Koma tikukamba za maubwenzi athu, choncho, popanda kuchoka pa mutu, tiyeni tiyese kumvetsetsa zokhudzana ndi kugwirizana kwazinthu zovuta monga mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Zolakwa za akazi
Kukhudzidwa, kukhudzidwa ndi kusinthasintha ndizofunika kwa chikhalidwe cha akazi. Ndi chifukwa cha makhalidwe amenewa kuti amatha kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino. Koma zida zobisika zoterezi mu manja angakhale zida zenizeni zowononga. Chifukwa chake, posadziwa momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mtima wanu, mowolowa manja mumakondwera ndi zovuta komanso tsankho, mukhoza kukhala:
Zovuta kwambiri
Tiye tikuti pali munthu wabwino, pali malingaliro ake komanso zolinga zazikulu. Koma chinachake ndi cholakwika. Eya, tiyerekeze kuti ali wodalirika. Kotero chiyani? Koma samadziwa kunena mawu okongola. Zokwanira zathu sizitha. Ndipo "osati malire athunthu" simuli woyenerera kapena ayi - samangokukondani mokwanira, ngati akonda - akanatha kuchita zonse, ngati simunavutike. Ndipo kuti amve za izo, ayenera, komanso nthawi zonse.
Misozi, kukwiya ndi kusefukira si njira yabwino yopanga mgwirizano muukwati. Izi zidzatsogolera kuzinyalala, kapena kukhala ndi chitetezo chokhazikika mwa mawonekedwe osasamala. Nthawi zonse zosasangalatsa zingakambidwe momasuka. Pambuyo pa zonse, simuli wangwiro m'zonse. Musakhale mutu wake, ndipo kenako akufuna kuti akuthandizeni. Ndipo ndi chiani chochita zozizwitsa, ngati mwayi wowona grimace pa nkhope ya wokondedwa ndi wopambana kuposa kumwetulira kokondwera? N'zosavuta kukhala "bastard" ndi "chump".
Odzikonda okha
Kulakwitsa kwina kwakukulu ndi pamene mkazi akusungunuka kwambiri mwa wokondedwa wake. Iye ali wokonzekera chirichonse kwa iye: kudzipereka zofuna zake zokha, chikhulupiliro ndi abwenzi, kukhululukira zokhumudwitsa zonse ndi kuyeretsa zoipa zonse. Njira iyi siimathera ndi chirichonse. Choyamba, ngati munthu alibe gawo lokwanira labwino, iye, popanda kulingalira mobwerezabwereza, adzakutengerani kuti mugwiritse ntchito ndipo posakhalitsa kapena mutapita patsogolo mutha kupita ku gulu la "mbuzi" zatchulidwa kale. Ndipo kachiwiri, kudzimva kwakukulu ndi kudzikonda ndiko, ndithudi, kokondweretsa, koma mwamsanga imayamba kukhala mwachangu ndipo, motero, zimabweretsa mavuto.
Zovuta kwambiri
Kwa mtsikana wachikondi, chikhumbo chomuwona wokondedwa wake pa nthawi iliyonse yaulere ndizoposa zachirengedwe. Amayembekezera izi kwa wokondedwa wake. Zikuwoneka kuti "kuswa" nthawi zonse ndi chizindikiro chachikulu cha chikondi. Koma wokondedwa sangathe kugawana nawo ntchitoyi. Amuna ndi amai ali ndi maganizo osiyana pa zinthu zoterezi. Ndiwe wokongola komanso wofunika kwa iye, koma kuti umve, sikoyenera kukhala nthawi zonse. Zoonadi, ngati misonkhano yanu ikudzaza ndi misozi komanso misonzi, idzakhala yochepa, ndipo mudzatayika ngati munthu wokongola. Kuonjezera apo, ngati munthu "wakupenga" yekha, adzalandira liti "mammoth"?
Odziimira okha
Inde, palibe amene akunena kuti muyenera kukhala msungwana wachinyamata yemwe sangathe kuyankha chifukwa cha zochita zanu, koma ngati nthawi zonse mutengapo mbali, nthawizonse muzisiye nokha mawu omaliza ndikudzipangira nokha, mwamuna wanu adzamasuka, kapena, chabwino , zakompleksuet ndi kupulumuka chabe.
Zolakwa za anthu
Ngakhale kuti chikhalidwe chimakhulupirira kuti zolakwitsa pakati pa abambo ndi amai zimapereka gawo lalikulu kwa kusowa kwa nzeru zazimayi, ndipo amuna amakhala ndi mtima wokonda kutsogolera, amatha kutsutsa "kuwombera".
Lonjezani malonjezo
Amapatsidwa pafupi ndi anthu onse. Mwinamwake mtsikana aliyense wamva za "nyenyezi zakumwamba" kamodzi kamodzi pamoyo wake. Ndipo onetsetsani: akukumbukira. Ndipo iye akuyembekezera. Khalani owona mtima ndipo fufuzani mnzanu yemwe mudzamuyang'anire pazithunzi pa maubwenzi. Inde, mofunitsitsa, simungalankhule, ndipo mwinamwake munali odzipereka pa nthawi imeneyo. Koma ndi bwino kutsimikizira malingaliro anu mwa zochita, osati mawu.
Maganizo a Psychedelic
Ngati muwona kuti mtsikanayo akuda nkhawa ndi chinachake (kuphatikizapo inu), simukusowa kutsimikizira malingaliro ake nthawi yaitali komanso osapambana (angakutsutsaninso), zokwanira kungokukumbatira ndi kupepesa (simukuyenera kugwada). Ngati sichigwira ntchito, ndiye kuti muli ndi mlandu waukulu, kapena pamaso panu mulibe chiyembekezo.
Chiyembekezo cha kukhululukidwa kwa amayi
Ngati munakhumudwitsa mkazi, ndizowona kuti sangakukhululukire ngakhale kuti sangakuwonetseni. Ndipo ngati nthawi zonse akukhululukireni, ndiye tsiku limodzi lokha, mwangozi, mungathe kubwerera kunyumba kuchokera kuntchito ndikuwona sutikesi yomwe yasonkhanitsidwa (yanu, malinga ndi nyumba ndi mizinda) pakhomo. Chiwembu sichikhululukidwa.
Kukhwima ndi kudziŵa
Azimayi ambiri sangathe kupirira. Ndipotu, iwo amafuna kuti akhalebe mafumu okongola kwambiri. Zodziwika bwino ndi mabanki ndi njira yeniyeni yothetsera maubwenzi. Chimodzimodzinso chizoloŵezi chosasangalatsa: masokosi pa chandelier, ndi zina zotero. (chabwino, mukudziwa).
Kupembedza kwakukulu
Ngati mwakonzekera maola asanu kuti mudikire kuzizira - zidzakhala, mosakayikira, zokondweretsa kwambiri. Koma ngati zochitika zoterezi zikudzibwereza zokhazikika ndikukhazikika, ndiye kuti izi zingapangitse lingaliro kuti mulibenso china choyenera kuchita. Mafani amenewo amakonda kwambiri ... kusonkhanitsa. Koma kupitirira izi, nkhaniyi sizingatheke kupitabe. Muzinthu zonse pangakhale kulingalira.
Zoonadi, izi ndi zolakwika kwambiri mu chiyanjano cha mwamuna ndi mkazi. Vuto lathu lalikulu ndi anthu wamba. Kumbukirani kuti pambali panu muli munthu amene sagwirizana ndi malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu.