Chikondi ndikumverera kokondweretsa, kupatsa anthu mapiko ndipo amauziridwa ndi chikondi chawo kuti abweretse anthu kuwala ndi kutentha. Okonda amabweretsa chinsinsi ndi chimwemwe padziko lapansi, madzi awo ndi amphamvu kwambiri moti amawunikira kuunikira dziko lonse lapansi ndi kuwala kwake. Kukonda kwenikweni, sikuti aliyense wapatsidwa, ndi mphatso ya Mulungu. Nthawi zambiri chikondi chimapindulitsa, kapena chikondi pa thupi.
"Chikondi chosatha chimakhala ndi chikondi," - kotero akhoza kunena pang'ono peresenti ya chiwerengero cha anthu padziko lapansi. Kwa ambiri, kukhalapo kwa chikondi chosatha ndi nthano ina. Nkhani yonena za kalonga yemwe atipangira ife okongola ndi okondedwa, kuti tipereke maluwa, kuvala mmanja mwake. Zowona, ndife ovuta kukhala achinyengo kwa ife, kapena machitidwe achikondi achilendo ngati wina akupsompsona pa tsaya pamene akupita kuntchito. Nanga bwanji za chilakolako chosatha ndi chikondi, zomwe olemba ndakatulo, olemba maulosi amalemba. Timawonetsedwa pa nkhani za televizioni zokhudzana ndi chikondi chosatha. Nchifukwa chiyani ife tiri mu dziko lenileni izi kwenikweni sizikupezeka.
Tiyenera kuyang'ana vuto ili kumbali zonse, sitiyenera kugonjera zokhazokha. Mavinyo samangogona pa mapewa a mwamuna, koma ife akazi ndi abwino. Iye ndithudi ndi munthu, koma mkazi ndi khosi. Ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi nzeru zake zomwe zingayambitsenso mgwirizano wakale wa chikondi ndi chilakolako.
Mudabwa ndi wokondedwa wanu ndipo mudabwe. Ili ndilo lamulo loyamba la chikondi chosatha. Musamangoganizira izi, kuti sipadzakhalanso tchuthi tsiku lirilonse. Zingatheke, ngati mutayesetsa. Kulenga chikondi chosatha ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri, popanda chofanana. Ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi wawonongeka - moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, chizoloŵezi ndi kusowa kwanthawi kosatha. Koma pali njira yothetsera maubwenzi apamtima, makandulo oyambirira pamutu pa bedi, kusonkhanitsa usiku, nsalu zokongoletsera, timitengo tokoma. Ndipo zambiri zomwe zingabweretse chiyero kwa ubalewu.
Mvetserani kwa mwamuna wanu ndi kumumvetsera. Kumvetsera ndi kumva ndi zinthu ziwiri zosiyana. Musamangomvetsera omvera anu okha, komanso mumve zomwe akunena kwa inu. Sinkhasinkha zonse zomwe adanena. Ndife amai, nthawi zambiri sitimalola munthu kulankhula, kumuyimitsa ndi mawu akuti: "Ndikudziwa zomwe mukufuna kundiuza" kapena "Ndikudziwa zomwe mukutanthauza tsopano". Musasankhe izi sikofunika, ndipo simungathe kuchita zinthu zodziwika bwino pamaso pake. Kumfunsa mafunso ndi kuwayankha okha. Inu simungakhoze kudziwa. Kodi adzanena chiyani kwa inu mu miniti yotsatira, simukuwerenga malingaliro ake.
Tisanapereke munthu wokondedwa wathu zosiyanasiyana, timayamba kuganiza mofulumira mmene amachitira ndi mayankho a mafunso. Ichi ndi chinthu chinanso, ife sitingadziwe momwe munthu angayankhire pa zonsezi. Ndipo ngakhale kuti nkhaniyo sichifika pamtendere wake, sitidziwa zomwe munthuyo amaganiza.
Mantha awa amodzi mu ubongo wathu amalankhula za kusatsimikizika kwathu ndi inu. Ngati munthu amakukonda ndikukuyamikirani, amamvetsa zonse. Ndipo adzayamikira khama lanu ndi ulemu. Ndipo, ngati zonse sizili monga momwe mumayang'anira, musadandaule nthawi ina yomwe zingakhale bwino. Ife tiri a iwo ndi anthu kuti tiphunzire kuchokera ku zolakwitsa zathu.
Perekani! Ndizo, perekani chidwi chanu, mphatso. Koma mphatso ndizo osati zachuma, koma mphatso yomwe muli ndi malingaliro anu ndi chikondi.
Inu nokha mumatha kuthandiza kupulumuka kwa chikondi m'dziko lino lalikulu la mayesero ndi kukwiyitsa. Kawiri kawiri kambiranani ndi munthu za ululu, amvereni inunso ndikuyese kuthandiza. Pamodzi - ndiwe mphamvu, imodzi ndi imodzi - zolengedwa zofooka.
Ngakhale asayansi anayamba kufunafuna njira ya chikondi chosatha. Atasanthula maukwati ang'onoang'ono ndi mabanja omwe adakhala pamodzi kwa zaka za zana limodzi la makumi asanu ndi limodzi, adapeza kuti mabanja ena omwe akhala pamodzi zaka zambiri, amachitanso chimodzimodzi mu ubongo monga momwe amachitira chikondi. Izi zimatsutsana kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe cha chikondi, malinga ndi momwe mankhwala omwe amachititsira chidwi kwambiri amatha miyezi 15 chiyambireni moyo wokhudzana ndi moyo ndikutha msinkhu patatha zaka 10.