Kodi mukuganiza kuti kutalika kwanu, kulemera kwake ndi thupi zimangokhala ndi inu komanso, mwina, ndi okondedwa anu? Ziribe kanthu momwe izo ziriri! Zikuoneka kuti deta iyi ya anthropological ingakuuzeni za umunthu wanu kwa munthu aliyense amene amakumana nanu. Ndipo, mosiyana, pakuphunzira "kuwerenga" lamulo lachilengedwe, mungathe kufotokoza mosavuta momwe mnzanuyo angakhalire mu izi kapena izi. Nkhaniyi ikuphunzitsani momwe mungazindikire mawonekedwe a munthu.
KODI MISONKHANO YOYENERA BWANJI?
Kukula ndi khalidwe loonekera kwambiri la maonekedwe. Inde, nthawi zonse pakati pa kuchuluka kwa ubwino ndi malingaliro a thupi ndi kutalika kwa thupi siululidwe. Komabe, kukula kumakhudza kwambiri khalidwe la munthu, kuthekera kwake kulankhulana. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna wokwera akuwonjezera "kulemera". Ndipo mosiyana.
Nchifukwa chiyani anthu amadzimvera mopanda kuzindikira kufunikira kwakukulu ku kukula, kawirikawiri, kumveka. Anthu adasinthika panthawi yomwe kukula kunkagwirizanitsidwa ndi mphamvu. Ndipo zoterezi zinali zofunikira, makamaka kwa amuna. Kupeza, kupeza, kupambana, kuteteza - izi ndi zolinga zomwe anthu akhala akufuna kuzikwaniritsa m'mibadwo yonse, ndipo zomwe, nthawi zakale, zikhoza kuchitika kokha ndi kuthandizidwa ndi mphamvu.
Pakapita nthawi, ubale pakati pa kukula ndi mphamvu watembenuzidwa pang'ono. Sizongopanda kanthu kuti mwana aliyense alota kukula mwamsanga kuti akhale wamkulu, kutanthauza, osati mwini yekha wa mphamvu, komanso wamphumphu wathunthu. Ndipo chikhumbo chakuti anyamata akule msanga ndizofunika kwambiri kuposa atsikana. Kulimbana ndi kukula kwa anzanu kumapangitsa kuti anthu ambiri azivutika kwambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake anthu ambiri otsika amadziwika ndi zinthu monga chidziwitso chokwanira, ndikudziwitsidwa (kumbukirani kuti nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta zodziwika bwino: ndi munthu waufupi yemwe ali ndi thumba lalikulu, iye ndi chitsanzo chachitali) ndipo amamvetsera mwachidziwitso kwa ena.
N'zosangalatsa kuti static yotchuka imatsimikizira kuti anthu otsika amakhala okonda kwambiri. Inde! Mnyamata wina wazaka zitatu akutha msinkhu akukambirana kuti kutuluka kwa mahomoni ake sikutheka, monga atsikana amasankha kukumana ndi anyamata aakulu. Amayamba kuyang'anitsitsa wokondedwa, kumenyera nkhondoyo moona mtima komanso mophiphiritsira, kuti aphunzire kusataya mtima ndi kukana ndikupeza njira zatsopano zowononga mitima ya atsikana. Izi zikusonyeza kuti, kuyambira m'mawu osakwanira chifukwa cha kukula kwawo, "shorties" nthawi zina amapindula mofulumira kwambiri. Komanso, pali nthawi yochuluka kwa amuna oterewa. Ngakhale anthu okongola akuthamangira kumisonkhano yopanda malire, "mafupipafupi" amayendetsedwa kuti aziphunzira, kugwira ntchito. Koma maganizo a amayi ku kukula ndi osiyana. Ngati mayiyo sagwira ntchito pamtanda, kukula kwake kumatha kumusokoneza. Amuna ndi osakayika kwambiri (ndiwo chikhalidwe chawo) kuti adziwe kulamulira kwa amayi, ngakhale muyeso ngati kukula. Ndipo akazi amadziwa kuti kukula kwakukulu kumachepetsa mwayi wawo wolowera m'munda wowonera hafu yamphamvu yaumunthu.
♦ Inde, kukula sikungathe kukonzedwa, koma n'zotheka kuchitapo kanthu. Akazi apamwamba, pokhala ndi bwana wamkulu ndi galu wokhala pansi, sayenera kuvala pochita nsapato za tsitsi. Chifukwa chiyani katswiri wavulala? Yesetsani kusankha zovala muzithunzi zozungulira ndipo musamamvere tsitsi.
Akazi aang'ono, omwe ali pafupi ndi Napoleon aliyense ndi Bonaparte, ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito "khadi" lawo - kuvala nsapato ndi zidendene zapamwamba, "A la Babette" ndizovala ndi mabatani okonzedwa motere, ndi zina zotero.
MMENE MUNGAGWIRITSE NTCHITO ZA KILOGRAMI?
Malinga ndi maonekedwe a munthu, thupi lake limatha kupatulidwa m'magulu atatu a anthu. Yoyamba ndi mtundu wa asthenic, wamtunda, wonda, wamphwapa, ndipo ali ndi miyendo yaitali. Wachiwiri - anthu a thupi lotayirira, amangofuna kudzaza. Kaŵirikaŵiri amakhala offupika, ndi mimba yaikulu. Amakhala ndi ubweya wofewa, womwe umatha kupangidwira. Akatswiri awo a zamaganizo amatcha "picnic". Gawo lachitatu limaphatikizapo mphamvu, mapewa ambiri, ndi mthunzi wopangidwa ndi munthu. Akatswiri awo a zamaganizo amatcha "maseŵera". Mukafuna kudziwa mtundu wa thupi ndi diso, ganizirani zofunikira za "kusaka dziko" kwa chakudya. Mmodzi amene mudamupeza membala wa gulu lachiwiri, mwina akhoza kukhala wa chibadwa kuchokera pachiyambi. Ndipo mosiyana.
Bungwe la malamulo likugwirizana ndi ... matenda a maganizo. Zikuwoneka kuti mwa anthu omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino omwe amaganiza kuti matenda a maganizo ndi ofunika kwambiri.
• Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani anthu omwe ali ndi "schizophrenic touch". Ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi moyo wabwino komanso mutha kugwira ntchito, koma muzovuta, zovuta zikuwonetsani zochita za schizophrenic. Amuna awa, malinga ndi momwe okhulupirira amatsenga amaonera, achokerani kalasi ya asthenics. Athos wotchuka kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi ndi woimira schizoids. Kusungulumwa kwina, chizoloŵezi choganiza zosadziwika ndizo zonse.
• Ngati muli a mtundu wa "picniks", ndiye malinga ndi zolakwika zomwe mungathe kuziona ngati cycloid. Kawirikawiri anthu a gulu ili ndi okondwa komanso amalumikizana. (Ngati mumatchula kufanana, mungatche "picnic" Porthos.) Koma ngati kuvutika maganizo kwatha, ndiye kupitiriza kuyendetsa. Kenaka amasinthiranso kusintha kwabwino.
Ndipo, potsiriza, "maseŵera" ndi gulu la mitundu ya viscose. Izi zikutanthauza kuti anthuwa sangakhale odwala matenda. Ndipo ngati izo zitero, izo ziri mu mawonekedwe a khunyu. Ochita masewerawa ndi ovuta kuwongolera pazochitika zatsopano, iwo ali osamala mu kulingalira kwawo.
Koma makhalidwe a khalidwe? Chilichonse chiri chophweka. Yankhani, popanda kuganiza, kodi mukuganiza bwanji mantha, zopweteka, ndulu? Wosangalala, wokondwa, wokondana? Mwinamwake ambiri a ife chikhalidwe choyamba ndi chochepa, ndipo chachiwiri - mu thupi.
Tili ndi malingaliro otero kuchokera kwa makolo akale omwe amakhulupirira kuti mayi wopereka ndalama amakhala ndi thanzi labwino komanso losasinthasintha, choncho amatha kubereka ndikukula mbewu zonse. Munthu wochuluka anali kugwirizana ndi ulemelero ndi mtendere mnyumbamo. Zojambula za nthawi zakale zomwezo zinali chizindikiro cha kupsinjika ndi kudzichepetsa, mtundu wina wa "ukwati" wachibadwidwe.
Tsopano tifotokoza mwachidule. Mukakumana ndi interlocutor, ambiri amayamba kukhala odzaza, kuposa kukhala wokhutitsidwa, mungathe kuchita zinthu mosavuta komanso momasuka. Kuchokera kwa munthu woteroyo sitingathe kuyembekezera kukhwima kapena "kupweteka kumbuyo." Ngati mnzanuyo ali woonda kwambiri, sungani ndi kukambirana molimbika ndi mosamala. Kulankhulana ndi olemba, pindula "makumi asanu ndi makumi asanu ndi makumi asanu", sankhani mtundu wina wa mzere pakati pakati pa awiri omwe tatchulidwa pamwambapa.
AH, SHEARS!
Popeza palibe chitsanzo chofanana pamanja, choncho palibe awiri awiri ofanana pansi.
• Ngati muli ndi miyendo yaitali, simungathe kubisala chikondi chanu kwa ena. Inu, mwachiwonekere, mukuyembekeza kuchokera pachikondi, kutsogolo ndi kuyenda pansi pa mwezi. Nthawi zambiri simunakonzekeretse mavuto osiyanasiyana ndikuyesera kupeza "kubwerera" komwe mungabise.
♦ Ogwira miyendo yochepa amayamba kufunafuna ndipo nthawi yomweyo amapitiriza kudya chakudya choyamba. Iwo ali amphamvu pansi, ndipo safuna kusowa kwa pinki iliyonse. Mavuto ndi anthu awa athazikika pamene akufika. Zoona, iwo amatha kuyembekezera kuti nthawi zambiri amasintha maganizo.
Momwe mungadziwire kuti ndi miyendo iti yomwe "mwavala"? Kutalika kwa miyendo kumaonedwa kuti ndibwino ngati kuli kofanana ndi theka la msinkhu wa mkazi kuphatikizapo masentimita 3-8. Ngati kutalika kwake kuli kochepera theka la msinkhu, ndiye kuti miyendo imakhala yochepa. Ngati likufanana ndi kutalika kwa 9 cm kapena kuposa - yaitali.
KOMA, ZINTHU, GAIT!
Kutanthauzira maonekedwe a maonekedwe, nthawi zina munthu amaiwala za chinthu chachikulu - za phindu. Koma akulankhula zambiri! Ngati mukuyenda mukupunthwa, kutsekemera pang'ono mkati, ena akhoza kuzindikira kuti ndinu wamanyazi komanso osasangalala pamoyo wanu. Ngakhale ngati izi ziri zoona, munthu sayenera kuvomereza kwa alendo mumkhalidwe wosasangalatsa uwu. Yambani kukhala ndi zosavuta, zouluka mapazi, ndipo posakhalitsa kuchokera m'mafaniko sipadzakhalanso nyali kunja! Sitikulankhula za miyendo ya anthu, chifukwa sakhala ndi katundu wokhudzana ndi maganizo.