Ena anganene mwamsanga kuti akunena, chikondi cha mtundu wanji - mphamvu zonse zoperekedwa kwa banja ndi mwamuna wake. Potsutsa izi, ndiloleni ndinene kuti mkazi wokonda mwamuna wake samadziiwala za iye mwini - pambuyo pake, mawonekedwe ake ayenera kukhala okondweretsa komanso okondweretsa nthawi zonse, kukondweretsa wokondedwa, kumuyamikira ndi kupereka chifukwa chodzikuza. Chabwino, ngati simukukonda mwamuna wanu, ndiye kuti simusamala kuti mukuwoneka bwanji. Kukhala "wokhumudwa" nthawi zonse kumakhala kosavuta kuposa kukhala pamwamba. Choncho, sichidziwikanso amene adzikonda yekha: iye amene nthawi zonse, mosasamala kanthu kali konse, akugwira ntchito payekha ndi mawonekedwe ake, kapena aliyense amene amasamala ulesi wake, ponena za kusamalira banja. Kotero, "nsembe" nthawizonse imalepheretsa kugonana ndi amuna. Mwamuna amazoloŵera kupambana, mkazi - womenyedwa kapena mnzanuyo amamuvutitsa.
Akazi mu maubwenzi ndi amuna, malinga ndi Tracy Cabot, katswiri wa zamaganizo ochokera ku America, amalepheretsedwanso ndi zoyembekezera zake zosatheka. Akazi kuyambira maloto a mwana wa kalonga. Amayamba kukonzekeretsa tsogolo lawo, kumudziwitsa makhalidwe ake, msinkhu wa chikhalidwe ndi kulera ndi makhalidwe ena ake, komanso maluso ena ogwira ntchito, masewera a masewera, nzeru - zonse zomwe amaganiza kuti mwamuna weniweni ayenera kukhala nazo. Koma "gentleman's set" nthawi zambiri zimachitika, ngati si pamtunda, zimatsutsana ndi mkaziyo atapangidwa "muyezo". Mwamuna ndi mkazi akakhala pamsonkhanowo, akuyenda pansi pa mwezi, ndipo ngati mwamuna amakoka mkazi pang'ono, ndiye kuti nthawi yomweyo amayesa kumukakamiza. Zolakwitsa zambiri zimayamba mwadzidzidzi ndikuwonekera panthawi yokhala pamodzi. Ubale umachepetsedwa, ndipo kenako mu chidziwitso chosadziwika, chikondi chimatha. Ndipo ndani ali wodzudzula, mwamuna? Simunakwaniritse zomwe mukuyembekezera? Mwinamwake zinali zoyenera kuti mumvetsere maganizo a amayi, alongo, atsikana - amadziwa bwino kwambiri ndipo amatha kuona momwe mumagwirira ntchito limodzi. Anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi inu amatseka maso a anthu pa osankhidwa anu sali "zamyleny, ndipo mosiyana - amamvetsera kwambiri. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, musayembekezere kuti mwamuna wanu adzakhala wangwiro. Komanso musamayembekezere kuti mudzachita. Osati munthu aliyense, ngakhale atakukondani kwambiri, adzakulolani kuti mudzipangitse nokha, kuti musinthe malingaliro anu. Apo ayi, iye angaganize kuti walakwitsa mwa iwe ndipo kenako nkuzizira. Kumbukirani kuti chikondi sichidalira kuti ndi yani yomwe ili yabwino kwambiri. Aliyense wa inu ndi wapadera ndipo mwanjira ina, adzaposa wina. Mutha kukonda mwamuna weniweni, pokhala oyenerera pambali iliyonse. Ndipo mwinamwake iye anakonda inu chifukwa cha izo!
Mphindi wotsatira womwe umalepheretsa akazi mu ubale wawo ndi amuna - mukuyembekeza kuti zonsezi zichitike mu ubale wanu. Koma musaiwale kuti munthu amafunika kuyankha, kuyembekezera kubwereza. Ngati mukuwonetsa mkwiyo chifukwa cha khalidwe lanu kapena kunyada, ndiye kwa munthu ndi chizindikiro chakuti sakukondweretsa inu. Ndiye wosankhidwa wanu ayesa "zithumwa zanu" podutsa lina, ngakhale kuti, mwinamwake, mungayembekezere kuchulukira. Kumbukirani - amuna amakhalanso odzikuza. Ngati uli wamng'ono, mnyamatayo akhoza kuyesa "kuyambitsa". Koma amuna okhwima adzayesera kusiya ntchito - chifukwa amayi osakwatiwa ali ochuluka kwambiri ndipo amapeza bwenzi mosavuta kuposa bwenzi. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, musakane munthu yemwe amasonyeza zizindikiro za chidwi chanu - phunzirani momwe mungatengere bwino, kusonyeza chidwi chanu, ndiyeno mudziwe chomwe chiri.
Ena amakhulupirira kuti akazi amalephera kuchita chiyanjano pakati pawo ndi amuna. Tikuyesera kukutsimikizirani kuti mawu awa ali kutali ndi choonadi. Mkazi wodzala mokondwa, wokonzekera bwino nthawi zonse anakopeka mwamuna. Chinthu chachikulu ndichoti kuphatikizapo ntchafu zonse zinalipo m'chiuno. Zomwezo zimagwedezeka mu malingaliro a Amayi Chilengedwe sadzasiya munthu wosayanjanitsika. Mutu wa kukwanira ukuwotcha. Ndipotu, atsikana ndi amayi ena amakhulupirira kuti ndi zosasangalatsa kwa amuna ndipo maubwenzi onse amasungidwa pamtanda, poopa kusonyeza thupi lawo. Koma ngati mwamuna akukukopani, ziyenera kukhala zonena. Ndipo mawu oti "mwamuna amakonda maso ake" anganenedwa molondola ndi lingaliro la chilakolako, osati chikondi. Inde, mkazi wokongola amabwera mu theka lachikhumbo chofuna kukhala nacho, ndipo kamodzi. Munthu wochenjera yemwe amakonda moyo wamtengo wapatali sadzatenga konse mkazi wokongola yemwe ali ndi malo pamtanda. Koma amayi ali ophweka, okhala ndi khalidwe labwino ndi laulemu amamangiriza munthu kwa nthawi yaitali. Pazifukwa zina, zitsanzo ndi nyenyezi sizikhala zosangalatsa. Zingakhale zoipitsitsa kuposa nsanje ya amuna. Nsanje ikhoza kufotokozedwa ndi kuledzera, ndi kumenyedwa, ndi kupandukira. Kotero, ngati mulibe chokhumba 90-60-90, kondwerani. Komanso, nthawi yomwe Merlin Monroe kapena Venus wa Milos adzalowanso mu mafashoni sali patali. Koma Agiriki ankadziwa zambiri za thupi! Inde, sitikuyankhula za atsikana "asidi-ngati", osangoyendayenda pakhomo. "Kiselny" mimba ndi miyendo yomweyo sizingatheke kukondweretsa amuna ambiri, ndipo mkazi ndi wovuta kwambiri moti palibe mphamvu ndipo amafuna kukhala ndi chidwi ndi amuna. Koma adakondanso iwo! Yesetsani kuti musafalikire ku ungwiro ndikudziyang'ana nokha.
Chimodzi mwa zolakwika zomwe amayi amachita mu maubwenzi ndi amuna ndi pamene iwowo amakhala iwo - amuna oterewa muketi. Akazi omwe ali ndi khalidwe lachimuna amatenga gawo la maudindo awo amuna, kutembenuza amuna awo kukhala limp doll. Amuna ena amatsutsa, ndikusiya maudindo awo, pamene ena - amasangalala kuchoka pambali. Ndipo mu nkhani iyi, mkaziyo amachita chinthu cholakwika. Choyamba, amatembenuza mwamuna wake kukhala "tizilombo toyambitsa matenda" ndi manja ake, ndipo chachiwiri, amachepetsa kudzidalira kwake. Poyamba, mwamuna amakhala ngati Alphonse, akugwiritsa ntchito mwayi wonse. Pa nthawi yomweyo, palibe chomwe chimalepheretsa kupeza mbuye kumbali ndi kukhala "mwamuna" weniweni ndi iye. Ndipo, pamene mkazi atopa chifukwa ali yekhayo pa "harness", mwamuna wake wokondedwa sangamlole kuti adziphatikizirepo pa chirichonse. Apa ndi pamene ma scandals ayamba. Pachifukwa chachiwiri, ngati munthu samva bwino, amayamba kufunafuna chidwi pa mbali - komwe angayamikiridwe ndikumva ngati munthu. Mwinamwake iye sanayesere mokwanira kuchoka mu banja, koma iye sakanakana kwa mayi wamkazi wa mtima mwina.
Ubale ukhozanso kuwonongeka ngati wina ayesa kuzilingalira panthawi yogonana. Bedi lakwati si malo a squabbles. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi - bedi limatha kugwirizanitsa komanso kuyambitsa malingaliro atsopano.
Ndipo chinthu chimodzi - musamane mkazi wanu mwachikondi. Ngakhale ngati mwakhumudwa kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, ndi njira iyi yomwe zikuwoneka kuti angathe kukuthandizani. Mulimonsemo, izi zidzasunga ukwati kuti zisasinthe kapena kuzichepetsa. Akazi anzeru amadziwa za izi.