Kodi mungatani kuti muchotse vutoli?

Kudalira pa mtima pa wokondedwa - tikhoza kunena, sitepe yoyamba ku imfa ya munthu aliyense. Mkhalidwe wamaganizo womwe umatengera munthu woledzera uli wofanana ndi dziko limene amamwa mankhwala osokoneza bongo alipo, ndipo amakhala atangotenga mlingo wotsatira wa mankhwalawo.

Chikhalidwe chachikondi cha kudalira chikondi - pamene mnyamata kapena mtsikana akufuna kuthetsa chiyanjano, koma sangathe kuchita ndipo ngakhale zitatha, moyo umatayika tanthawuzo chilichonse ndipo masiku osangalatsa akukhala ndi moyo wosweka.

M'munsimu muli zizindikiro zomwe zimasonyeza kudalira kwanu pa wokondedwa wanu:

1. Moyo umakhala wopanikizika, kuzunzidwa ndi kupsinjika kwanthawizonse, chirichonse chikuwoneka chopanda kanthu ndi chosafunikira;
2. Inu mumayamba kukondweretsa moyo wanu wokondedwa;
3. Ubale umasiya kukupatsani chimwemwe, koma kuti muwaphwasule siwongokwanira;
4. Chikondi nthawi zambiri chimalowetsedwa ndi chidani komanso mosiyana;
5. Chirichonse chimene mumachita ndizowona kwa wokondedwa wanu;
6. Maubwenzi akale ndi abwenzi ndi zinthu zakale.

Kawirikawiri nthawi zambiri kudalira mtima kumakhudzanso ubale wathanzi, chifukwa mnzanuyo sangafunike chikondi chokwanira komanso kusamala kwanu. Munthu wodalira mnzakeyo sangamvetse izi, ndipo yesetsani kulikonse kuti musangalatse theka lake lachiwiri.

Kawirikawiri, kukondana kotereku kumakhala kwa amayi, komabe zimachitika kuti amuna ena sakhala ochepetsedwa ndi izi. Matenda, matenda ena, kufooka kwa thupi sizinthu zonse zomwe zimawoneka pambuyo podalira pa wokondedwa.

Kodi kudalira kumakhala kuti?

Pali anthu omwe amamwa mowa kwambiri kuposa ena. N'chifukwa chiyani izi zikugwirizana?

Kuledzera kwa kudalira kumapangidwira mofulumira. Kawirikawiri ndi chaka ndi theka. Ndi panthawiyi kuti mwanayo ali mu psyche ndi malingaliro okhudzana ndi momwe angayanjanirane ndi dziko lozungulira ndi anthu omwe akuzungulira pake. Makolo amayesetsa kuti apange dziko lapansi kwa mwanayo, yemwe adzakwaniritse zosowa zake zonse, zakudya, komanso chitonthozo cha thupi, kuyankhulana, kuthandizira maganizo komanso chikondi. Ngati panthawiyi mwana alibe kanthu, amayamba kumva njala kwa moyo wake wonse. Kawirikawiri, ngakhale m'banja lopindulitsa kwambiri, mwanayo akukumana ndi mfundo yakuti sakupeza kukwaniritsa mwamsanga zosowa zake.

Wokondedwa ameneyu adzapeza munthu moyo wake wonse yemwe angamupatse zomwe analibe ali mwana: chikondi chosamvetsetseka ndi kumvetsetsa, kulingalira zosasamala za zosowa, kukwaniritsidwa kwa zilakolako, zolakalaka ndi zina zotero. Inde, izi n'zosatheka. Zosatheka ndi munthu wokwiya ndi wokhumudwa, omwe amatha kusintha ngakhale chikondi champhamvu kwambiri kukhala chovuta.

Chochita ndi momwe mungakhalire wodalira?

Musanayambe kulankhula za njira zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi matenda a maganizo, ndi bwino kumvetsera mfundo imodzi yofunikira.

Ngakhale kuti ndi kovuta kwambiri kuyankhula kwa nthendayi, matenda a psychic amachiritsidwa movuta kwambiri kuposa thupi, ndipo munthu amene wakwanitsa kuthana ndi vutoli kamodzi, sadzakumananso nalo.

Chotsani onse ojambula

Kudalira kumtima ndi matenda, ndipo tikudziwa kuti matenda alionse amatha kuchiritsidwa pambuyo pake. Atachotsa gwero la kuzunzika, anasiya kuvutika. Palibe masiku okondana okondana, maitanidwe, kugonana, makalata m'mabuku osiyana siyana ndi zina zotero. Muyenera kuchotsa omvera onse. Kupanda kutero, mumayika kuthamangitsidwa mukutsimikizirana kuti mavuto anu adzatha mwezi umodzi. Komabe, simuyenera kuyembekezera kuti mutha kuchotsa zowawa mkati mwa sabata. Mwachidziwikire, muyenera kugwirizana ndi zomwe zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri.

Dzipangireni ndi ntchito zosangalatsa

Inu mukhoza kudzipereka nokha kuzinthu zodzikongoletsera, chinthu chachikulu ndichoti chimachotsa nthawi yanu yonse ndi malingaliro anu ziri pafupi. M'masiku oyambirira, kudzakhala koyenera kudzikakamiza kuti muchite chinachake, chifukwa kusintha kumakhala kofunika kwambiri.

Thandizo la maganizo

Nthawi zina kuyendetsa kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo kungafunike. Chinthucho ndi chakuti chifukwa cha maonekedwe ophatikizana ndi opweteka kwambiri, koma amachokera ku msinkhu wautali. Anthu omwe amadalira kwambiri maganizo awo ndi omwe sanasamalire ndi kuwakonda komanso omwe alibe zosowa zawo.

Komabe, mutha kukwanitsa zambiri. Njira yamakono yomwe timakufotokozerani idzakuthandizani kuchepetsa vuto lanu ndikuphunzira momwe mungayankhire mokwanira malingaliro anu ndi zikhumbo zanu.

1. Tangoganizani kugwirizana kwanu ndi mnzanuyo. Kodi amawoneka bwanji? Kodi ndi chiyani: aura, ulusi, chingwe, ray?
2. Sinthani izi kugwirizana.
3. Zindikirani mtundu wanji wa imfa yomwe munakumana nayo - ndiko kuti, kukhalapo kwanu kuli ndi phindu lanji ndi munthu uyu. Zopindulitsa zonse ndi zakuthupi.
4. Tangoganizirani kuti muli nazo zonsezi. Mungapeze kuti kwinakwake? Yesetsani kupeza zosachepera zitatu.
5. Tsopano, ganizirani maganizo awa abwino kwa inu nokha. Gwiritsani ntchito mgwirizano womwe ukugwirizanitsa ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ngati mwa inu muli ulusi wofiira, apa zonse ziyenera kukhala zofanana.
6. Dziyanjanitseni nokha ndi njira yanu yatsopano. Dziwani kuti ndizotheka kwambiri kukhala ndi zinthu zonsezi ndikugawana ndi ena. Mwa ichi mudzatha kulimbikitsa kulankhulana ndi mwayi watsopano.
7. Ganizirani kumene mungagwiritse ntchito zinthu zanu zatsopano. Kodi kusintha kumeneku kudzakhudza bwanji moyo wanu? Kodi mungachite chiyani izi? Kodi nthawi imeneyi chiyanjano chanu chidzakula bwanji ndi chinthu chogwirizanitsa?
8. Tangoganizirani ndikukonzekera tsogolo lanu popanda wokondedwa. Nthawi zonse ganizirani zina zomwe mungachite kuti chitukuko chichitike.

Pamene kudalira sikukutha, kupwetekedwa mtima ndi kusokoneza kumasiya kukutsatirani. Ululu ndi kukhumba zimatha, malo ambiri amamasulidwa chifukwa cha chikondi chenicheni - popanda kuzunzika, nkhawa, manyazi, kupsinjika maganizo ndi kutaya.