Wochenjera
Mukasankha zomwe mumoyo uno ndizofunikira kwambiri kwa inu, simukusowa kudalira zochitika za wina aliyense. Zedi, pali anthu ambiri amene awona zambiri ndipo angathandize ndi uphungu. Komabe, aliyense wa ife ali ndi maganizo ake, maganizo ake ndi zina zotero. Choncho, mukamaganizira zinthu zofunika kwambiri kwa inu, khulupirirani kokha m'maganizo anu, malingaliro ndi maganizo. Chofunika kwambiri payekha ndizokha, payekha. Nthawi zambiri, anthu amaika patsogolo zolakwika zawo, chifukwa amadalira malingaliro a ena kapena amangotengeka ndi mphamvu. Makamaka izi zimachitika pamene munthu ali ndi makolo okwanira. Iwo amaganiza udindo uliwonse wosankha chilichonse. Chotsatira chake, munthu amakhala molingana ndi ndondomekoyi, yokonzedwa ndi iwo, osati momwe iye afunira. Choncho, ngati muwona kuti maganizo a okondedwa anu sakugwirizana ndi anu - samkani. Inde, ndizo zokhudza nkhani zamakono zomwe zofunikira zanu sizikukuvulazani. Nthawi zina maganizo a ena ayenera kumveka. Koma ngati chomwe mukufuna kumoyo, sichiwopseza moyo, kapena thanzi, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuumirira nokha. Anthu ambiri samvetsetsa kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi njira yathu ya moyo, kotero simusowa kupereka maganizo anu. Ndibwino kuti munthu "akanthe ma cones" ndikufika pamapeto, kusiyana ndi moyo wa wina, zomwe sizidzamubweretsera chimwemwe, chisoni.
Pezani Zokhumba Zanu
Kupititsa patsogolo, poyamba, muyenera kuvomereza moona mtima zokhumba zanu. Apo ayi, simungathe kumvetsa zomwe ziri m'moyo wanu chinthu chachikulu. Chotsani mantha ndikundiuza zomwe mukufuna. Mwina chikhumbo chanu chachikulu ndi kukhala ndi banja ndi kulera ana.Ngati muzindikira kuti simudzakhala ndi moyo popanda kudzizindikira, kukhala ndi ntchito kapena luso. Kwa anthu auzimu omwe amafunikira kuzindikira za mphamvu zamtundu wina ndi zina, njira ya uzimu ikhoza kukhala yofunikira. Musaope zolakalaka zanu. Ngakhale iwo ali osiyana ndi zolinga za ena, palibe chinthu chowopsya mu izi. Zosankha zonse zimakhudza maganizo ake, chitukuko cha maganizo, anthu, banja, chilengedwe ndi zina zambiri. Kotero chikhumbo chirichonse chomwe sichimatengera chilengedwe chimakhala chokwanira kumoyo. Kumbukirani kuti mutangoyankha moona mtima funso ili: Kodi ndikufuna chiyani kuchokera ku moyo, mutha kukamba za momwe mungayankhire patsogolo. Ndipotu, iye yekha amene amapeza zofuna akhoza kufika pamwamba. Apo ayi, munthuyo amangokhala moyo mwanjira inayake. Mwachitsanzo, ambiri amaphunzira pazinthu zomwe samazikonda, choncho, yunivesite imasiya kukhala yofunika kwa iwo. Ndipo amayi ena sangathe kulera bwino mwana, chifukwa iwo anamuberekera mosakondwera, ndipo kwa iwo patsogolo ndi moyo waumwini, ana amakhala mtolo wosasangalatsa. Koma iwo omwe amadziwa kwenikweni zomwe akufuna, amatha kulongosola molondola ndi kusuntha kupyolera mu moyo wokha.
Zofunika patsogolo
Mukasankha zomwe mukufuna m'moyo, mukhoza kuyamba kuika patsogolo. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kudziwa mfundo zazikulu kuti mukwaniritse cholinga chanu. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kukhala mu mayiko, ndiye kuti chofunika kwambiri ndi kuphunzira chinenero, kupeza mwayi wochoka (mwachitsanzo, kupambana ndi khadi lobiriwira), kuyendetsa ndalama zofunika kuti musamuke. Ngati chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wanu ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi, ndiye chofunika kwambiri ndi mwayi wokhala pafupi nawo, kupereka anthuwa nthawi yochuluka momwe angathere, mwayi wokondweretsa iwo ndi mphatso. Izi ndizo, monga momwe mukuonera, zolinga ndi zofunikirazo zimagwirizana kwambiri. Koma pakati pa zonse zoyambirira ziyenera kukhala zofunikira kwambiri, zomwe ndi maziko ofunika kukwaniritsa maloto. Komanso, nthawi zosiyana sizingakhale zosiyana kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, pa nthawi inayake ya moyo, chinthu choyambirira chikhoza kukhala phunziro, ndiye - chibwenzi ndi kuyankhulana ndi anthu atsopano, kufunafuna zolumikizana zofunika. Pambuyo pake, padzapatsidwa ntchito yowonjezera ndalama zowatsegula bizinesi ndi zina zotero. Sitiyenera kulingalira kuti chinthu chofunikira kwambiri "choyambirira" chiyenera kukhala chimodzi ndi moyo wonse. Munthu aliyense yemwe ali ndi zofunikira ndizosiyana. Musachite mantha ndikuchitira zinthu ngati kuti mukupereka munthu wina kapena wina. Ngati munthu amasintha zinthu zofunika pamoyo wake, ndiye kuti moyo wake umasintha.
Kwenikweni, kuika patsogolo, timakonza moyo wathu ndikuthandiza tokha kuti tisachoke pa njira yosankhidwayo. Kotero, ngati inu muli oona mtima ndi inu nokha, ndiye kuti njira yosankhira zofunikira pamoyo sizingakhale zovuta kwa inu. Mudzadziŵa nthawi zonse zomwe mukufuna, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yochulukirapo pa chilichonse, ndipo ntchito zomwe, popanda chikumbumtima, zidzabwezeretsedweratu. Kuwonjezera apo, dongosolo loyenera la zinthu zofunika kwambiri limakuthandizani kuti muzikhala mogwirizana ndi zolakalaka zanu ndipo musadandaule ndi nthawi yopanda malire komanso kutaya zaka zomwe mwakhala mukuchita bizinesi yosafunika ndi yosakondedwa, mmalo mwa kukwaniritsa chinthu chenicheni kwa inu.