Ndipo kuti tipitirizebe, tikuyenera, choyamba, kukhala ndi mphamvu kumbuyo, mwa mawonekedwe a mwamuna. Banja, ndiye. Kenaka, amakwaniritsa udindo wake wapadera ku chilengedwe. Ndipotu, mwakachetechete, pokhapokha palokha imakula, panthawi imodzimodziyo kukwezera anthu ambiri komanso mwamuna. Ngati nayenso ali nzika yodalirika, zingakhale bwino ngati atagwira ntchito kuti apindule ndi a Motherland, makamaka osadzimvere chisoni. Ichi chinali chiyambi cha mkazi mpaka posachedwapa, ena amakumbukira nthawi ino. Kenaka mkaziyo sanaganize kuti ndi bwino kusankha ntchito kapena ntchito.
Kenaka, kusintha kwathu kunabwera m'dziko lathu, zomwe mitima yathu "idakhumba". Akazi anayamba kukhala ndi ufulu wosankha osati kakhitchini, mwinamwake anawongolera, anawuka. Kawirikawiri, iwo anayamba kuoneka. Ndipo zinawonekeratu kuti iwo anali amayi, osati mabwenzi okhulupirika ndi abwenzi omwe ali ndi ntchito zandale komanso zandale.
Mkazi wamakono ndi munthu wophunzira amene amadziwa kuti iye ndi wofunika. Mkazi yemwe udindo wake suli woyenera banja, koma yekha, kudzikhutira, chuma chodziimira, chomwe chimadziwa kuti chikondi chimakhala chabwino kapena ntchito. Kuti akwaniritse zomwe tatchulazo, ena amadzipeza okha olemera ndipo mothandizidwa awo amayesetsa kuzindikira zolinga zawo. Ena, ndi ochuluka awo, amapita njira yawo, mosiyana ndi zolinga zawo. Ndipo ngati oyamba, kuthetsa ntchitozi, adzalandira maphunziro apamwamba, ndiye kuti chinthu chachiwiri ndi chofunika kwambiri chidzakhala kupeza ntchito yodalirika komanso kupita patsogolo mofulumira pa ntchito. Pamene atsikana amaphunzira, nthawi zina amapeza nthawi ya chikondi. Ngakhale pano pali zopinga. Pambuyo pake kupeza ntchito yabwino, izi ziyenera kusamalidwa pamene mukuwerenga. Ndipo mungagwirizanitse bwanji maphunziro, masemina, ntchito, mtundu wina wa maulendo ndi chikondi?
Makamaka mofulumira onse amayendetsa. Ndipo ena samaganiza kuti ndi bwino kusankha. Kwa iwo, chikondi ndi malingaliro a ntchito sizigwirizana. Amapereka chisangalalo chokondweretsa chuma ndi ntchito zamtsogolo. Ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse ntchito yofulumira imapangitsa kuti munthu akhale wachimwemwe komanso wokwanira, osati chikondi chophweka. Ena, amene amapereka maloto awo pa suti ya bizinesi, amasankha chikondi, banja ndi ana.
Palibe yankho lachidziwitso ku funso lomwe kulibwino kusankha chisankho kapena ntchito, ndipo sichidzatero. Chilichonse chimadalira munthu, pa dziko lapansi, powakhazikika, pa kukula kwake, pakuyenda ndi mphamvu. Amayi ambiri, m'masiku amasiku ano, amakonzekera miyoyo yawo pasadakhale zaka zambiri. Ndiyeno pali malo a ntchito, ndi chikondi, ndi ana. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi nyimbo zakutchire, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Azimayi ena sagonjetsa zovuta za maganizo, ndiye, funso la chikondi kapena ntchito, limakhala losemphana kwambiri, chifukwa chosankhacho chidzakhala chofunika komanso moyo wonse umadalira, iwo ali pamsewu. Sikuti mukungodziyesa nokha kuti ndi bwino kusankha: chikondi kapena ntchito. Kulondola kwa kusankha kudzakhala kwa mtsogolo, pakapita kanthawi, musadandaule kuti chisankho ichi chapangidwa. Ndipotu, zambiri zimakhala pamapu.
Inde, njira yabwino, pamene mkazi ali nayo nthawi yonse. Ali ndi ntchito yokongola, chikondi chosakondweretsa. Iye amachita zonse nthawi zonse. Iye sayenera kusankha. Izi ndi zabwino. Ndipo zabwino, mwatsoka, ndizovuta. Kotero ife lero tiri ndi unyinji wawukulu wa otchedwa amalonda-omwe anali atapereka chikondi pofuna kuthandiza kukula kwa ntchito. Tsopano iwo ali opambana, ogwira mwaluso, koma, tsoka, sizinachitike monga akazi. Tsogolo lawo lachilengedwe latha pena paliponse. Kwa ena, izi zowonongeka, iwo ankadziwa zomwe iwo anali. Ndipo ena, mwinamwake obisala mosamala, akudandaula kuti adakhalapo kale ndi malingaliro ofunika kwambiri pa umunthu wawo, sanalole chikondi m'miyoyo yawo. Ndipotu, chikondi chenicheni, ndithudi, chili ndi mphamvu zazikulu, zomwe zingathe kuzindikiritsa paliponse, popanda kukakamiza kusankha.