Kulankhulana
Kotero, momwe mungachitire pa zovuta zoterezi? Choyamba, ngati pali kuthekera, onetsetsani kuti mukuyesera kukumana ndi munthuyu. Konzekerani kuti mutha kumva zinthu zambiri zosasangalatsa kuchokera kumbali yanu. Musakwiyire ndikukhumudwa, chifukwa munthu amamukonda, ndipo pamene okondedwa anu amatipweteka, mkwiyowu ndi womveka bwino komanso wovomerezeka.
Mukabwera kumsonkhano musayambe kutaya nthawi, ngati simungamve chisoni munthuyo, mudzayamba kukayikira ndipo pamapeto pake musananene chilichonse, mudzabwerera kunyumba, ndipo pitirizani kunama. Choncho, yambani kuyamba kukambirana ndi mfundo yakuti mudagwa chifukwa cha chikondi, fotokozani chirichonse, pemphani chikhululuko ndikuchoka. Kumbukirani kuti zomwe mungachite zingakhale zosiyana: ndikufuula "Ndikupha" ndikuwerama ndikuchonderera kuti musachoke. Chilichonse chimachitika, musasinthe chisankho chanu ngati mukudziwa kuti chinachotsedwa mwadala. Chisoni chanu chidzangowonjezera inu ndi iye.
Osatchulidwa mu makalata
Ngati simungathe kukomana, mwachitsanzo, mnyamata wina kunja, ndiye yesetsani kulankhula naye kudzera pa Skype pa foni. Amayi ambiri amavutika kuti alembe zomwe zinachitika, koma si onse omwe amamvetsetsana molondola, samatanthauzira momveka bwino mawu a Iphraz. Choncho, yesetsani kulankhulana momasuka. Osayesayesa kumunyoza munthu, kumukwiyitsa, kuganiza kuti zidzakhala zophweka kwa iye. Kuonjezera apo, kupatula kumusiya yekha, mumapangitsanso zovuta ndi kuonjezera zolakwa pazimayi zonse. Kotero, iwe umati chirichonse chiri. Ngati munthu akufuna kukambirana naye momasuka, musatenge foniyo mutamuuza kuti malingaliro apita. Mwinamwake muyenera kukambirana mavuto ena apakhomo omwe angakhalepo tsopano. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti muyankhule zinthu zonse mwakamodzi, kusiyana ndi kubwezeretsa munthu, ndikudzizunza nokha ndi zokambirana zanu.
Ngati mutasiya munthu yemwe ali kutali ndi inu, akukhala m'nyumba mwake - mwamsanga musonkhanitse zinthu ndikuchoka. Makamaka ngati munawonekera arc. Chowonadi ndi chakuti sizowopsya kwambiri kupeza zomwe sizikukondedwa, zomwe mungamve ponena za kuti yemwe kale ankakonda amagwiritsa ntchito katundu wake, ngakhale amachititsa amuna ena kuti aziona kuti ndizolowera. Ndiponso, mkazi wonyada sangalole kuti agwiritse ntchito munthu amene adasiya yekha. Izi ndizopambana komanso zopanda chilungamo payekha ndi zomwe zinali pakati panu kale. Powonongeka kwambiri, ngati mwayi waperekedwa ndipo izi ndizofunikira, mukhoza kutanthauzira mu ubale wa bizinesi, mwachitsanzo, kulipira lendi. Kawirikawiri, chitani kuti musakhale ndi ngongole ndipo mwamunayo sangathe kukudzudzulani chifukwa chosangomusiya, komabe apitirize kugwiritsa ntchito chifundo chake.
Ngati iye amadziwa za chirichonse iyemwini
Pali zochitika mukamadziwa kuti mwasiya kukonda mnyamata / kapena mwapezekapo wina kale kuposa momwe munasankhira kumuuza. Kodi mungayankhe bwanji? Choyamba, atsikana ambiri amayamba kukhala ndi malo otetezera ndikumuimba mlandu chifukwa chomvetsera wina, akudzudzula abwenzi ake komanso anzake kuti asamachite, ndi zina zotero. Musamachite mwanjira yotereyi. Ndiwe wolakwa. Sikuti chikondicho chalakwika, chikhoza kuchitika kwa wina aliyense. Ndiwe wolakwa kuti wanyenga iye, ndipo adaphunzira za chirichonse kuchokera kwa ena. Choncho, ndi bwino kuvomereza kulakwitsa kwanu. Simukusowa kufuula kuti uwu ndi ubale wanu wokha ndipo palibe amene ali nawo ufulu wokomana nawo. Muli kale opanda maubwenzi. Inde, ndikudziganizira nokha, ngati iwe uli pamalo ake kapena m'malo mwa abwenzi ake, kodi mungakhale chete kapena osalandira zambiri za mtundu umenewu? Skoreevsego ayi, chifukwa pamene wina akukhumudwitsa munthu pafupi ndi ife, nthawi zonse timayesetsa kuthandiza, osati kumvetsera momwe zilili.
Choncho, pamene zochitika zoterezi zikuchitika, musamayimire bodza, kunama, ndi zina zotero. Ndipotu, mukufunikirabe kusiya, ndipo ndi khalidweli mudzawononge chikhulupiriro chake kwa anzanu ndikumupangitsa kuti avutike. Choncho, dziwani kuti mukulakwitsa, mvetserani zonse zomwe anganene, ngakhale mutakhala osasangalala ndikukuuzani.
Mwinamwake, chokhacho chingakhoze kupangidwa kokha mu vuto limenelo, pamene iwe ukudziwa kuti mwamuna ali wosasamala kwambiri ndipo akhoza kuchita chinachake chomwe sichiri chabwino kwa iwe. Pachifukwa ichi, mofatsa mchenjeze kuti simukumuopa, kuti mumavomereza kuti ndinu wolakwa, koma simudzakhala mwamantha ndi kuyembekezera kwa iye pamene abweranso, chifukwa muli nawo omwe angateteze. Koma kunena izi muli ndi ufulu pokhapokha ngati ali ndi makhalidwe osadziwika bwino, ndipo mumadziwa kuti munthu ali wokonzeka kuchita zinthu zomwe zingakuvulazeni. Apo ayi, ndi bwino kungokhala chete.
Kupuma ndi chikondi chenicheni
Ndipo kusankha kotsiriza, komwe kuli koyenera kuyankhula, ndiko kusweka kwa maubwenzi, zomwe zinali zokha. Izi zimachitika kuti tidziwe bwino pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi anthu, kuyankhulana nawo ndipo timaganiza kuti timagwirizana nawo. Komanso, interlocutor amasonyezeranso kumverera kwa ife. Komabe, nthawi imapita ndipo zimakhala zomveka kuti chikondi chenicheni ndi chinyengo chakuti timalenga, kenako chimatha. Ngati izi zikukuchitikirani, ndiye tangolongosolerani munthu yemwe mukufuna kumuuza, koma mulibe malingaliro ozama. Kumbukirani kuti maimidwe okhudzana ndi zochitika ndi mitima sizikutanthauza chilichonse. Simukufunikira kwenikweni kwa munthu uyu ndipo simukusowa kumva kuti ndinu wolakwa.
Ngati mwamunayo akuyesa kufotokoza momveka bwino, akuopseza ndikukhumudwitsa - mutumize mosamala ku mndandanda wakuda. Zidzakhala ngati wachinyamata kapena wina amene ali ndi vuto la maganizo. Ndi anthu oterewa ndi bwino kuti musayanjane konse, mwinamwake izi zikukhudzidwa ndi zotsatira zovuta kwa inu.
Mulimonsemo, ngati mutasankha kuchotsa ubwenzi wanu ndi munthu akutali, khalani oona mtima. Pambuyo pake, mosasamala kanthu kuti iye ali kutali ndi inu kapena kutseka, mwamunayo ali ndi ufulu wodziwa choonadi ndi kuphunzira kukhalabe popanda inu. Choncho, musataye nthaŵi ndi bwino kudziulula nokha, kuti musasinthe zinthu zonse kuti musapereke ziyembekezo zopanda pake.