Ndalama mu ubale wa okondedwa anu

Ndalama ndi mbali yofunikira pamoyo wathu ndipo zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zophweka, zowonjezeka komanso zosangalatsa. Ndipo iwo ndi chifukwa cha kukangana, kuphatikizapo mabanja. Kotero, ndalama mu ubale wa okondedwa anu zimakhala ndi gawo lalikulu.

Ngati pali mikangano mu ubale wanu wa banja chifukwa cha ndalama - nkoyenera kuyamba kuyamba kudandaula. Fufuzani chomwe chiri chifukwa chenicheni cha mikanganoyi ndi momwe mungakonzekere. Yesetsani kumvetsa chifukwa chake inu ndi okondedwa anu muli ndi malingaliro osiyana ndi ndalama. Osangotchula za umbombo wa mwamuna wake - ndizosavuta.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo asonyeza kuti maganizo a munthu pa ndalama amadalira khalidwe ndi maganizo. Munthu wokhudzana ndi dongosolo lokonzekera angathe kusamalira ndalama ndi nthawi mosavuta. Iye akhoza kukhalabe wosayanjanitsa ndi zokongola, koma chinthu chosafunikira. Anthu amtundu umenewu ali okonzekera - amafunikira firiji kapena TV, kusunga ndalama ndikugula.

Koma palinso kuipa kwa mtundu uwu - ngati chinachake mwadzidzidzi chikuyenda molakwika, monga momwe zalinganizidwira, amayamba kumva ndikumva kupanikizika. Kuti zimenezi zitheke, nthawi zina anthuwa ayenera kugula popanda kulingalira za momwe angachitire.

Mtundu wina wa anthu umangopeka. Anthu amtundu uwu amathera ndalama mopanda muyeso ndikumva chisoni, kulolera ku chikhumbo chofuna. Mtundu uwu ulibe chikhumbo chosunga ndalama ndipo motero amafunika kukhazikitsa cholinga: chifukwa zisoti zatsopano zikugwa - Ndiyesa kusunga ndalama.

Njira yopambana kwambiri ikuphatikizapo kukhudzika ndi chikhumbo chofuna kubwezera. Kugwiritsira ntchito ndalama kuli kosalala, osagwiritsa ntchito zonse pazinthu zosafunikira. Ndithudi muli ndi anzanu amene ali ndi phindu lofanana ndi inu, koma amatha kukhala ndi ndalamazo popanda kutenga ngongole. Pa nthawi yomweyo, nthawi zina amagula zinthu zambiri kapena amapita ku tchuthi.

Ngati ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu nthawi zambiri umaphimbidwa ndi mikangano ya ndalama, samalirani kwambiri mnzanuyo. Yesetsani kuyambilana musanayambe kugula chilichonse (kupatulapo chofunikira ndi chosakanika). Zidzakhala mikangano yabwino kwambiri.

Koma musaiwale kuti aliyense amafunikira kudziimira payekha. Inde, musapite patali ndikufunsira lipoti tsiku ndi tsiku pa ndalama zomwe munagwiritsa ntchito. Zokwanira kungokambirana ndi mwamuna wanu pasadakhale kugula kwakukulu.

Mofananamo, ngati mwamuna wapeza chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri komanso akudandaula pogula, musamukakamize mwamsanga. Mupatseni nthawi yokhala chete. Kenaka kambiranani izi. Ndipotu maubwenzi ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri.

Ksenia Ivanova , makamaka pa webusaitiyi