kapena sichitha, zotsatira za masewera atayika, ndipo mwayi wapangidwa kuti padzakhala wina kapena amene adzasonyeze chidwi chake.
Kumbukirani kuti amayi amakonda chikhalidwe chawo kuti awasonkhezere. Choncho, munthu wokondedwa akamasiya kuchita izi, akhoza kufotokozera mosavuta kukhutiritsa kwa wokondedwa wake. Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo khalani otsimikiza kuti ndinu woyenera. Choncho, ngati mumayamikira chiyanjano chanu, yesetsani, chifukwa mkazi ayenera kumva yekha, ndipo adzamva ngati akufuna.
Ukwati sumaletsa ...
Lingaliro la ukwati silikutanthauza kuti mkazi ayenera kuvala chotchinga, ndipo ngakhale kuyang'ana kwa amuna ena. Mkazi akhoza kukhala wokhulupilika kwambiri, ndi kukonda mwamuna wake mpaka kuumisala, koma kuti adzidzimve yekha "wopanda kanthu," amangofuna kukopa chidwi cha amuna ena. Pamene, ngakhale kuyenda pambali panu, amadzivulaza yekha malingaliro a amuna ena, izi zimamuthandiza kumva yekha. Inde, ndipo muyenera kunyada nthawi zina, chifukwa wokondedwa wanu amakonda zinthu zambiri, koma ndi zanu zokha. Ngati munthu sakutsutsa izi, apa pali chitsanzo china. Tiye tiwone kuti mkazi wanu amatseka pakhoma 4, ndipo njira yake ya tsiku ndi tsiku idzakhala ndi mfundo zinayi: firiji - chophika - makina ochapira - sofa. " Chotsatira chake, mumangotenga mkazi wanu okha, koma amodzi. Iye samasowa, amadzisamalira yekha, zovala zake kotero safuna zosiyana siyana. Zodzoladzola zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pang'onopang'ono, ndipo izi sizing'ono, ndipo tsitsi la tsitsi silikuwoneka ndi luntha. Kodi munayamba mwafuna kugwiritsa ntchito moyo wanu wonse ndi mkazi wotere? N'kutheka kuti si. Kotero, msiyeni mkaziyo ngati mwayi. Mzimayi ngati gulugufe, ngati atulutsidwa, adzauluka, ngati adzaphwanyidwa, amwalira. Gwiritsani gulugufe lanu lokongola, ndipo lidzakhalabe lokhalo kwa inu kwamuyaya.
Nkhanza ngati njira yotsimikizira.
Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti akazi omwe amanyengerera amuna awo amatsogoleredwa ndi kubwezera m'mabuku 70%. Ndipo kubwezera uku sikunali nthawi zonse kuti anthu asamakhulupirire, nthawi zambiri amayi amabwezera chifukwa cha kusadziletsa kwawo. Panthawi yomweyi, kupita ku chiwembu, sachita mantha, ndipo nthawi zina amafuna kuti mwamuna wake adziwe za izo. Mwanjira imeneyi, kumukakamiza kuti achitepo kanthu. Monga, ngati mukufuna kukhala wanga yekha, ndipangeni ine kumverera yekha, nayenso.
Kawirikawiri ndi akazi omwe amakhala otanganidwa kwambiri, kapena amuna, omwe amagwira ntchito pokhapokha panthawi imene mkazi amafunika kugonjetsedwa ndikupanga kuti amukwatire. Ndipo mopitirira, pansi pa mawu akuti "sadzapita kulikonse", kale mwamuna, amapuma pa zovuta za "wopambana". Nthawi zina amai amakhala olakwa pa izi, koma amayi okhawo ayenera kukhala olakwa, koma pakakhala choncho nkofunika kupeza nthawi yoyenera ndikusowa kanthu, mwinamwake sikuchedwa. Choncho, pofuna kusunga maubwenzi amphamvu, nkofunika kuti wokondedwa kapena abwenzi azigwirizana. Amuna, khalani amphamvu, muzigonjetsa akazi anu. Akazi - chitani chomwe mukufuna kuti mumenyane nacho.
Namwali.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa mfundo zingapo zomwe zingatchulidwe mwachindunji kumvetsetsa kwathunthu kwa mkazi mmodzi. Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, amuna ambiri amafuna kuti mkazi wawo wamwamuna adzakhale namwali, amayi safuna kuchita zimenezo polemekeza mwamuna wake. Ndipo ichi si nkhani yokha ya makhalidwe abwino, ndipo "medal" iyi ili ndi mbali ziwiri. Posakhalitsa, mwamuna kapena mkazi yemwe alibe zibwenzi zogonana angakhale ndi funso lakuti "bwanji za ena?". Kawiri kawiri pamakhala milandu, maganizo oterowo amagwira ntchito. Chifukwa cha chiwembu, zopweteka, kusudzulana. Makamaka ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi sakanatha kukhutiritsa moyo wawo wonse, ndipo adapeza mwayi wotere kumbali. Choncho, nthawi zina ndi bwino kuyambitsa moyo wapamtima musanakwatirane, ndipo yesani kumverera kwanu pa thupi. Ndipo kumbukirani kuti mkazi ayenera, choyamba, kukonda ndi kukondedwa, kokha ndiye kuti akhoza kukhala inu nokha.
Zimanyozedwa.
Kukhumudwa ndi zopanda pake, ndizoonadi, ntchito ya mkazi. Onetsetsani kuzinthu zazing'ono, pewani masiponji, kuchepetsa maso anu, komanso ngakhale kulira - izi ziri mu mphamvu ya onse. Koma amuna pazifukwa zina amatha kuchita mawonetseredwe akunja, ndipo safuna kufufuza chifukwa cha zochita za akazi oterewa. Maganizo a amayi ndi kuvomereza, otsika kwa amuna amalingaliro ndi kulingalira mozama, mwazing'ono zing'onozing'ono. Muzochitika zazikulu, mkazi akhoza kusonyeza kuti ali wotsimikiza ndikuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga. Choncho, kukhudzidwa ndi zofooka zochepa chabe, zomwe zimayambitsa chikhumbo chokopa chidwi. Ngati mutangokhalira kuchita chinachake, ngakhale mutakhala kuti simukuchita, koma mukupereka maganizo oti ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa inu - mkazi amamva yekha, oyenera komanso wokondedwa. Nthawi zina mwa njira imeneyi n'zotheka kudzaza malingaliro, makamaka pamene banjali lakhala ndi chibwenzi, pamene miniti yopatukana ikufanana ndi nthawi yosatha.