Zoonadi, zimakhala zowawa kwambiri komanso zokhumudwitsa pamene munthu yemwe adakusankhani kuchokera ku gululi akuyamba kukuzindikirinso ngati mkazi wamba, mofanana ndi ena onse. Koma ngakhale kuchokera pazimenezi ndikofunikira kupita ndi ulemu. N'zosatheka kuti chilakolako chodziwika cha chikondi chotaika chinapangitsa kuti zisakhale zosafunikira, zopweteka komanso zowononga. Zomwe mkazi wamasiye amasiya zimakhala zoopsa. Chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'malingaliro ndi kubwereranso wokondedwa wanu kulikonse. Atafika, mayiyo akuyembekeza kuchiritsa moyo wake wovulazidwa. Koma pachabe ...
Masautso
Kawirikawiri mkazi amadziwa kuchoka kwa munthu ngati chiwonongeko chonse: "Zatha, sipadzakhalanso zabwino, sindingathe kusangalala ndi moyo ndikukonda wina."
Kuvutika maganizo ndi kusasamala, mayi akuwoneka kuti akumva ululu pa zomwe akuyembekeza mawa. Ndipo, kumanga maumboni oopsa kwambiri, amapita mozama ndikuzama mukumva kwachisoni chake ndi "tsiku lachiwonongeko".
Zovuta Kumvera
Kawirikawiri mkazi amalingalira motere: "Iye anandisankha ine, ndinasankha kwa anthu ambiri, ndiye ndikudabwitsa kwambiri!" Pali chifukwa chodzikweza.
Koma apa iye anasiya, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti: "Amandikonda ine, samandisowa, sindiribe kanthu kalikonse kwa iye, kotero palibe chilichonse choyamikira ine." Kuchokera kwa mwamuna nthawi zonse kumabweretsa mavuto aakulu kwa kudzidalira kwa mkazi. Ndipo ngakhale munthu amene amadzidalira kwambiri, amatha kudzidzimva yekha:
"Ine ndinanena chinachake cholakwika, chinachita chinachake cholakwika, izo sizingakhoze kukhala ziri zonse zopanda nzeru ..." Kufufuza kwa kulakwa kwanu kumayambira. Ndipo ngakhale palibe cholakwa, chinthu chofanana ndi icho chingapezeke nthawizonse.
Zolingalira zokhala ndi chidwi ndi "samokokaniyu" zimazindikira kupuma ndi wokondedwa, monga umboni wa zopanda pake zawo zopanda pake. Amadzipeza okha ndi zofooka zambiri: "Ndine wolemera kwambiri (wochepa thupi)", "Sindinali wokondwa komanso wophunzira", "Ndine wokwiya", "Ndine wokalamba kwambiri ..." ndi zina zotero.
Malingaliro ndi osavuta: "Mwamuna yemwe ali pafupi - ndine wabwino, bamboyo anasiya_ndipo" ndikuchotsa "ndekha kudzidalira kwanga."
Mphamvu ya chizoloŵezi
Kubwerera kunyumba, mumakhala modzikuza kwambiri dzulo ndikuyamba kumuwononga, ndikuyang'anitsitsa pa TV. Chilakolako!
Mukusowa chizoloŵezi chake: "Moni!", "Usiku wabwino!" Kupanda kwake mosasamala kuponyedwa mu mipando ya zovala, milu ya nyuzipepala ndi magazini pa tebulo.
Usiku umenewo. Zimakhala zosavuta kuti agone popanda kumpsompsona, kuyeza kwake! Iwe umalemedwa ndi chosowa chachilendo cha bedi lalikulu ... Kuyang'ana pa zovala zako, iwe umapunthwa pa malaya omwe iwo awayiwala, ndipo mtima wako umangomveka kuchokera ku fungo lodziwika bwino.
Palibe chodabwitsa - anthu amayamba kuyanjana. Mwa njira yomweyo, mwa njira, monga mkati. Ngakhalenso kukonzanso kwa mipando kumapangitsanso choyamba kuti tizitha kudutsa pamakona ndi "kugwa" kupita kumalo opanda kanthu. Kapena mwadzidzidzi, ndi kukumbukira kalekale, kuyesa kutsegula TV, yomwe ili kale pangodya ina ...
Kuopa kusungulumwa
Munthu amene mumakhala naye nthawi yochuluka, yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zanu zamaganizo ndi thupi, mosakayikira amachulukitsa moyo wanu ndi malingaliro. Pomwe akuchoka, munda waukulu wa ntchito umatha - palibe amene angathe "kudula" zoipa, palibe amene amasangalala ndi zakudya zokhala ndi zokolola, kuti azisangalala komanso azidzudzula mavuto awo onse. Palibe wina womaliza kupeza chiyanjano!
Mumamva kuti mwatayika chinthu china chofunika kwambiri. Mumoyo chinthu chopanda pake chinapangidwa, chomwe palibe chodzaza. Iwe uli wosungulumwa, ndipo kusungulumwa kukukulirakulira ndi kutsimikizika kwako kopanda nzeru kuti izi zidzapitilira kwa nthawi yaitali, mwinamwake kwa moyo wanu wonse.
Sinthani malo
Inu simukufuna kwenikweni kuti muziyenda nokha kumene inu munayamba mwangoyendayenda palimodzi. Kampani imene mumakonda kukumana muwiri, simukuyembekezeranso. Komanso, zikupezeka, pali malo omwe inu nokha simuwoneka kuti ndinu abwino kwambiri.
N'zomvetsa chisoni kuti ngati muli okhudzana ndi msonkhano wakale kapena mgwirizano. Zomveka kunena, ndizosangalatsa kumuwona tsiku lililonse popanda mthunzi wa chiyembekezo cha kubwerera - ndipo mwina, palimodzi ndi chilakolako chatsopano. Kuonjezerapo, muyenera kulankhula ndi anzanu za ubale wanu wosinthika. Alangizi abwino adzakhala akudikirira mwachidwi nkhani zokhudzana ndi moyo wanu, ndipo mosakayika, sangawononge maonekedwe awo, palibe chomwe chingazindikire.
Chosangalatsa kwambiri ndicho chiyembekezo chosintha ntchito - makamaka ngati kusankha kuli kochepa.
Kusintha bwalo lakulankhulana ndi malo anu a chikhalidwe ndilo vuto lina lazochitikira zosasangalatsa.
Zidzatenga nthawi yochuluka ndi mphamvu kuti muthane ndi vuto lopondereza ndikudzaza ndi malingaliro atsopano, zokondweretsa komanso anzanu.
Mfundo ya mgwirizano
Ngati iye wapita, chinthu choipitsitsa chimene mungachite ndi kuyesa kumubwezera msanga. Musamachitenso mwatsatanetsatane ndi zovuta, ndikumenyana ndi ludzu la kubwezera.
Malingana ndi chiwerengero, ululu waukulu umayambitsidwa ndi kupatukana, kumachitika patatha masiku 40. Koma malemba ake amatha kupweteka kwa miyezi itatu, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Zonse zimadalira moyo umene mungathe - ndipo muyenera! - dzipange wekha.
Malinga ndi mfundo yofunika kwambiri yokhudzana ndi moyo, pali magulu anayi omwe mphamvu zowonjezera ziyenera kuyendetsedwa: thupi (thanzi), ntchito (ntchito, kudziphunzitsa), kuyankhulana (banja, chikondi, ubwenzi) ndi mafunso ofunikira moyo.
Zonsezi zikhoza kuimiridwa ngati mawonekedwe a wokwerapo yemwe amachititsa (ntchito) kumapeto kwake (cholinga cha moyo). Kuti akwaniritse cholinga chimenechi, amafunikira kavalo wophunzitsidwa. Ndipo ngati kavalo akudumpha, adzalandira chithandizo (kulankhulana). Kuwerengera kuchuluka kwa mphamvu zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito m'maderawa, mukhoza kulikonza kuti muyandikire chiŵerengero chabwino: 25% pa malo.
Ganizani, sikuti mumagwiritsira ntchito mphamvu zochuluka pazolankhulana, ngati mukuchoka kwa wokondedwa wanu, dziko lapansi likuyandama kutali ndi mapazi anu? Pambuyo pake, muli ndi zigawo zinanso zitatu za mgwirizano wa moyo!
Kumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa
- Ganizirani zomwe zingamulimbikitse kuti apite nawe.
- Lankhulani naye - mosapita m'mbali komanso mopanda malipiro. Ngati mukufunadi yankho lolondola, pewani kunyozedwa pang'ono.
- Ngakhale atapanga zifukwa zake, mwinamwake zifukwa zapatuko zimakhala kwathunthu. Iye akhoza kukutsutsani za kusakhulupirika ndi kunyengerera, kuvutika kwenikweni chifukwa cha kusowa kwachisoni komanso kugonana kwanu. Pofuna kusokoneza maganizo awo, nthawi zambiri anthu samaulula zolinga zenizeni. Yesetsani kuthetsa nokha.
- Kumbukirani pamene adakhumudwa kwambiri, ndipo yesetsani kumvetsa chifukwa chake. Mwina mwamukhumudwitsa?
- Mwinamwake akuwopa chiyanjano cha uzimu ndi kudalira. Pamene chizoloŵezi chimasanduka chikondi chachikulu, "chimathawa," mosasamala kanthu kuti ndinu mkazi kapena mkazi wina.
- Mwinamwake sanakondwere ndi inu, koma "anangoyembekezera" kusungulumwa kwina ndipo sakufuna kumanga ubale weniweni.
- Dziwani kuti ndinu wosiyana kwambiri ndi iye. Simungakwanitse zosowa zake, koma ndi zanu. Palimodzi inu mumangodandaula wina ndi mzake, ndipo iye amamvetsa izo patsogolo panu.
- N'zotheka kuti iye sali muvuto lalikulu la moyo. Iye anali nako kusowa kosavuta kusintha chirichonse, iye amayamba wopanda chisoni kuti awotchere milatho ndi kudula chirichonse chomwe chimamugwirizanitsa iye ndi zakale - kuphatikizapo ubale wanu ndi iye.
Gwirizanitsani ndi malo anu ndipo yesetsani kuzigwiritsa ntchito. Tangoganizani kuti ndi mwayi wambiri wotsegulira patsogolo panu!
Kusekerera kwa munthu yemwe simudziwa komanso mawu okondana sikudzasowa nsanje. Mukhoza kuvala suti yomwe sanakonde; konzekeretsani momwe mukufunira; kuti azimeta tsitsi limene iye anatsutsa; Yambani kuchapa kuzungulira nyumbayo; kuti azichita nawo ma aerobics nthawi iliyonse yamasana kapena usiku; kwa maola akucheza ndi mnzanu. Palibe amene angatsutse mafilimu ndi mapulogalamu omwe mumawakonda ndikusintha ku mpira wonyansa.
Ndiwe mfulu! Inu mukhoza kuyenda usiku wonse ndipo musabwere ndi zifukwa; pali chinachake chimene mtima umafuna; Musati muphike zokoma, sungani zinyumba, musinthe mtundu wa makatani ndi wallpaper kuchokera ku wakuda kupita ku chophimba chowala.
Tsopano inu muli ndi udindo pa chirichonse mu yankho. Khalani nokha (kwa kanthawi), koma popanda wina ndipo palibe wogwirizana! M'malo modzimva chisoni ndikutsimikizira kuti popanda izo simudzatayika.
Ndiwe wokongola, wodzisankhira, ndikupita ndi munthu wodalirika, anthu amakuyamikirani pambuyo pake, ndipo imodzi mwa iwo idzakhala tsogolo lanu. Mudzakhala osangalala - pambuyo pake, mabanja okondwa samasokonezeka!
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