Ndemanga ya maganizo
Choonadi chimanenedwa kuti lingalirolo ndilofunika. Mayi wa Elena kale ali ndi chidziwitso cha zaka khumi zapitazo amawoneka kuti adayandikira mwana wakeyo momwe "sadzakhala nawo awiri." Choyamba, nthawi zonse muyenera kusamala ndi malingaliro anu ndi zilakolako zanu, ali ndi luso lapadera lakukwaniritsa. Mwachibadwa, mayiyo sankafuna kuti mwana wake akhale wosungulumwa kapena wosakwatiwa, koma amaoneka ngati akuganiza m'maganizo mwake kuti mnzake wokhala ndi moyo kwa mwana wakeyo salipo. Chachiwiri, akazi okoma ndi okongola mwa iwo okha amapanga fano la kusatheka. Iwo ndi okongola, opambana, othandiza, nthawi zambiri atsogoleri, kotero amuna a akazi otere amawopa kapena opitirira, poopa "mkazi wachitsulo" wotere. Mtsogoleri wamwamuna samalola kuti awalamulire, mwamuna wodalira alibe mphamvu zokwanira kuti ayandikire "mfumukazi yachisanu". Chachitatu, mkazi wanzeru, wokongola, ndi wopambana nthawi zambiri amakhala wophunzira mu moyo wake. Choyamba iye amaphunzira, ndiye akufuna ntchito yodalirika, amayendetsa pamsinkhu wa ntchito, ndipo kenako "akuiwala" kukwatiwa ndi kukhala ndi ana.
Timaika patsogolo
Mu moyo, palibe njira yomwe izo zinaliri mwakamodzi. Ndikofunika kusankha. Ngati muli ndi chikondi ndi banja lanu poyamba, ngati mumakonda ana ndipo mukufuna kubereka ana osachepera zaka makumi atatu, kenaka muike ntchito yanu pamoto. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti iwe uyenera kukhala mayi wa nyumba komanso wosunga nyumba. Ndizomveka komanso kulandira chilichonse kuchokera ku moyo, kudzizindikira nokha osati amayi okha a banja, komanso monga munthu amene amakonda ntchito yake. Ndizoti pamene mukuyenera kusankha moyo, muyenera kusankha bwino, kuti musadandaule pambuyo pake.
Chabwino, ngati sikuli pamenepo - wachikondi ndi wokondedwa
Koma izi ndizomwezi ndipo musamangidwe. Momwemo mutu wanga pamutu uno umayamba kufotokoza mawu akuti: "Pali chimwemwe - sizingakhale".
Munthu wokondedwa ndi wachikondi ndi, amakhala kwinakwake, ndipo ndithudi mudzakumana. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti musangodutsa. Mwina mungakhumudwitse ngati ndikukuuzani kuti msonkhano uwu ukhoza kuchitika pamene mulibe zaka makumi awiri, koma makumi atatu ndi mchira wawung'ono ... Chilichonse chili ndi nthawi yake.
Izi ziri pa mutu uwu ndikufuna kugawana nawo mmoyo wanga wa bwenzi langa lapamtima. Pamene Victoria anali pafupi zaka makumi awiri, anali ndi chikondi chachikulu komanso chowoneka ngati chosatha. Dzina lake linali Oleg. Vika ndi Oleg ankakhala pabanja kwa zaka pafupifupi zisanu, ndipo "chikondi," chomwe ndi Oleg, chinachoka. Posakhalitsa anakwatira wina, ndipo kwa Vicky, izo zikuwoneka, dziko lonse linagwa. Kusintha maganizo kumasinthasintha, kukhumudwa, kukhumudwa kwambiri - zizindikiro za mkazi wosungulumwa komanso wotayika, pamodzi ndi Vic angapo zaka zambiri pamzere. Ali ndi zaka makumi atatu, adali wosungulumwa. Koma moyo wathu ndi zambila mu mikwingwirima yakuda ndi yoyera. Ndipo ngakhale mikwingwirima yonyansayi imakhala yosagwirizana, mofanana, posakhalitsa padzakhala kuwunikira mwa mawonekedwe a mzere woyera. Izi zinachitika ndi Victoria. Tsopano ali ndi zaka 32. Chaka chatha, analandira zonse zomwe adayembekezera kwa zaka zopitirira khumi: ntchito monga mkulu komanso wokondedwa wautali woyembekezera. Miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapitayo iye anakwatira iye. Tsopano akudikira kubwezeretsedwa m'banja lawo. Tsopano Victoria sikuti ndi wochenjera komanso wokongola, komanso wopambana komanso wokondwa ...
Amuna amakonda zopusa ndi blondes?
Inde, amuna ngati opusa ndi blondes, ndipo amawakonda kwambiri usiku umodzi, ndiyeno amakhala okondedwa ndi amuna ena ... Mkazi ayenera kukhala wanzeru komanso wanzeru panthawi yomweyo. Ndipo amuna amakonda kukhala ogonjetsa, kapena osaganiza kuti akukwaniritsa chinachake kapena akugonjetsa wina. Musathamange payitanidwe yoyamba ya munthu amene mumamukonda, koma musasonyeze kuti mumakhala wozizira komanso wodzidalira. Mzimayi yemwe amadziwa zomwe akufuna, adzakwaniritsa izi.
Palibe akalonga! Timasokoneza malingaliro!
Vuto la amai okongola ndi aluntha ndikuti mwa kukongola kwawo iwo amapanga fano la kusatheka, ndipo malingaliro awo samamupatsa munthu ufulu wolakwitsa. Izi sizichitika. Amuna ndi anthu wamba, osati abwino. Ndipo inu, ngati simukufuna kukhala nokha, muyenera kuwononga zabwino zomwe munapanga pamutu mwanu. Pamene mumakonda, simukuwona zofooka zirizonse, nthawi zambiri zimasanduka machitidwe abwino. Kukhala wokongola, wochenjera ndi wosungulumwa pa nthawi yomweyo ndi chabe zopanda pake. Ndipo ngati simungasinthe nokha, kusintha maganizo anu kumoyo, komanso kwa amuna makamaka. Osayika matendawa nthawi yomweyo: si mtundu wanga. Yesetsani kuyankhulana ndi mwamuna, mumulandire kunyumba, ndipo ngati "spark" yatenga moto, ndiye mulole ubalewo upitirize.
Ganizirani
Msungwana wokongola, wanzeru, wosungulumwa wochokera kumbali amatha kukhala ngati mkwatibwi wokha. Ndipo kotero zidzakhala, ngati mumakhulupirira nokha, dzikondeni nokha ndikuyang'aniraninso zolinga zanu ndi zofunika pamoyo wanu. Inu muli nacho chirichonse choyenera kukondedwa ndi kukonda, mumangokhulupirira kuti zokhumba zanu ndi zoona. Ndipo nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti "zinthu zabwino kwambiri zimachitika mwadzidzidzi ..."