Kulamulira momwe mungachitire izi kulibe. Apo ayi, kungakhale kumverera kosasunthika, ndipo chikondi sichimenezo! Kudziwika kulikonse kumati ndiyekha ndipo kumafuna njira yapadera. Komabe, muyenera kudziwa zifukwa zingapo zomwe zingakuthandizenso kuti muzindikire kuti ndinu munthu komanso wosaiwalika.
Zonse zomwe mukufotokoza, kuyembekezera kwa nthawi yaitali kapena zosayembekezereka, zoyambirira kapena zoyenera, zamtendere kapena zamtendere - koma ziyenera kukhala zachikondi nthawi zonse. Nazi njira zingapo zopangira izi.
Njira nambala 1. Nthawi ya sukulu osati osati kokha.
Kamodzi kamodzi ine mwinamwake ndinawona kulembedwa kwa madesiki a sukulu mwa mawonekedwe a mitima ndipo, ndithudi, mawu ndi dzina la wokondedwa. Kuzindikira kwake kungamangidwe mofanana. Kwa ichi, ndithudi, simukusowa kukhala ndi desiki ndi kutulutsa dzina la wokondedwa pa ilo. Zokwanira kuphatikizapo malingaliro ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zonse zomwe ziri pafupi. Kodi mukumuyembekezera mumsewu m'nyengo yozizira? Lembani pamaganizo osungidwa a chisanu. Kodi mumakonda kuphika ndipo nthawi zambiri mumayipeza ndi mbale zoyambirira? Lembani "Ndikukukondani" pa keke kapena saladi. Kodi wosankhidwa wanu ndi wachikondi kwambiri? Ikani mawu awa pa chisanu ndi makandulo kapena kuitanitsa zozizira, zomwe muphulika zikupanga kuvomereza kofunika.
Njira nambala 2. Monga m'mabuku.
M'mabuku otchuka a D. Austin, amuna ndi akazi onse anavomerezana wina ndi mzake m'maganizo mwachinsinsi. Inde, lero masiku a ma e-mail akuwoneka, izi sizinkafunikanso. Koma ndi kulembedwa pamanja, komanso, ngati pamapepala okongola, ndipo adzakhala okondana kwenikweni. Makalata oterewa sakhala atatayidwa. Komanso, wina akhoza kulemba kuvomereza kwanu mu mawonekedwe achilembo. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mulibe mphatso yothetsera malingaliro anu, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito mabungwe apadera. Madalitso pa intaneti pa nkhaniyi ndi zambiri zambiri.
Njira nambala 3. Kwa omwe akufuna kujambula.
Kodi mumakonda kujambula zithunzi? Ndiye gawo lajambula ngati chida chodziwika ndi cha inu. Pemphani wosankhidwa wanu kuchithunzi choterocho. Kujambula, mumakhala pafupi kwambiri. Mutagwira mphindiyi, nenani mu khutu lanu za malingaliro anu. Inde, pakadali pano kuvomereza kudzakhala kochepa, komabe kukondana komanso kukonda.
Njira nambala 4. Anzanu akale.
Kodi mwadziwana ndipo muli ndi zithunzi za wokondedwa wanu? Wodabwitsa! Pangani collage chithunzi ndi awiri a inu. Ikani izo pamalo otchuka ndipo dikirani chisangalalo ndi funso pamaso pa okondedwa anu. Njira iyi imathandiza kwambiri. Choyamba, pokuwonetsani palimodzi, mudzasonyeza kuti mukuwona tsogolo lanu pafupi ndi wina ndi mnzake. Chachiwiri, iye adzafunsa kuti alemekeze zodabwitsa zoterezi. Apa ndi pamene mumanena mawu okondedwa kwambiri.
Njira nambala 5. Classic.
Njira iyi yodziwira nthawizonse yakhala, yatsala ndipo idzakhala yachikondi. Dzina lake ndi "chakudya chamakono." Inde, inu mwakhala mukuganiza kale zomwe muyenera kuchita. Chilichonse chiri chophweka kwambiri. Inu mumakonda ndipo mumadziwa kuphika - konzekerani chinachake chowala, mwachitsanzo, chakudya chokamwa, nyama yowonda kapena zipatso. Kuchokera ku zakumwa amasankha vinyo - zakumwa zokha zokhudzana ndi chikondi. Ndipo nthawi yomwe mutsegula mtima wanu, sankhani nokha.
Njira nambala 6. Katswiri.
Njira iyi ndi yofanana ndi kulemba kalata, yovuta kwambiri komanso yofuna talente. Kuligwiritsa ntchito, limatanthauzira kujambula chithunzi cha wokondedwa ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mu kalata mawu ovomerezeka pazitsulo. Ngati mulibe talente ya ojambula, ziribe kanthu. Mzinda uliwonse muli akatswiri okwanira ojambula okonzekera kuchita ntchitoyi. Kotero ngati wosankhidwa wanu ndi katswiri wa luso, kuvomereza kotereku kudzakhala kumkonda kwake.
Njira nambala 7. Picnic.
Kuzindikira kotereku mu chikondi kukudikirirani inu ndi osankhidwa anu kuti mupite kuyenda. Popanda chisangalalo, simuyenera kuyenda. Mukhoza kuyenda paliponse komanso momwe mumafunira. Mukhoza kukwera hatchi ndikukhala ndi picnic yaing'ono m'nkhalango yamtendere. M'nyengo yozizira mukhoza kuyenda m'nyengo yozizira ndi nkhalango yazing'ono pansi pa chogwirira ndipo ngakhale pa nthawi ino pachabe palibe yemwe amaletsa kupanga picnic kumidzi. Fry shish kebabs, imwani vinyo. Monga momwe zilili m'kachikale, nthawi yomwe zingakhale bwino kuti mutsegule malingaliro anu ndinu omasuka kuti musankhe nokha.
Njira nambala 8. Mu French.
Ku France, m'zaka za zana la 19, phwetekere idatchedwa "apulo wachikondi" ndipo ankakhulupilira kuti poupereka kwa mwamuna, mukanakhala kuti mumakonda. Kotero bwanji osakumbukira mwambo wabwino uwu wochokera ku dziko lomwe limakukondani kwambiri ndi kumverera kwakukulu? Mupatse phwetekere losavuta ndipo auzeni (ngati sakudziwa) za nkhani yake.
Pano iwo ali, njira zingapo momwe angavomereze chikondi. Kaya mulowetsa chiani, khalani ndi chidaliro mwa inu nokha ndi kusangalala ndi nthawi yomwe mumakhala ndi munthu wokondedwa wanu.