Kodi mukuyenera kumvetserani chifukwa cha nyengo yoipa, mutu wa mutu kapena zinthu zofunika kwambiri? Muzochitika zoterezi, simukuyenera kupachika mphuno yanu ndikupeza njira yoyenera ku phunziro lakutamandidwa, chifukwa ndiye pali zopanda pake ndi zidule. Tiyeni tiyankhule za momwe tinganyengere mtsikana kuti adze tsiku.
Choyamba, musadandaule. Nthawi zonse lingaliro losavuta limathandiza: palibe pafupifupi munthu mmodzi amene sangatsutse kamodzi. Mukamvetsa izi, muyenera kukhala ophweka komanso okhutira ndi zinthu zotere. Maganizo awa adzakuthandizani kudzidalira, ndipo chifukwa chake - kukwanitsa kuyambitsa zokambirana, chidwi, kuitanitsa tsiku, mwachitsanzo. kupambana ndi abambo. Choncho lamulo loyamba: musaope kuthetsa nkhondo, musanalowe pankhondoyi!
Pambuyo pake, muyenera kupeza munthu aliyense payekha, kumupatsa zokonda, zosangalatsa komanso khalidwe. Ena amasungunuka panthawi ya maluwa ndipo mnyamatayo akutuluka kunja kwa mawindo, kapena kujambula bwino pachovala pamtunda kapena pa chisanu. Ena amangolakalaka kukhala ndi abambo olimbikitsa omwe amatsutsa mfundo yakuti "Lero tikuyenera kupita ku cinema (zisudzo, cafe, park, etc.)!" Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake omwe amadziwa bwino amauza aliyense "nkhani" yawo. Msungwanayo anali ndi nthawi yovuta ya moyo: mavuto a umoyo, kutopa kwa kuphatikiza ntchito ndi kuphunzira, mavuto a m'banja. Kenako bwenzi lake linabwera kwa iye kumapeto kwa tsikulo ndipo anati: "Kodi mukufuna kapena ayi, ndipo tsopano tikuyenda. Muyenera kupuma ndi kupuma. " Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, sanayambe kumuyang'ana ngati bwenzi, - adakhala msilikali wamphamvu komanso wodzidalira.
Tiyerekeze kuti mwapeza kuti (ngati, atsikana ambiri) amasankha anyamata amphamvu. Sikoyenera kuyembekezera mphindi yabwino kapena mwayi wokhala ndekha ndi iye kuti ayambe ntchito yogwira ntchito. Nthaŵi zina tonsefe timasangalala kuti tili pamaso, kotero mpatseni mwayi wabwino kwambiri. Ndikumangothamanga kwa iye mumsewu ndikufuula "Mtsikana, ndikusowa thandizo lako!" Ndipo akuwonjezera kuti: "Ndikungofunika kuyenda ndi iwe", mudzamuseka kale, ndipo chodabwitsa chingakhudze yankho lake lolondola.
Uzani mtsikana wosadziwika za momwe amakukondera komanso momwe amakukonderani, koma dziko lapansi ndi lopanda chilungamo kwambiri, mwinamwake ali ndi chibwenzi kapena mwamuna, ndipo mwina mwakamodzi. N'zosakayikitsa kuti pambuyo phokoso lachisangalalo, iye, akumwetulira, adzanena kuti zenizeni sizomwe zingakane kukuyankhulanani kwanu.
Musachite mantha kuti muwone ngati opanda pake, musawope kudabwa, ngati simukudziwa momwe mungaphunzitsire atsikana kuti azibwera tsiku. Mungathe kunena kuti "Ndikuganiza kuti wataya chinachake." Mtsikanayo nayenso adzadabwa kukonza njira zonse zomwe zingatheke pamutu pake kapena kuyang'ana pozungulira. Ndiwothandiza kwambiri t-shirt ndi zolembedwera "Ndine gawo lanu lachiwiri lotaika", lomwe lingasonyezedwe mwa kubwezera shati.
Kumbukirani, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuthetsa malo ochepetsetsa, osati kuopseza mtsikanayo ndi antics wanu komanso nthawi imodzi kuti musamamuyese. Muyeneranso kukhala osayera kapena osayera, kuyesera m'njira iliyonse kuti mutenge chilolezo choyembekezeredwa kuitana kwanu. Palibe amene angayamikire mawu akuti "Simukudziwa zomwe mukusowa", "Chabwino, pachabe - kenako mudzadandaula", ndi zina zotero. M'malo mwake, m'malo mwake: muyenera kukhala wodekha ndi wonyada. Komanso, palibe chomwe chimapangitsa chidwi kwa mtsikanayo, ngati mtsikana wina pafupi ndi inu. Ndipo, ngakhale mutakanidwa, ingoyerekezerani kuti simukukhumudwa nazo ndipo mungalankhulane mosavuta ndi anthu ena, omwe ali ofanana. Patangopita nthawi pang'ono, atapempha ngati mtsikanayo sanasinthe maganizo ake, inu, mwinamwake, mudzaphunzira kuti tsopano sakutsutsana ndi tsiku.
Ngati ndi funso la mnzako, chiyanjano chimene chirichonse sichidzapitirira kuchokera kwa "abwenzi" ku chinthu china choyipa, ndiye kungomusonyeza kuti mumasamala, ndikusamalira komanso kuti sizinali zopanda phindu nthawi zonse. Kumbukirani komwe angakonde kukhala, zosangalatsa zake ndi zokonda zake. Ngakhale kuyitanidwa ku cinema kungapangidwe bwino kwambiri, kuwonjezera mawu akuti "Ndimakumbukira kuti mumakonda makompyuta (melodramas, mantha, ndi zina zotero)." Muuzeni kuti mukufuna kumuphunzitsa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito masewero olimbitsa thupi, kusewera bowling ndipo mutsimikizika kuti mukugonjetsa. Muitaneni ku konsenti kapena kuwonetsera kwa kujambula, kugula bukhu, CD ya nyimbo, kapena keke yake yomwe mumakonda - chinthu chachikulu ndikuwonetsa kuti mumadziwa chimene akufuna, ndikumvetsera iye ndi mawu ake.
Koma, kwa ine, njira yochenjera kwambiri ndiyopangitsa msungwana kuganiza za iwe kotero kuti iye mwini yekha asankhe kuti atengepo sitepe yoyamba. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, mnyamata wina kwa nthawi yayitali analankhula ndi mtsikana, yemwe aliyense ankalota, koma anakumana naye. Iye, ndithudi, ankadziwa za izi, zomwe zinakhudza kwambiri kudzidalira kwake ndi kunyalanyaza amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Ndiyeno pamsonkhano mmalo mwachizoloŵezi "Moni! Mukuchita bwanji? "Mnyamatayo adamuuza kuti:" Ndinayankhula ndi mnzanu tsiku lina ndipo, moona mtima, sindinali kuyembekezera kumva izi za iwe "ndipo anangopitirira. Pasanathe masiku angapo amamulembera ma sms kuti amufotokoze zomwe ankatanthauza. Pamene panalibe yankho, msungwanayo adayitana munthuyo, komabe sanalandire yankho. Ndipo patapita masabata angapo amatha kumukakamiza kuti akambirane ndikukambirana momasuka. Maluwa, kumwetulira ndi mawu akuti "Zinali zofunikira kuti ndikulimbikitseni komanso chidwi chanu" sanamusiye.
Mofananamo, mungathe kukondweretsa mtsikana aliyense, kunena kuti akuyembekezera zodabwitsa kapena chinachake chomwe sanachionepo, ndipo kuti chidzakhala nkhani yanu.
Kotero sikofunikira kwambiri njira yomwe mumasankha, chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita mwachidwi komanso mokongola. Tiyenera kukumbukira nthawi zonse kuti atsikana amasamala kwambiri, amasamala komanso amafuna kuona pafupi ndi munthu wolimba mtima, wamphamvu komanso womvera. Yesetsani kuti akhale, kapena, kuti amuthandize msungwanayo kuti ndiwe wotere komanso kuti zinthu zikukuyenderani bwino.