Nthawi iliyonse mukapita kukachezera mbale wanu, mungatsimikize kuti mudzawona zotsatirazi. Pakhomo nthawi zonse (!) Yatsegulidwa ndi mkazi wake. Mfundo yakuti mchimwene wa nyumbayo amangowonetsedwa yekha ndi "Moni" kuchokera mu kuya kwa nyumbayo. Chirichonse chikuwonekera, iye akukhala pa kompyuta kachiwiri. Komanso, zambiri. Khalani pansi pa tebulo, mutamutcha iye. "Tsopano" - mbale wanu akulonjeza ndipo ... amasangalala kwambiri. "Tikukuyembekezerani." "Ndikupita kale." Kusinthana koteroko kungapitirire mpaka kalekale, ngati simukulowa m'chipindamo ndipo simungatuluke pa intaneti. "Tangoganizirani, atangomaliza ntchito, mwamsanga amatenga chinachake, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amakhala pafupi ndi malo omwe akusewera ndi kusewera ndi anzanu pamasewera osiyanasiyana pa Net. Ndipo nthawi iliyonse mpaka usiku. Zoona, zimayamba kundikhumudwitsa kwambiri. Kukoka wokondedwa amene ali mu ukapolo pa intaneti, ndichita zovuta, "- akudandaula mkazi wake. Kudikirira kufikira atalandira "miyeso" yodabwitsayi, simunatero, munaganiza zomuthandiza iye ndi amayi ena omwe amuna awo ali akaidi pa intaneti. Ndizo zomwe akatswiri a zamaganizo a banja amalangiza pankhaniyi.
Kodi miyendo ikukula kuti? Pofuna kuthetsa vuto, choyamba muyenera kuphunzira za izo momwe zingathere. Choncho, kodi timakonda otani tikakhala patsogolo pa anzawo? Ambiri a iwo amasewera ophwanya makompyuta osiyanasiyana, njira ndi mafuko. Ambiri amalankhulananso m'masewera osiyanasiyana ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ndiponso muwonetseni mafilimu, mabuku ndi nyimbo, ndipo anthu ena amapitanso kumalo ena, tiyeni tizinena za chikhalidwe chosasangalatsa. Nchifukwa chiyani akuchita izi? Zikuwoneka kuti yankho lake ndi lodziwika bwino: kumasuka, kupeza chisangalalo kulankhulana, kuchokera kumisonkhano yatsopano, phunzirani chinachake chochititsa chidwi. Koma zokhudzana ndi maola ochulukirapo pokhala pa kompyuta ndikuwononga zinthu zina zonse, ubale wa banja, thanzi, akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti chifukwa chake chasintha: ndi mtundu wothawirako, pomwe wokondedwa wanu sakonda chinachake. Chimodzimodzi? Inde, chirichonse: mavuto ang'onoang'ono kuntchito, mavuto ena a banja, moyo, kusowa kukhala ndi zomwe mukufuna, kusowa kwa zooneka bwino, ntchentche chabe. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti iye akuchotsa zovuta zonsezi ndizophweka: muyenera kungoyamba galimoto, lowetsani pa intaneti, ndipo pano pali pulogalamu yodzikongoletsa yomwe ili yokondweretsa dziko lonse kumene anthu onse amakhala osangalatsa komanso okongola, kumene zonse zikutuluka, ndipo zomwe mumakonda ndizo Ambuye Wolamulira wa dziko lenileni, wolamulira wa mapeto. Chabwino, ndingatsutse bwanji?
Musagwiritse ntchito mphamvu! Akazi amtundu woterewa amachitapo kanthu mosiyana: amadziyesa kuti khalidwe la mwamuna wawo silikondweretsa, likukhumudwitsa, kukana kukondana. Amayi angapo amatsata njira yosagonjera ndikugwiritsa ntchito njira yomwe imatchedwa mphamvu: amasula masewera ndi makonzedwe, amaika mapepala pamakompyuta, amapeza mabatire kuchokera pa mouse, chifukwa chotsalira wokondedwa wawo kuchokera ku "mafilimu", akhoza kuchotsa nyumbayo. Ndipo nthawi zambiri zonsezi zimaphatikizapo misonzi, zoopseza, zofuna "kaya ine, kapena kompyuta." Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, njira imeneyi si kanthu koma kuyambana ndi wokondedwayo, sikudzabweretsa. Chifukwa chakuti wokondedwa wanu si mwana - ndi kutsogolera mwachindunji, monga munthu aliyense, sangakhoze kuyima. Ndipo ngati mutakhala ngati kholo lolimba ndi mwana wosafuna, simungapeze chilichonse kupatula chionetsero (chobisika kapena chodziwika). Ngakhale (makamaka!) Ngati akuchita bwino, ngati mwana wopanda nzeru.
Chipulumutso cha wokondedwa . Pali njira zambiri zowonongeka komanso zothandiza kuthetsera vutoli popanda kutsutsana ndi mnzanuyo. Perekani wokondedwa wanu chiwonetsero chatsopano. Pambuyo pake, ndi iwo, ngakhale gawo lina lopambanitsa, mwinamwake sangakwane kwa wosewera mpira. Yesetsani kusokoneza moyo wanu wa banja. Gulani matikiti ku zisudzo, cinema, mpira, potsiriza. Pemphani alendo kuti adye chakudya, chomwe wokondedwa wanu adzakondwa kuona. Mukhoza kugwirizanitsa malonda ndi zosangalatsa ndipo, pamodzi ndi mwamuna wanu, alowetsani ku kampani yogulitsira thupi kapena muthamangire m'mawa. Ngati mukufuna zoopsa, palinso njira zambiri zosiyana siyana kuchokera kumtunda kupita ku kayak alloys. Mwa njira, za zochitika. Akatswiri ambiri amaganizo amaganiza kuti masewera a pakompyuta ndi malo ochezera anthu akuluakulu ndizosiyana ndi kugonana. Mwina ndi bwino kupereka wokondedwa wanu kuyesa chinthu chatsopano pabedi? Ndipo usakhale wamanyazi kukambirana momasuka ndi kuyesera!
Dzizisamalire nokha . Wokondedwa wanu akugwidwa ndi intaneti, koma maganizo anu pa zomwe angachite panthawiyo? Thandizo pakhomo. Kusokoneza ndi mwanayo, kulankhula ndi inu, kuyenda ndi galu (mndandanda ukhoza kupitilizidwa). Lekani kuganizira za iye - ndi wamkulu. Lekani kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu pazochitikira! Perekani nthawi ndi kudziyang'anira nokha. Muli ndi abwenzi aakazi, zopanga zodzikongoletsera, mabuku, pambuyo pa zonse. Kumbukirani kukhalapo kwa malo owonetsera malo ndi malo olimbitsa thupi. Azimayi ambiri amakangana: pamene "adasiya" kulamulira ndikusintha maganizo awo, wokondedwayo anayamba kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochepa pa intaneti. Khalani mkazi weniweni, lekani ngakhale kukankhira m'maganizo, ndipo mwamunayo pafupi ndi inu, asinthidwe. Sewani naye. Sankhani masewera nokha, lembani zolemba pazofuna. Bwanji ngati mukuzikonda? Kotero inu mupha mbalame ziwiri ndi mwala umodzi: poyamba, inu mumamvetsa bwino wokondedwa wanu, ndipo kachiwiri, mudzasangalala. Ndipo, mukuona, iwe udzakhala wamndende wa intaneti. Mwa njira, ichi ndi chimodzi mwachitatu "hare". Ngati wokondedwayo sasintha, luso logwiritsa ntchito intaneti lidzakhala mtundu wa zida zolemetsa. Mwachitsanzo, wokondedwa amachokera kuntchito, koma nyumbayo siyeretsedwa, palibe chakudya. Pa mafunso ake onse yankho ndilo: "Wokondedwa, masewera oterewa, sindingathe kudzivulaza! Konzani chakudya chamadzulo, chabwino? "
Mzimu wotsutsana . Iye si wachilendo kwa aliyense woimira kugonana mwamphamvu. Eya, iwo safuna kumvera malamulo achindunji, ndipo ndizo. Choncho muzisewera. Mwachitsanzo, ngati poyamba munkafuna kuchita zinthu zomwe mumakonda, ndikupangitsa kuti chipatso choletsedwa chikhale chokoma, yesani kusintha machitidwe. Yambani kumulimbikitsa!