Kulota miyendo yamoto

Zolinga zambiri zomwe zimalota maloto zimalota maloto okhudza miyendo yopaka tsitsi ngati chizindikiro cha ndalama zapamwamba komanso chuma chokhazikika, koma kuti kutanthauzira kukwaniritsidwe, nkofunika kukumbukira mosamala zonse za chiwembu ndi maonekedwe a mapazi. Popeza pali malingaliro ambiri okhudzana ndi masomphenya a usiku, tiyenera kulankhula zambiri za izi.

Kodi miyendo yofiira imawoneka bwanji?

• Mu bukhu la Miller la loto linalembedwa kuti loto lotero limapereka ulendo wachangu. Ngati tsitsi la miyendo liri lalitali, msewu udzakhala wodzaza ndi mavuto ndipo uyenera kupirira nthawi zosautsa zambiri, kuwapambana.
• Freud amakhulupirira kuti atsikana amatha kulota miyendo yamoto, mwa iwo okha kapena kwa munthu, ngati ali pa ubale ndi iye amene adzakhala mtsogoleri. Mwamuna woti alole malonjezo ake ammimba amodzi akugonjera kugonana kwabwino kwa ntchito.
• Mzimayi amene adawona miyendo yake yamphongo m'maloto, muyenera kuyang'anitsitsa malo anu. Pakhoza kukhala achinyamata omwe ali ovuta kwambiri kwa wolota ndipo angakhale ngakhale anzanu omwe angakhale nawo moyo.
• Mwamuna yemwe wawona tsitsi pamilendo yake ndi mkazi akhoza kukonzekera mosavuta. Adzatsagana naye m'mbali zonse za moyo popanda ntchito: kuntchito, kuphunzira komanso payekha.
• Onetsetsani kukumbukira kuti tsitsi lanu linali lotani. Pa izi zimadalira zinthu zambiri ndi zochitika zenizeni.

Mtundu wa tsitsi mu loto

• Oyera kapena olankhula za momwe wolota amaganizira mozama za imfa ndi ukalamba. Kukhumudwa koteroko kumalepheretsa kukhala ndi moyo komanso kukwaniritsa cholinga.
• Tsitsi lopaka miyendo - chizindikiro cha kusakhutira ndi moyo wa kugonana ndi mnzanu.
• Tsitsi lakuda lakuda m'maloto limachenjeza msungwana kuti posachedwa akhoza kukhala ndi zovuta zachinyengo ndi zovuta za abwenzi. Amuna monga masomphenya awa akulonjeza chikondi chokondweretsa komanso moyo wabwino.
• Mtoto wofiira wa mkazi ndi chizindikiro cha mimba yofulumira. Kwa mwamuna, malotowa si abwino. Ichi ndi chenjezo kuti ayenera kumvetsera kwambiri maonekedwe ake, mwinamwake amalephera kutchuka pakati pa hafu yokongola.

Sulani tsitsi lanu pa mapazi anu

M'mibadwo yakale, kuchotsa tsitsi (ngakhale kulemba tsitsi) kunkaonedwa kuti ndi chizindikiro choipa. M'masiku amenewo, anthu amakhulupirira kuti anali tsitsi lomwe mphamvu yonse ya munthu idabisika ndipo pambuyo poti awerenge, iye amalephera kutetezedwa.

• Ngati wolota akuwona miyendo yake yaubweya komanso ali ndi chikhumbo chofuna kumeta ndekha, ndiye kuti adziyanjanitsa yekha ndikuti zikhumbo zake zonse ndi malingaliro ake sangathe kukhala weniweni.
• Popeza m'mabuku ena a malotowo mzere wotsogola wa miyendo umawoneka ngati chizindikiro cha chitetezo, pali kutanthauzira kuti kuvala tsitsi kumatanthauza kusintha komwe kungalepheretse wolota chitonthozo.
• Mfundo ina yofunika ndi yakuti zochita zoterezi ziyenera kuonedwa kuti ndizofunikira kupanga njira zothetsera vutoli.
• Miller akuti kumeta tsitsi lofiirira pamapazi ake kumasonyeza kuti wotopayo amachita zinthu mopitirira malire, ndi waulesi kwambiri choncho sangathe kukwaniritsa udindo wake m'dera kapena ntchito.
• Ngati mwamuna ameta ndekha kwa mlendo, ndiye kuti ali ndi vuto, zomwe sangathe kuziletsa. Zimakhudzana ndi zinthu zakuthupi. Zingakhale kutaya makhalidwe abwino chifukwa cha mphamvu yaikulu kapena kuba.