Nthaŵi zambiri, pokambirana ndi anthu, ndinazindikira kuti sindinayambe kumvetsetsa. Kusangalatsa kumasokonezeka, mutu wa zokambirana ndi wopanda pake, kuyang'ana kulibe, kusuntha ndi manja si zachirengedwe. Kapena, kulankhulana mwakhama kumabweretsa kuyanjanitsa ndi kudalira, pambuyo pake mutululira zinsinsi zanu zingapo, ndiyeno mudzapeza kuti chinsinsi chanu si chanu chokha. Iye amadziwa kale zambiri, ndi mawonekedwe opotozedwa kwambiri. Pambuyo pokambirana ndi ena, sitimapambana, tikakambirana zolakwa za ena, sitimachotsa zathu. Lero ndikufuna kusokoneza, ndi kuphatikiza ndi khalidwe labwino, kapena ndilofunika kwambiri ?
Nthawi zina zimakhala zosangalatsa kwa ine, kodi munthu wotereyu amaganiza bwanji, akumwetulira pamaso. Zimandikhudza kwambiri mwa anthu kuti khalidwe la kumbuyo kwa munthu wina limatanthauzira. Bwanji osamuuza munthuyo mwiniwakeyo? Kapena ndi kusiyana kotani, ndi mtundu wanji wa munthu? Pambuyo pake, anthu onse padziko lapansi sali angwiro, onse ali ndi zofooka zawo, zomwe zili ndi makhalidwe abwino. Nchifukwa chiyani zonsezi zikuphatikiza? Kapena mwinamwake kuphatikiza kwakhala khalidwe labwino ? Kapena kodi kupitako kuli kofunika kwambiri ? Ndikuitana utatu kuchuluka. Awa ndi anthu omwe ali ndi nkhope inayake nthawi zonse, kapena maskiti. Ndipo masks awa ndi mulu.
Kuphatikizira ndi bodza, chinyengo, kunyenga, kuphatikiza, kusayera mtima, ndi zizindikiro zosasangalatsa. Sindidzakangana kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi nkhope ziwiri. Tinganene kuti anthu onse padziko lapansi ali ndi nkhope ziwiri, ndiko kuti, amanama kwa ena. Kodi si kosavuta kuvala nkhope yanu, osati chigoba cha wina? Pambuyo poyerekezera kuti ndife munthu wosiyana, timakumbukira momwe timaonekera. Ndipo iwo otizungulira sadziwa ife nkomwe. Nthawi zina timakhala otsimikiza kuti "Nooo, sindimavala chigoba, sindili ndi nkhope ziwiri, ndine wachilengedwe ndipo sindimayerekezera." Kapena mwinamwake mwaiwala zomwe mulidi? Kodi ife sitidzikonda tokha mochuluka, kuti tikuwopa ena kuti azisonyeza nkhope yathu? Kapena kodi timachita mantha kuti ena adzatipweteka, umaliseche wathu? Koma tsiku lirilonse timalandira mphuno kuchokera ku chiwonongeko ndi kwa anthu ndi kubisa ululu, kukoka kumwetulira pamaso. Kodi izi sizinapangidwe? Bwanji osawonetsa anthu kuti zimakukhumudwitsani, osati kusonyeza chidwi chawo, ngati kuti palibe chomwe chinachitika? Kukhala woona mtima pa zoonadi kumakhala koopsa pamene pali anthu ambiri osakhulupirika omwe akuzungulirani. Mwinamwake, ndi nthawi yoti ife tonse tisinthe pang'ono kuti tipeze bwino?
Ndili ndi chibwenzi chimodzi chomwe sichiwerengera amuna kwa anthu. Akangowatchula kuti: zolengedwa, zolengedwa zomwe sizili zoyenera kwa ine, ndipo nthawi zambiri amajambula mafilimu komanso nthawi, dothi, ndi zina zotero. Ngakhale kuti ali ndi chidwi chochuluka, amadziwa kukonda masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, amachitira mwaluso kotero kuti amangokhala odabwa. Amamumwetulira wokongola komanso wamtendere pamaso pake, ndipo pamene palibe gulu lachimwene pafupi, amawachititsa manyazi kwambiri ngakhale kuti ndimadwala ... ayi, ndithudi angathe komanso pamaso akunena, koma ngati munthuyo sali kale zofunikira. Ndizowopsya, koma nthawi imodzimodzi ndi yotseguka, ngati bukhu lotseguka ngati losavuta kuwerenga, koma lovuta kumvetsa.
Amadziwa zomwe abwenzi ali nawo, amayamikira ndi kulemekeza. Sadzapsa mtima konse. Iye ndi munthu wabwino kwambiri, ndipo mwinamwake pamene amayamba kukondana, amasintha pang'ono ndikusiya kukhala wankhanza kwa anthu, koma dontho lachiwerewere mwa iye lidzakhalapo nthawi zonse, monga tonsefe, ngati sitingagwirizane ndi wokondedwa wake, ndiye kwa anthu oyandikana nawo, iye nthawi zonse amama pang'ono ndikudziyerekezera ngati ndife tonse. Iye ali ngati mwana wamphongo, yemwe ankaganiza kuti iye anali mkango ali ndi kamwa yaikulu. Mlomo, ndithudi, ali ndi zazikulu, koma ndizo pakamwa pa mafunso, zomwe amakwaniritsa mwachindunji ndi kuthandizidwa ndi amuna, pobweretsa kumwetulira kwake kochititsa chidwi komwe kumayambitsa kaduka pakati pa atsikana ambiri ozungulira.
Ndikufuna kunena kuti nthawi zambiri timaimba mlandu amuna chifukwa chokhala awiri. Ndipo ife? Kodi sitili choncho? Kodi ife sitibisala gawo la malipiro kuchokera kwa mwamuna kuti tipange ndalama zathu, koma komabe tikhoza kuluma gawo la mafuta kuchokera ku malipiro ake? Sitikukongola kuti amupatse modzikweza ndikumutemberera. Monga ife tiriri kwa iwo, chomwechonso ali kwa ife. Kawirikawiri, ndiye mu moyo zonse ziri zachilengedwe. Kuiwala za zovuta zake, timayamba kukambirana za zovuta za okondedwa athu. Koma simunaganize za kukumba nokha, pezani mavuto awa kuti muwakonze, ndipo mwinamwake mwamuna wanu adzakuchitirani zomwezo.
Pali mau abwino "musaweruze, ndipo musaweruzidwe". Koma ndi ndani kuti tiweruze munthu wina? Tonsefe ndife ofanana pamaso pa Mulungu ndipo tonsefe timatha kulakwa ndi zolakwitsa. Ndi Mulungu yekha yemwe angakhoze kumuweruza munthu chifukwa cha machimo ake. Ndipo kuipa ndi khalidwe la anthu, sayenera kuweruzidwa. Mulungu Mwiniwake adalenga ife ndi kupanda ungwiro. Ngati Mulungu satiweruza chifukwa cha iwo, ndiye tili ndi ufulu wotani zolakwa?
Mwachitsanzo, ngati munthu wamwalira yemwe sanakukondeni kwambiri, kapena sakonda konse, simudzasangalala pamaliro ake! Chifukwa cha kulemekeza womwalirayo ndi achibale omwe akumva chisoni, mumangolekerera - sizinatchulidwe mobwerezabwereza. Koma izi ndizopindulitsa. Izi zimatchedwa kudzinyenga. Ndipo pambuyo pa chitsanzo choterocho, tingathe kunena motsimikiza kuti kubwereza kwakhala khalidwe labwino, ichi ndi khalidwe la khalidwe. Ndipo ngati munthu alibe khalidweli, ndiye kuti anthu sangakhale nawo.