Kodi nthawi zambiri mumafuna kupuma pantchito, kuthawa kwa anthu omwe ali pafupi? Kodi ndinu ochepa m'banja mwanu ndipo mukufuna kuthawa kwinakwake kumalo osatsegula, kumene simungamveke mutsekedwa mwamphamvu? Zilakolako zotere sizikutanthauza kuti mukupanga claustrophobia. Munthu wina amangotenga malo anu enieni, ndipo mumamva.
Malo anu, mwachidule, ndi malo omwe amabwera ndi ogogoda. Ngakhale ngati khomo lili lotseguka, monga momwe ziliri ndi banja labwino , kumene wokwatirana alibe zinsinsi kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake. Mtunda wina wotsimikiziridwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo ndi muukwati amafunika, ndipo mwinanso wofunika kwambiri kuposa momwe mungachitire ndi omwe sali a m'banja mwanu. Nthawi zina kuyang'ana mtunda umenewu kungathetse mavuto ambiri. Ndikofunika kuyamba ndi mfundo yakuti kulankhulana kwa nthawi yayitali ndi kovuta kwambiri. Kwa anthu ena sizingatheke.
Kodi tanthauzo limeneli ndi lotani? Mwinamwake, kukhalapo kwabwino kwa anthu awiri, pamene aliyense amayesera kusiya gawo lina la moyo wa wokwatirana ndi khalidwe lake.
"Kutembenuzana kumbali yolakwika" sikuli zofanana ndi zomwe zikutanthawuza mwachindunji. Izi ndizochepetsetsa, zomwe zili ndi malire ovomerezeka. Dzivomerezeni moona mtima - mulibe malingaliro, zochitika, zolakalaka ndi makhalidwe omwe simukufuna kuwululira aliyense.
Nthawi zina mumakhala ndi maganizo, pamene kuwala koyera sikukoma ndipo ndimangofuna kukhala ndekha. Wokondedwa pazochitika zotero sadzakakamiza kukhala pachibwenzi ndi kukhala wovuta. Mwina theka lanu limatenga nthawi kuganiza za chinthu chofunika kwambiri chokhudzana ndi chiyanjano chanu, kusankha, kapena kupumula ndi kusintha maganizo anu?
Nthaŵi ndi nthawi, anthu amachoka okha. Osati pachabe zosiyana zogona za okwatirana zimaonedwa kuti ndi zachilendo padziko lonse lapansi. Ndipo osati zipinda zogona zokha, komanso makabati, boudoir ndi zina zotero. Izi "zasokoneza" vuto la nyumba. Tsopano chikhumbo chathu chamkati cha "kubisa mu ngodya yanu" chinapanga khitchini malo oterewa kwa akazi, ndi nkhokwe, m'chipinda chapansi pa nyumba kapena galasi - kwa amuna.
M'nthaŵi yonseyi, pamene dzuŵa likuwalira mowala, ndipo moyo umakondweretsa, anthu ambiri amavomereza kugawana ndi oyandikana nawo gawo la malo awoawo. Kuti mupite ku cinema palimodzi, kambiranani chinachake, gwiranani ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku. Umu ndi momwe anthu ambirimbiri amakhala m'banja losangalala.
Anthu ayenera kukhala pamodzi ndi chikhumbo chofanana. Ponena za kupumula - palimodzi kapena padera, ndiye, mwina nthawi zina ndi bwino kupumula mosiyana, ngati, mwachitsanzo, kuti mwamuna azipuma moyenera, ndipo amalekerera mahema ndi udzudzu. Palibe cholakwika ichi ngati kupuma kosiyana sikukutanthauza chirichonse chomwe chingasokoneze mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana. Ndipo, ndithudi, kwa nthawi yaitali sikoyenera kuchoka.