Koma ndizo mwayi : pazifukwa zina sizigwira ntchito. Ngakhale kuti "chifukwa china"? Izo sizigwira ntchito chifukwa sitimakhulupirira kwambiri! Ndipo izi sizosadabwitsa. Anatiphunzitsa mpaka liti: "Simungakhale odzikonda! Choyamba ganizirani za ena, ndiyeno nokha ... Inde, izi sizikanakhoza kupitilira popanda tsatanetsatane.
Mosakayikira, mwamvapo uphungu "momwe mungadzikondere nokha" kangapo, ndipo mwinamwake mwayesayesa kuwatsatira. Koma tiyeni tsopano, chaka chatsopano chitangoyamba ufulu wake, tidzasewera masewera: tiyeni tiyerekeze kuti timamva nthawi yoyamba. Ndipo yesetsani kuti mugwiritse ntchito. Ndikukhulupirira nthawi ino mutapambana! Dzikhulupirire nokha ndikudzikonda nokha kuti ndiwe ndani.
Chikondi Chiyesedwe
Kuphunzira vuto la chikondi ndi kusadzikonda nokha, akatswiri akubwera ndi mayesero oposa amodzi omwe amakuthandizani kudziwa momwe mumamvera mumtima mwanu. Kenaka tafika kumapeto kuti mayesero olondola kwambiri ngati timakonda ife eni kapena ayi, ndi mwambo wamba, umene, mwa njira, timachitira tsiku lililonse. Umu ndi momwe timadziyang'anitsitsa tokha mu galasilo, momwe tikumvera. Ngati mumadziyang'ana nokha, ndinu wokondwa, mumadzikonda nokha, mumaganiza kuti "Simunganene chilichonse, ndi zabwino!" - Inde, mumadziyamikira nokha, wokondedwa wanga. Ngati mutangoyang'ana nokha mwachidule, ndiyeno mukakonzekera tsitsi lanu kapena muwone ngati chovala chanu chikuphwanyidwa, ndiye kuti mumayenera kugwiritsira ntchito maganizo anu paokha.
Pali zizindikiro zina zosaoneka kuti simukuchita chilungamo chanu. Ganizirani za mfundo zotsatirazi za inu.
Ndikukana ntchito zanga : "Chimene iwe, sindinadziwe kuti ndichite bwanji, ndikungoganiza mwangozi" kapena akunena kuti kwa ena: "Popanda Viktor Antonovich, sindikanatha kuyipeza!"
Pamene chinachake sichigwira ntchito, ndimadzidandaulira ndekha kuti: "Icho ndi chidziwitso, bwanji ndimangopititsa maphunziro! Ndinkadziwa kuti sindinagwirizane kwambiri. "
Ndimadziyesa ndekha ponena kuti ndikuwoneka bwino: "Kodi ndili ndi chithunzi chabwino? Vuto losavuta limeneli limabisa zolakwazo. " Ndimapereka chinachake chifukwa cha anthu ena: "Ndizovala zabwino bwanji! Ndipo tsiku lobadwa la bwenzi lake likudza posachedwa. Ndimugula bwino kwa iye. "
Ngati awiri mwa iwo ali pafupi ndi inu, muyenera kusintha maganizo anu mwamsanga.
Dzivomerezeni nokha
Monga Kuzma Prutkov adanena, malingaliro ali pazu. Kodi sakonda kuti? "Zikomo" chifukwa cha iye mumayenera kuuza anthu ozungulira inu: makolo, achibale, abwenzi ndi ... payekha. Ndizo zomwe adawadzudzula ndikuyamikira pang'ono, koma kwa iwo okha - chifukwa mumakhulupirira kutsutsidwa kumeneku ndikutenga "banner." Koma palibe amene ali ndi mlandu. Anthu oyandikana nawo, mosakayikira, sanamvetse mavuto omwe amachititsa, mosiyana, ambiri ankaganiza kuti akuchita zabwino. Kwa ine ndekha, ngati munthu nthawi zonse akubwereza "kuti izi siziri zakuda, koma buluu muzing'onoting'ono," iye amakhulupirira posachedwa. Chabwino, mulimonsemo, palibe amene ali ndi mlandu. Sichimasintha chilichonse m'mbuyomu, chabwino? Koma pakali pano, ikhoza kukuchititsani kusungunula. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti sitepe yoyamba idzakhala yeniyeni, popanda "koma", kudzikonda ndiko kudzilandira nokha monga momwe mulili.
Ndinawerenga mabuku ambiri okhudza kudzikonda, ndinayankhula za izi pafupi ndi anthu osati omwe anati: "Ndatsimikizira mwachitsanzo changa kuti izi zimagwira ntchito" ndisanayambe kukhulupirira kuti kudzilemekeza ndekha ndikulonjeza kuti zonse zidzakhala zabwino m'moyo wanga, zonse zomwe ndikufuna ndikupatsidwa mofulumira komanso zosavuta. Sindingathe kunena mwachimvekere kuti ndimadzikonda ndekha ndi mfundo, koma ndiri panjira yopita ku izi, zomwe ndikukhumba inu.
Kusintha kodabwitsa
N'zovuta kusintha kwambiri: kudzuka mmawa pamaso pa galasi ndipo kamodzi ndikukhulupirira kuti ndiwe wokongola kwambiri komanso wokongola kwambiri. Kuchokera pa zomwe takumana nazo, timadziwa kuti njirayi siigwira ntchito, koma imakwiyitsa komanso imafooketsa.
Zonsezi ziyenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono. Zili ngati kutaya thupi. Ngati mukumva njala, mukhoza kutaya mwamsanga. Koma mutangothenso kugwiritsa ntchito mbatata ndi pies, kulemera kwake kudzabweranso nthawi yomweyo.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amatipatsa zozizwitsa zingapo, ndikuchita chimodzimodzi: ziyenera kuchitidwa nthawi zonse.
Choyamba, lembani mndandanda wa zonse zomwe simukuzikonda. "Ndine wovuta," "Ndili ndi tsitsi lochepa," "Sindingathe kulankhula momasuka." Ndipo kenako, lembani mayina a anthu omwe munamvapo mawu oterowo ndi zifukwa zomwe iwo, mwa malingaliro anu, adanenera. Ndipo pa pepala lina lembani pazinthu zonsezi "zotsutsa" zotsutsa: "Ndili wofulumira komanso wolekerera," "Ndili ndi tsitsi lofiirira," "Ndili bwenzi langwiro." Kenaka, mokondwera, pang'onopang'ono kapena ngakhale kutentha pepala loyamba, ndikuyika yachiwiri pamalo olemekezeka komanso nthawi ndi nthawi kuwerenga.
Nthawi yotsatira poyankha kuthokoza mwakupangitsani inu kunena kuti "Chabwino, inu ..." ndi kudzidzudzula - muganizire nokha kuti "Imani!" Ndipo wonjezerani kuti: "Ndili woyenera mawu awiri ofunda komanso maubwenzi abwino. Ndipo ndimatha kupeza zambiri! "
Ngati poyamba mukuchotseratu kutsutsa sikugwira ntchito, yesetsani kuti musamangokhalira kuganiza bwino. Osati kwenikweni zofanana. "Inde, ndachira makilogalamu angapo, koma ndili ndi banja losangalatsa," ndi zina zotero.
Sungani nokha. M'lingaliro lenileni ndi yophiphiritsira. Sangalalani nokha. Ndipo nthawi zonse musaganize za zomwe anthu anganene kapena kuchuluka kwake. Ngati mumakhala wokondwa, mukapita ku sewero lanu lokonda, kapena kukongola, mukamachezera cosmetologist, muzichita popanda kuganiza.