Zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri miyoyo yathu ndi nkhani yamakonda kwambiri. Mwanayo akukupemphani kuti muwauze kapena kuwerenge mobwerezabwereza. Kenaka amakulira, amaiwala nkhaniyi, koma ndondomeko zake, zitsanzo zake, zilembo zimapitirizabe kusintha khalidwe lake.
Zofunikira za nkhani zathu
Nkhani zachabechabe, monga lamulo, ndizochokera kwa ojambula ojambula. Ndipo ngati ali m'lembeni la wolemba wotchuka, amakhala otchuka komanso okondedwa, ngati chiwembu ndi khalidwe la anthu omwe ali nawo ali pafupi komanso omveka bwino. Nthano ndi nthano zikuwonetsera zochitika, zomwe zimakhalapo nthawi zonse kuyambira zaka zapitazo kufikira zaka za anthu kapena maloto awo (osati kwachabechabe, mafilimu okhudza Cinderella wa mtundu wa "Kukongola" ndi Julia Roberta amakhala maboma a blockbusters). Choncho, m'nthano za mayiko osiyanasiyana pali nkhani zofanana, zaumunthu zonse, komanso zosiyana zokhudzana ndi malingaliro am'deralo.
Kodi ndi zochitika zotani za nthano zachi Russia? Choyamba, khalidwe lopambana silinapange kanthu kalikonse - kawirikawiri amakhala ndi zinthu zamatsenga, mitundu yonse ya zinyama ndi zolengedwa zokonzeka kumuthandiza. Chachiwiri, mzimayi yekhayo ndi Ivanushka wopusa, poyang'ana wopusa ndi waulesi. Koma potsirizira pake amapeza mfumu yapamwamba ndi theka la ufumu kuphatikizapo, akusiya kumbuyo kwa okongola okonda.
Nkhani zochititsa chidwi izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa malonda. Tawonani kuti ndi anthu angati amatsenga omwe amathandiza munthu yemwe angakhale ndi katundu - amapereka malangizo othandiza, amawatenga ku mayiko odabwitsa, ndipo Bambo Proper amayeretsa pansi. Otsatsa malonda sakuyesa chabe - pambuyo pake, tinaphunzira nyimbo yaing'ono yonena za momwe "wamatsenga adzawulukira mwadzidzidzi mu helikopita yamoto", ndipo moyo udzakhala wina wopanda khama lalikulu.
Chabwino, ndani samadziwa zamakono za Ivanushki? Kuwomba "pansi pa chitsiru" kumapindulitsa kwambiri kwa ife. Anthu achifundo nthawi zonse adzadandaula, kuthandizira, kusangalala: wogwira nawo ntchito ya Ivan idzachita, bwana amatha kupereka komanso zinthu zina zosasangalatsa zimapulumutsa. Kenaka mukuwoneka: Wopusa wathu ali kale woweruza wamkulu, ndipo ali kale "theka la ufumu" wake.
Udindo wa anthu ena olemba zamatsenga ndi osiyana kwambiri. Mutha kumva nkhani za atsogoleri omwe "akukoka" mosamalitsa mutu wa Koshchei wa Imfa. Azimayi ena amawatcha apongozi awo Baba Yaga poyera. Pafupifupi aliyense ali ndi Sage yemwe amadziwa momwe angakhalire molondola - ali ndi uphungu pa nthawi iliyonse. Kapena Sisyphus ndi munthu wangwiro yemwe amasuntha pathanthwe pamwamba pa phiri losatheka. Azimayi opeza amayendayenda ku Cinderella, ndipo akazi achisoni, pofuna kuyesa kupatsa apulo poizoni nthawi zina, akhala atakhala mbali ya moyo wathu.
Pangani mbiri kuchitika ...
Komabe, zochitika zina zamatsenga zimagwiritsidwa ntchito m'moyo mwathunthu. Kawirikawiri zimapezeka mu chiwerewere chabwino. Nthawi zina zofanana ndizo zidaperekedwa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo. Amayi onse a m'banja amakwatira zidakwa, ndiye amuna onse amachoka, ndiye amakhala amayi osakwatiwa. N'chifukwa chiyani zochitika zapachiyambi zimakhudza amayi? Anyamata, ndithudi, amakhalanso ngati nthano. Koma kupatula izi iwo ali ndi mlengi, laser pistol, ndi mpira. Ndipo toyese ndi zovala za msungwana zimamukonzekera kuti akwaniritse maloto omwe amamukonda - kuti akhale womalizira (mwachitsanzo, pa ukwati). Ndipo Barbie wanzeru, ndi madiresi okongola amathandizira mndandanda wa fairytale.
Pano pali zochitika zodziwika za nthano zomwe moyo weniweni unadza ndi:
Kugona Kosangalatsa
Natalia ali ndi zaka 30, amawoneka wamng'ono kwambiri ndipo amanyadira kwambiri izi. Amagwira ntchito m'gulu la galimoto lozunguliridwa ndi amuna, koma akadali yekha. Ambiri amayesetsa kumusamalira, koma Natalia ndi wokonzeka kwambiri, akudziwa bwino kuti: "Uyu sindiye amene ndimafuna, moyo wanga sukunama-sindimakonda." Koma mwina tifunikira kumupatsa mpata kuti adziwonetsere, makamaka popeza adamuitanira kukadyera kangapo, kuwonetsero, kuwonema? Natalia akufuula kuti: "Ndaganiza kale - mwina tiyenera kuvomerezana kamodzi. Koma munthu uyu salinso ... "Malinga ndi zomwe Natalia analemba, Kalonga sayenera kungozilandira. Kukongola, mu nsanja, komanso kutsegula kwa iye kudzera muminga ndi m'nkhalango, atachita zinthu zingapo. Ndiyeno_kumudzutsa msungwanayo ndi kupsopsona. Natalia sakonda china chilichonse. Koma kukongola mu nthano zomwe_iye akhoza kugona mwamtendere! Iye ndi zaka zana adzakhala akadali khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu. Koma mu moyo weniweni, pamene Prince akupeza iwe, akugonjetsa zopinga ndikudzpsompsona, ndi nthawi yogula zonona motsutsana makwinya.
Kamphanga Kakang'ono Kofiira
Alina ndi mtsikana yemwe ali ndi nkhope ya mngelo. Koma mwa mayi ake 25 adakwanitsa kulandira malipiro monga mawonekedwe a nyumba ndi galimoto kuchokera kwa wokonda okwatirana ndikugwera m'manja mwa mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo, yemwe adakhala mpulumutsi wake atatha kulemba. Tsopano Alina ali ndi chidwi ndi bwana ndi kupititsa patsogolo pa ntchito. Ichi ndi chochitika cha Little Red Riding Hood, chomwe, ngakhale kuti amayi amauza, amalankhula ndi Wolf, ndiyeno, pamodzi ndi Hunter-Mpulumutsi, mosangalala amatsitsa mimba yake ndi miyala (momwemonso ndikumapeto kwa nkhaniyi). Katswiri wa zamaganizo wotchuka Eric Berne ananena kuti "ndi bwino kuti mimbulu ikhale kutali ndi atsikana omwe amawoneka osalakwa." Mwa njira, amayi ake a Alina, pokweza mwana wawo wopanda bambo, nthawi zambiri ankamutumiza ali mwana ali yekha m'mabuku ake "kudutsa m'nkhalango".
Elena the Beautiful
Anya wokongola kwambiri amafufuza anthu omwe angayambe kufunafuna amuna - amafunikira wosankhidwa kuti akhale mwamuna weniweni ndi kumukonda kufikira atakhala wopanda chidziwitso. Momwe akuyenera kukhalira nthawi zonse ayenera kutsimikizira kuti: "Ndikufuna kukhala ngati mfumukazi pafupi naye," amakonda kubwereza. Kuchokera kwa mnyamata wopambana kumafuna mphatso zabwino, zolemekezeka zambiri ndi ntchito zothandizira panthawi yoyamba ya wokondedwayo. Koma si onse omwe amatha kunyamula phokoso panthawi imodzi, kumenyana ndi njoka, kutulutsa maapulo achichepere ndi kutembenuza kumpsompsona mu nduna yachifumu. Ndipo zosankhazo zikupitirira.
Akudikirira
Aliyense wa ife, ngakhale ali mwana, amadzilemba yekha script, zomwe zimapitirizabe kuzindikira. Sitikumbukira ngakhale m'mene talembera nkhaniyi, koma ikupitirizabe kukhala ndi chidziwitso chathu. Zoonadi, chifukwa chololedwa mobwerezabwereza m'miyoyo yathu sikuti timangokhalira kukhulupirira nthano - mwanayo ali ndi mphamvu zambiri. M'malo mwake, ngakhale mosiyana ndi izi: Titatha kufufuza zochitika, zochita, anthu, timatha kuzifanizitsa ndi nkhani za nthano, mabuku, masewera.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo nthawi zambiri amafunsa funso ili: "Kodi mungagwirizanitse moyo wanu ndi zinthu ziti?" Ngakhale yankho lopanda nzeru lingakuuzeni zambiri. Ndipo izi ndi zochuluka kwambiri, chifukwa nthawi zambiri anthu amayenda mozungulira, akudzifotokozera okha kuti izi ndi "tsogolo", "karma". Podziwa kuti mukuchita nawo nkhani yomweyi, mukhoza kusintha ndondomeko ya zochitika - osagwirizana ndi mawu ndi zochita, kuchita mosiyana, kapena kuchitira ena mosiyana. Pambuyo pa zonse, kaya tikulamulira script, kapena ifeyo. Kutenga udindo pa moyo wanu, mukhoza kupanga ntchito yanu yodabwitsa kwambiri.
Ndemanga ya maganizo
Ali aang'ono, ana amapezeka kwambiri. Kumvetsera nkhani yamatsenga, mwanayo amamva zowawa za munthu wamkulu - makamaka khalidwe ili likufotokozedwa momveka bwino komanso mwatsatanetsatane. Mwana wosazindikira amadziyanjana naye. Ndipo moyo wake umayamba kumangidwa molingana ndi zochitika zina. Palibe ambiri a iwo. Panthawi inayake, katswiri wodziwika bwino wa zamaganizo a ku America, Eric Berne anapeza, anafufuza ndi kufotokoza nkhani izi: Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, etc. Zolemba zamaganizo zikulingalira zochitika ziwiri lero za nthano, zomwe zinadza ndi moyo wokha - "Bambi" ndi "Godzilla." Kuwerenga udindo wa "Bambi" mkazi ndi wofooka komanso wopanda chitetezo. Amatsimikiza kuti chikondi chiyenera kulandira. Okhalanso ochita zachiwerewere amatenga zibwenzi, amatsenga, gigolos, m'mawu, ogula chikondi omwe sangathe kupereka kenakake. Mu udindo wa Godzilla, mkazi amachitapo kanthu pa mphamvu, amayesetsa kuthetsa chirichonse, amachititsa aliyense kusewera ndi malamulo ake. Amayi awa ndi odziimira okhaokha. Iwo akhoza kuchita zonse zomwe iwo okha, iwo nthawizonse amakhala okonzeka kuti apitirize ndi kuwathandiza. Chotsatira chake, "Godzilles" akukumana ndi amuna ofooka omwe sawakonda iwo. Ndikovuta kwambiri kuwerengera ndi kufufuza script yanu. Choncho, kuti musinthe mwamsanga zinthuzi, kambiranani ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo.