Mukudziwa momwe mungasinthire chisa cha banja kuti chikhale bwino ndikukhala bwino. Mutu wanga aliyense nthawi ndi nthawi pali malingaliro, momwe mungakonzeretseni mipando ndi pepala loti liphatikize. Mumamva mphamvu yakulimbana ndi zinthu zonse. Musatero! Dziperekeni nokha ku mfundo yakuti iwe umakhala wovuta, chifukwa ngakhale kukwera makwerero ndi kusamba mawindo tsopano si kosavuta monga kale. Mu nthawi yakudikirira mwana, onetsetsani kuti mukuchita bizinesi kuti mubwezeretsedwe kwa abambo amtsogolo. Mukuganiza kuti simungathe kuchita izi? Zimangokhala kuti simunamupatse mpata woti alowe muyambidwe ya mazenera, kutsuka kwakukulu ndi kuikidwa kwa mtengo wamtengo wapamanja. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mwamuna azigwira yekha. Ndiwe wothandizira wokhulupirika. Musati mutenge mopitirira. Ndikutsimikiza kuti kukhalapo kwanu kumam'patsa mphamvu ndi chikhulupiriro mwa iyemwini. Ndipo ngati ali mmodzi wa amuna omwe samalola malangizo ofunikira, amupatse ufulu wa chilengedwe. Ndipo panthawiyi, konzekerani chakudya chamadzulo (musaiwale za kuteteza ulamuliro).
Kusamba kwathunthu
Nthawi yomweyo ndi bwino kumveketsa: ziribe kanthu momwe mbuye wamakono analiri panthawi yomwe munali ndi pakati, ndiye kuti mwayi wanu tsopano uli pansi pazomwe mukukhala ndi thanzi labwino. Dzidzimvere nokha zokhoza kuchita? Wodabwitsa. Koma musaiwale kupuma nthawi zambiri. Musagwiritse ntchito nthawi yoposa ola limodzi, mwinamwake iwo atha kutupa madzulo.
Chitani nokha
Onetsetsani makapu kapena mipando yowonongeka pokhapokha mutapukuta panthawi ya mimba. Ngati mukufuna kutsuka zida zilizonse, musaweramire - ndibwino kuti muime pazinayi zonse. Pansi langa ndi mopopera ndi nsonga yaitali. Kodi ndikutembenuka mwachangu? Ziri zabwino kwambiri! Kawirikawiri zimakhala zovuta kukugwadira. Dzizisamalire nokha. Ikani dongosolo mu chipinda, koma pakati pa maalumali. Ziri kwa iwe. Kuphatikiza apo, kusankha mitundu-T-shirts, sweaters, kumachepetsa bwino mitsempha.
Perekani mwamuna wanu
Kusamba kwazenera sikukugwira ntchito pa nthawi ya pakati. Mayi wam'tsogolo amachoka pakati pa mphamvu yokoka, motero, pamtunda mumayesa kutayika. Kukonzekanso kwa mipando m'nyumba yomwe mumaikonda. Muyenera kunyamula zolemetsa zotsutsana. Kuyeretsa pa mezzanine sikubwezeretsanso kapena kudalirika ndi chikumbumtima choyera. Bambo wamtsogolo adzasamalira ukhondo mu bafa ndi chimbudzi, popanda chisangalalo, koma pokonzekera. Zinthu zoopsa zimakuvulazani.
Makhalidwe abwino ndi katundu
Ngati panyumba panalibenso othandizira, ndipo vedolo lakale liyenera kusunthidwa mwamsanga, pamene linayamba kukukwiyitsani, yesetsani kuchita nokha. Kodi mwakonza ulendo wopita ku sitolo? Mkulu! Choyamba, choyamba, ndikutsatira malamulo ena. Chophimba chachikulu, mphika wa maluwa, mtsuko wa madzi kapena mkaka, nthawizonse umathandizira kuchokera pansipa. Chifukwa chiyani? Chombo sichidzatuluka m'manja mwanu. Musadalire kwambiri, mwinamwake mungathe kutambasula mitsempha yanu ya msana ndikulephera kuchita bwino. Squat, miyendo yotsutsana. Kotero zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri kwa inu. Kuwonjezera apo, kudzuka, iwe udzakhalabe malire. Kumbukirani kuti chinthu cholemera sichikhoza kunyamulidwa patsogolo panu, chifukwa minofu ya msana wanu imamangirira. Mukanyamula katundu aliyense, gwiritsani ntchito ntchafu yanu ngati chithandizo. Mudzachepetsa kuchepa kwa msana. Musati mukanikize bokosi lalikulu, thumba kapena thumba lolemera ndi zakudya mpaka pamimba, kotero inu mukanikize pa chipatso. Iye sakonda izo. Musati mugwire chinthu cholemetsa pa manja otambasulidwa. Onetsetsani kuti zitsulo zanu ndizochepa. Paulendo wogula zakudya kwa sabata, zipatso ndi ndiwo zamasamba zosiyanasiyana, zipangizo zapakhomo, nthawi zonse zimakhala ndi munthu wina. Ndipo ngati mupita nokha, mugule chofunikira kwambiri: tomato ndi maapulo angapo, yogurt ndi 300 magalamu a nyama. Kudya chakudya chokwanira. Yesani kusenza katundu wolemera. Mlingo wanu: osaposa makilogalamu 2-3. Mtengo waukulu umene mungathe tsopano m'manja mwanu ndi mapaketi atatu a mkaka. Musaiwale za kukhalapo kwa magalimoto pamagalimoto mumsika. Ngakhale kuti pachiyambi simunakonde kutenga kanthu kalikonse kopindulitsa, mudzawona poto yowotcha kapena magalasi okongola, popanda, mwachibadwa, simungachoke m'sitolo. Kugula kwambiri? Tengani tekesi.