Ndiye tingatani kuti tipeze banja, chidwi cha mwamuna wathu kwa ife tokha, kukhala ndi maonekedwe ambiri, ocheza nawo komanso ambuye wabwino? Choyamba, ndizothandiza kumvetsetsa mtundu wa azimayi omwe muli nawo. Pali zambiri.
Mtundu woyamba. Banja . Chofunika kwambiri kwa mayi wotere ndi ukhondo ndi dongosolo m'nyumba. Iwo samatopa ndi kukhetsa, kuyeretsa, kutsuka, kutsuka, kuyeretsa, kutsitsa tsiku ndi tsiku. N'zotheka kuti iye samamvetsera bwino maonekedwe ake, koma zonse ziri m'nyumba za glitters, zimakhazikika ndi zonunkhira zokoma. Mabungwe amasungidwa mwa dongosolo la alfabheti, palibe fumbi m'mabuku ndi pamakona akutali.
Mtundu wachiwiri. Amakonda masitolo . Amayi amasiye amenewa ndi atsikana omwe sali ndi chidwi chochita ntchito za kusukulu. Cholinga chawo - masitolo ndi malo ogula. Kusamba mbale, kumene zinyalala zimaponyedwa ndi chifukwa chake safunikira chipangizo ichi, koma amapeza mosavuta sitolo ndi masheleji a amuna. Amayi awa amafuna ndalama zambiri kuti azisamalira, kukhalapo kwa munthu wogwira ntchito m'nyumba (wina ayenera kuyeretsa nyumbayo) ndi chidwi chake pa zinthu zomwe anagula.
Mtundu wachitatu. Amayi . Moyo wake wonse, mayi wamasiye amatenga mwana. Iye ali pakati pa chilengedwe chonse, dziko lonse likuzungulira mozungulira iye. Zonse zomwe amachita pakhomo zimapangidwira mwanayo. Sali wokondwera ndi maonekedwe ake, amasamala kuti mwanayo amavala, amadyetsedwa ndi kugona.
Mamiliyoni aang'ono ndipo osati amayi ndi amayi, amakhala kunyumba, amachita ntchito zapakhomo, amalerera ana. Ndipo, mosasamala za mtundu wanji wa amayi omwe muli nawo, muyenera kukhala osangalatsa kwa mwamuna wanu. Mayi wamasiye, mungasangalatse bwanji mwamuna wake? Mwachidule. Werengani mosamala ndikutsatira malangizo anga!
Lamulo lofunikira kwambiri lomwe muyenera kukumbukira poyesera kukhala munthu wokondweretsa ndikupanga zosiyana. Simungathe kunjenjemera kunyumba. Ngati inu mukuganiza kuti nyumbazo ndi zopanda pake ndi zosasangalatsa, ndiye momwe munthu wanu angakhalire. Adzaganizira kuti simungathe kubweretsa zosiyana ndi chidwi m'moyo wanu. Kotero, chipulumutso chachikulu kwa inu chidzakhala chosiyana! Izo ziyenera kukhala zirizonse mu chirichonse. Kuyambira ndi momwe mukuphika, kutha ndi kugonana. Ndinadabwa munthu wanu tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mbale zatsopano, nkhani zosangalatsa, maonekedwe, ndi chirichonse, chirichonse. Khalani naye bwenzi, bwenzi, wokonda kwambiri, mbuye wabwino, mayi wanzeru ndi msungwana wopusa. Amuna amawakonda pamene akazi osiyanasiyana ali pafupi nawo. Ndipo inu mukhoza kukhala chirichonse, kotero inu simudzatopa konse ndi mwamuna wanu. Kuti tithe kukhala osiyana ndikofunika kuti tipeze chitukuko. Zomwe muli nazo ndi mabuku, intaneti (samangokhala nthawi zonse pazinthu za amai, pali zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa), televizioni (sankhani mapulani, maphunzilo, maphunziro, mawonedwe ndi mawonetsero), kuyankhulana ndi abwenzi, kukomana ndi anthu osiyana , lembani maphunziro ena. Mu mawu, khalani! Koma, ndi kofunika kuti musinthe kuchokera ku chochitika china pamoyo wanu kwa ena, kuti musamawone ngati wopusa komanso osayenera.
Ngati ndinu mayi wamasiye, muyenera kudziwa momwe mungakhalire osasangalatsa kwa okondedwa anu. Kuwonjezera pa nkhawa ndi zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku, kulera ana apo pali zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa zimene mungachite. Zitha kukhala masewera, pianoforte, kuvina, kujambula, nyimbo, kupindika. Mu mau, zonse zomwe mwakhala mukulota, koma panalibe nthawi yochitira. Mwachidziwikire, sindikukamba za kufunika kosinthanitsa zosangalatsa zapanyumba mumapiri, chifukwa chosonkhana ndi abwenzi. Koma, muli ndi nthawi yokwanira, popanda mwamuna, pamene ana ali kusukulu. Inu mukhoza kuchita chirichonse, chirichonse. Osangopatula maola kuyang'ana ma opera a sopo ndikuwerenga za moyo wa nyenyezi za malonda. Muli nokha, moyo wosangalatsa komanso wosangalatsa, womwe ndi nthawi yomvetsera. Ngati potsiriza muchita zomwe mwakhala mukulota kwa nthawi yaitali. Mwachitsanzo, kuvina kapena kujambula, ndiye madzulo mukhoza kuuza mwamuna wanu za chochitikacho. Adzadziwa kuti inunso muli ndi zinthu zoti muzichita, zochitika, zofuna zanu. Zochitadi, ndithudi, ngati zokondweretsa zanu zimakhudza kwambiri ndalama za m'banja. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kuyamba kusoka zidole ndi kuzigulitsa kumasitolo apadera. Zing'onozing'ono, koma ndalama zanu zimatetezedwa. Mwamuna adzayamikira.
Momwe amayi amachitira chidwi ndi mwamuna wake palinso mfundo ina yofunikira - kugonana. Kumene kulibe? Iye ndi wofunika kwambiri pa awiriwa, ndi iye amene amachititsa ubalewu kukhala wogwirizana komanso wokondweretsa, wapafupi ndi wogwira mtima. Mavuto ogonana angayambitse kumuna kusakhulupirika kapena kuchoka m'banja. Ndicho chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri, kukhala katswiri weniweni ndi amayi osasunthika. Muyenera kukhala okonzeka nthawi zonse kugonana, nthawi zambiri mutengepo kanthu. Pambuyo pake, munthu uyu amagwira ntchito tsiku lonse, amalankhula ndi makasitomale, amatsogolera ochepa, ali wotopa. Choncho, muyenera kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri, kuganizira nthawi zosangalatsa. Mupangitseni kusamba bwino, konzekani kusambira. Kuti mudziwe momwe mungagwirizanitsire kugonana, werengani mabuku owonjezera, kulembetsa maphunziro a geisha, kapena pulasitiki. Kotero, mukhoza kusunga zosiyana pa moyo wanu wa kugonana, ndipo nthawi zina mumadabwa mwamuna wanu ndi luso lanu.
Lamulo lina lofunikira lomwe mayi wabwino ayenera kusunga. Sikofunika kukambirana mavuto a m'banja ndi mwamuna wake. Ndiwe amene mumakonda mawanga, fumbi, chotsuka chotsuka, mpope wosweka ndi vase losweka. Mwamuna wanu sasamala. Ntchito yanu ndi yosunga nyumba, kuti ikhale yosangalatsa. Koma kunena za momwe iwe umachitira izo, mwinamwake, sikofunikira. Mwamuna wanu amaganizira za ntchito yake, ali ndi mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano pamutu pake, amawerengera phindu ndi ndalama kuchokera kuntchito ya kampani, ndipo mumamuuza za matepi osweka! Kotero pali plumbers omwe amakonza makina, osati mwamuna wanu. Ntchito yake ndi kupanga ndalama, kusamalira iwe ndi mwanayo, komanso osaganizira za momwe angapangire mtedza pamphepete. Zindikirani kuti akufunabe kupumula ku malingaliro ake. Ndipo mumayamba kumanga mutu wake ndi mavuto ake tsiku ndi tsiku. Ngati mukufunadi kufotokoza maganizo anu, sankhani zochitika zabwino ndi zokondweretsa zomwe zingadzutse munthu. Pamapeto pake, ili ndilo kusamalira kwanu.
Amayi ambiri amasiye amaiwala kumvetsera ndi nthawi. Pamene, tsiku lanu liri ngati wina ndi mzake, pamene palibe chosangalatsa ndi chowala mmoyo wanu, mwachibadwa kuti malingaliro anu akukuzungulira. Sikuti nthawi yokha yolimbana ndi kukonza, ndi kofunikabe kuphunzira momwe mungamvere kachiwiri. Kodi mukukumbukira momwe, pachiyambi cha ubale wanu, munatsegula pakamwa panu ndikumvetsera zomwe munthu wanu anakuuzani. Ndipo tsopano? Simungakumbukire zomwe adakuuzani dzulo, chifukwa mukuganiza za mapepala ndi mawanga pa nthawi yomweyi? Ndizoopsa! Kumbukirani kuti abambo ndi ofunika pamene amamvetsera pamene mkazi wawo amathandizira miyoyo yawo. Phunzirani kumvetsera, ndipo mukhoza kuthawa ntchito zanu zapakhomo ndikulowa m'dziko la mwamuna wanu. Chabwino, bwanji, kuti ndinu mkazi wa nyumba. Osati kukhala wokhumudwitsa munthu wokondedwa inu mukudziwa! Ndipo ichi, mwinamwake, ndicho chitsimikizo cha moyo wachimwemwe wa banja.