Mu moyo wake wonse munthu amakumana ndi malingaliro monga chifundo, chikondi, chikondi. Maganizo aakulu ndi owala amavutitsidwa kawirikawiri kwa achinyamata mpaka pafupi zaka makumi atatu. Pa mtsogolo, kupeza chifundo, kusiya chikondi - ndizovuta kwambiri. Masamba amasonyeza kuti ngati ali ndi mwayi, ndiye kuti "chikondi chimangofika mwangozi" katatu. Katatu munthu angakumane ndi yemwe akufuna kuyankhula, amuikire tsiku, yambani kumanga maubwenzi omwe ali pafupi kwambiri kuposa omwe akudziwana nawo.
Nthawi zambiri malingaliro otere amatha mwamsanga - amangosungunula, monga ngati mirage m'chipululu. Iwo amangosiya amangoganizira chabe. Nthawi zina njirayi imakhala yopweteka kwambiri moti zikumbukiro zimachotsedwa mwamsanga. Ndi iwo, iwo amati goodbyes, ngati chinyengo. Koma pangakhale zokhumudwitsa kwambiri, kuzunzika ndi kukhumba ziyembekezo zosakwaniritsidwe. Anthu omwe ali olemera kuposa ambiri, omwe Fate anali kuwathandiza kwambiri, amakhala ndi mapeto a moyo wawo palimodzi, atakumana kamodzi mwangozi.
Anthu amadziwa kuti ndi theka la lonse. Nthawi zina mumakhala ndi moyo wanu wonse mukukufunani nokha. Anthu amitundu yosiyanasiyana amadutsa ndi ife tsiku ndi tsiku, zomwe sitingazizindikire ndi kuziiwala za iwo. Koma tsopano kuyang'ana mofulumira kwa munthu wina ndi chirichonse ... kudutsa mwa kugwedeza kwa magetsi, kunalowa mu chikumbumtima. Chinthu chimodzi chokha - ndipo mumamvetsetsa - ichi ndi chikondi chomwe chimasintha moyo wanu. Inu mumamvetsa kuti chifukwa cha munthu uyu mwakonzeka, ngati ayi, ndiye - makamaka. Chifukwa cha iye mungathe kusintha mfundo zanu zenizeni, yang'anani maso anu ku zofooka zazikulu za wokondedwa wanu. Inu mumavomereza izo momwe ziriri kwenikweni.
Mkazi wokondana ali wokonzeka kuika moyo wake pachiswe. Ngati kungokhala pafupi naye, kudzipatsa yekha yekha kwa iye yekha, popanda mwini yekha. Nthawi zina chifukwa cha izi mkazi akhoza kupita kumenyana ndi banja lake.
Kodi munthu mmodzi amamvera bwanji wina? Iwo amanena kuti kutsutsana kumakopeka. Kuwonjezera pa zochepa, ndipo mosiyana. Mwinamwake, oimira amuna kapena akazi amakopeka ndi makhalidwe enaake? Sayansi pa phunziro ili ikusonyeza kufanana kwa zilembo. Mwina ndi mawonekedwe omwewo, zofanana. Kodi mkazi amasankha bwanji mwamuna wake?
Mphuno yokongola ndi mapewa aakulu - amachititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi mkazi, akulonjeza chitetezo chake chonse. Pambuyo pake, ndithudi, mkazi amatha kudzimva yekha ali otetezeka kwathunthu. Ndipo amuna? Amamvetsera njira zonyenga za kugonana, kulonjeza zosangalatsa, komanso - m'tsogolo - ana abwinobwino.
Bambo-abambo m'banja amamukonda mwachikondi mwana wake. Choncho, posankha bwenzi lomanga nalo banja, mtsikana wokhwima mtima amasankha munthu yemwe amawoneka ngati bambo ake. Amadziwa mwachidwi kuti wosankhidwayo amuthandiza kuti azigwira nawo ntchito ngati bambo ake ali mwana.
Anthu onse akukonzedwa mwanjira yakuti iwo akuyang'ana kuyankhulana ndi oimira amuna kapena akazi, kulikonse komwe ali. Kuntchito, paulendo, pa tchuthi ... Amagwiritsa ntchito mpata uliwonse kuti azikonda kukondana. Anzanga atsopano okondweretsa amachititsa munthu kukhala ndi chidaliro kwambiri pa luso lawo. Ndipo mkaziyo, sakhalanso wosatsutsika.
Malingaliro onse a mkazi yemwe anakumana naye mwamuna wanga "wanga", kokha za iye. Mtendere umatayika kwamuyaya, ngakhale kugona kapena chakudya sichifunika. Iye ali mu dziko la matsenga, mu chikhalidwe cha chikondi cha malungo, chimene sayansi imalongosola ndi tizilombo toyambitsa matenda. Izi zikuphatikizapo pheromones - zinthu zogonana zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Izi ndizophatikizi, zomwe zimayendera kugonana. Amamukakamiza kuti amuyandikire pafupi ndi wosankhidwawo.
• Kuthamanga kwa adrenaline kuchokera kukhudza kosayenerera kwapansi.
• Mahomoni a chimwemwe - endorphins - amalepheretsanso kumva njala.
• Kumachepetsa kusowa kwa sleepyle phenylethylamine ndi zotsatira zake.
• Chilakolako cha kugonana cha abwenzi chimakula ndi mphamvu ya oxytocin mu thupi.
Tizilombo toyambitsa matenda a malungo amachititsa munthu kukhala wodabwitsa, kutembenuzira mitu yawo. Ndipo kuti musataye mutu wanu, chiyanjano chiyenera kumangidwa ngati masewera omwe muyenera kupambana.
Mwauleme, pempherani, osabisa nkhawa zanu, ndikuwoneka mwachikondi. Kukula kwa ubale wanu, wokondeka sayenera kukayikira. Koma mu ndondomeko yanu yomalizira ndi ziyembekezo za wachibale wake, ndithudi, sikuli koyenera kupereka mpaka nthawi inayake, mpaka inu nokha potsiriza mutsimikiza kuti zolondola za kusankha kwanu. Chisankho choyenera chidzadalira pa chikhalidwe chanu, pamlingo woyenera. Kupilira kungathe kuopseza ndi kugawa mnzanuyo. Wodzichepetsa kwambiri komanso wamanyazi adzakhumudwitsa kwambiri.
Ngati mutasankha chisankho chosasangalatsa pa munthu uyu, pitirizani kukhala ndi chidaliro kuti mumange komanso kuyanjana. Ubale wachikondi umapangitsa munthu kukhala wokongola kwambiri, kumupanga iye akuwoneka ngati akuyaka kuchokera mkati. Moyo wathanzi umachepetsa nkhawa ndipo umalimbitsa chitetezo cha mthupi. Samwetu amawala pamaso kuti munthu wachikondi aoneke kutali.
Chikondi! Ndipo muzikondedwa!
Sergey Vasilenko
goroskopi.ru