Aliyense wa ife anauzidwa kamodzi kamodzi m'moyo wathu chinthu chimene anthu ena sadziwa. Ndipo ngati atsikana ena asungire chinsinsi - izi ndi nkhani yovuta, kwa ena, chete ponena za chinachake ndi ntchito yosatheka. Kodi tingaphunzire bwanji kusunga zinsinsi, kuti anthu omwe amakhulupirira ife asakhumudwitse mwa ife ndikukhulupirira zinsinsi zawo?
Lembani
Ngati mukuona kuti mukufuna kusunga chinsinsi, mukufuna kuuza wina za chirichonse - lembani. Mungathe kulembetsa makalata ndi manja, lembani chikalata cha Wards pa kompyuta yanu. Njira yowonetsera si yofunika. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuti muthe kulankhula, kulankhula za kompyuta kapena zolemba. Poyang'ana koyamba zikuwoneka kuti mu zateenet sense, koma kwenikweni, mutatha kufotokoza mkhalidwewo, zimakupangitsani kukhala kosavuta. Mungathe kufotokozera zomwe mumadziwa kapena kubwera ndi nkhani yonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokutulukira zambiri. Mukamaliza kulembera, mudzamva kuti mukutsitsimutsidwa ndipo simudzakhalanso wovuta kuti mutsegule munthu wina chinsinsi.
Dumyenena choyamba
Ngati mumaganiza kuti mukufuna kuuza munthu wina chinsinsi, musanatsegule pakamwa panu, ganizirani zomwe zingakupangitseni. Nthawi zambiri mavuto athu amayamba tikamayankhula za zinthu popanda kuganiza. Choncho, ganizirani zochitikazo, zosiyana zopezeka pakusintha kwa zochitika. Onetsetsani kuti ngati mu mitundu yonse mukuganiza momwe mnzanu wapamtima amakhumudwitsirani kapena akuphwanya ubale wanu ndi inu, chikhumbo chouza wina za chinsinsi chake chichepa. Zomwezo zimagwirizananso ndi zinsinsi zanu. Ngakhale mutakhulupirira munthu ndipo mukufuna kutsegula, ganizirani ngati ubale wanu udzakhala wabwino ngati mwezi, chaka. Ndipo sangasinthe maganizo ake pa inu atapeza chinsinsi.
Nelyzte osati mu bizinesi yawo
Nthawi zina sitingathe kusunga chinsinsi, tidzatha kuganiza kuti wina apeze choonadi. Mwachitsanzo, bwenzi lanu anandiuza kuti anasintha mtsikanayo ndikupempha kuti asakhale chete. Inunso, pangani ubwenzi ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikuganiza kuti ayenera kudziwa choonadi. Muzochitika zotere, ndibwino kuti tigwire ntchito za mau omaliza. Zoona, chinyengo cha bwenzi lako ndi chopusa, koma, kwina, aliyense ali ndi ufulu kulakwitsa. Choncho musakwere pomwe simukufunsidwa. Ngati akufuna kuti aphunzire, adzalandira kuchokera ku chitsimikizo china. Ngati sichoncho, mtsikanayo apitiliza kukhala mwamdima mumdima. Koma ngati mutasankha kunena choonadi chonse, zinthu zingasinthe kotero kuti okondedwa aziyanjanitsa, ndipo simungadalire nokha. Choncho, ngati chinsinsi sichikukhudzidwira nokha ndipo sichingawopsyeze thanzi la munthu kapena moyo wanu, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kukhala chete komanso osataya malonda anu. Moyo udzaika zonse pamalo ake komanso popanda thandizo.
Kufunsanso
Ponena za chinsinsi chomwe mumakonda kuti muzingonena komanso palibe kanthu kwa munthu ameneyu, ndiye kuti ngati munthu sakhala ndi nkhawa, funsani mnzanuyo, mukhoza kudziwa chinsinsi. Mwinanso amavomereza. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokutsimikiza kuti mumakhulupirira chinsinsi chiti. Ndipotu, ngakhale atachokera kudziko lina ndipo sangathe kukumana ndi bwenzi lanu, moyo ndi wosiyana. Choncho, kuti mupatse chinsinsicho, sankhani munthu amene angakhale chete ndipo sakufuna kulankhula nthawi zonse. Ndi kosavuta kuti anthu osabisa asunge zobisika, chifukwa kawirikawiri samafuna kulankhula, choncho ntchitoyi ndi yosavuta kwa iwo kusiyana ndi anthu olankhulana. Kuuza munthu woteroyo, sikofunikira kuti mudziwe zambiri. Simungathe kutchula mayina. Ingoikani zomwe inu mukudziwa. Pambuyo pake, mumangomva bwino, munthu amene sakusangalatsidwa ndi chinsinsi ichi, amangokumverani, chidziwitso, mwachiwonekere, kawirikawiri amaiwala chilichonse.
Musatchule
Anthu ena, ataphunzira chinsinsi, amayamba kuyankhula ndi ena, ndipo akamaganiza, amanena chilichonse. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amawoneka kuti ali ndi udindo paokha, chifukwa munthuyo mwiniyo amalingalira. Ndipotu, ndizolakwika, chifukwa kwenikweni, mukufunabe kunena chinsinsi ndikuchichita, kuti anthu adziwe za izo. Choncho, chisankho chotero sichoncho. Ndipo munthu yemwe wamuuza chinsinsi chake, adzakhumudwabe, ndipo akuganiza kuti simungadalire. Kotero mmalo mochita manyazi ndi winawake, kulibwino yesetsani kupeĊµa iwo omwe mwanjira inayake amaganizira zinsinsi zanu. Ngati mukumva kuti posachedwa mukulankhula, ndiye kuti, musokoneze zokambiranazo ndikupitiliza ku mutu wina. Mutha kuchokapo kwa mphindi zingapo, khalani chete ndikudzikumbutsa zomwe zotsatirazo zingakhale zokhudzana ndi zinsinsi za wina.
Musati muzichita chidwi ndi zopanda pake za ena
Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti wina akufuna kwambiri kudziwa chinsinsi chanu ndikuyamba kukupangitsani kuti mumene zonse zokhudza chirichonse. Pankhaniyi, maulendo zana, ganizirani chifukwa chake akufuna kudziwa zambiri. Kawirikawiri, pamene munthu akufuna kudziwa chinsinsi cha wina, iwo amatsogoleredwa ndi chidwi chopanda pake. Nthawi zambiri zimakhala kuti mutatha kudziwa chinsinsi, wina akhoza kuthandiza mnzanu ndikusintha moyo wanu. Nthawi zina, anthu amayesetsa kupeza zinsinsi chifukwa chakuti akufuna kuphunzira chinachake chatsopano kapena amakwiya chifukwa amakuuzani chinsinsi, osati iwo. Kotero, ngati muwona kuti wina akuyesera kukukakamizani kuti mutsegule chinsinsi mwa njira iliyonse, yaniyeni yesetsani izi. Afotokozereni zomwe simukufuna kuyankhula pa mutu uwu, ndipo ngati sakutontholetsa, ndiye kuti kulankhulana kwanu kwatha. Pachifukwa ichi, muyenera kusonyeza mazu kuti simungapeze zambiri kuchokera kwa inu, mwinamwake munthuyo angagwiritse ntchito ndikupeza njira yogwiritsira ntchito kukupanikizani kuti mumuuze zonse.
Ndipo chinthu chomalizira kuti chiti, ngati kwa inu kusungidwa ndi ntchito yolemetsa komanso yosatheka, ndi bwino kuti musamamuchitire konse. Kungakhale koonamtima komanso kolondola kuti muchenjeze munthu mwamsanga kuti simungathe kukhala chete, kotero kuti chitetezo cha chinsinsi chake sichingatsimikizidwe. Choncho, ngati akufuna kunena chinachake chobisika, ndiye kuti ayenera kukhala okonzekera kuti simungatsutse ndikuuza chinsinsi kwa anthu ena. Kotero, iwe ukwaniritsa zonse zomwe iwe uli nazo ndipo iwe sungakhoze kutsutsidwa kuti iwe walephera kusunga mawu ako ndi kuchita mosakhulupirika.
Kawirikawiri, kusunga zinsinsi si ntchito yamapapo. Madokotala ena amalingalira kuti kudziletsa nokha chifukwa chofuna kuuza wina nkhani zina kungayambitse matenda. Choncho, nthawi iliyonse mukamufunsa wokondedwa wanu kuti akuuzeni chinsinsi chinachake, ganizirani ngati mudzatha kunyamula zolemetsazo komanso ngati chinsinsi cha wina chimakulemetsani.