Pali chikondi chapadera - chikondi patali. Kodi ilipo? Ndipo, chikondi chimatha bwanji patali?
Gwirizanitsani kuti ambiri a inu mumakhulupirira kuti chikondi patali sichikhala ndi tsogolo. Ambiri samakhulupirira kuti anthu amatha kukonda ndi kusunga maganizo awa, ngakhale atapatulidwa ndi mazana makilomita.
Ngati mutembenuka, mungathe kutsutsa kuti chikondi chilipo patali. Koma kodi zimakhala ndi nthawi yayitali bwanji ndipo zimatha bwanji?
Mwachitsanzo, masiku athu alipo ambiri omwe amakondana, koma chifukwa cha ntchito, mwamuna kapena mkazi nthawi zonse alibe. Mabanja okwera galimoto, oyendetsa sitima ndi anthu, omwe amakakamizidwa kuyenda maulendo a bizinesi. Okwatirana samataya chikondi, chifukwa cha misonkhano yochepa. Pakati paokha, amatha kuitana, kulembera maimelo ndi ma sms. Msonkhano wawo uliwonse. Zili ngati phwando laukwati.
Poganizira nkhaniyi, tingatsutsane kuti chikondi chilipo patali! Koma, mwatsoka, zimakhala zovuta kutchula banja ngatilo, lathunthu, kukhala ndi moyo komanso kulera ana kugwera kwa mwamuna mmodzi yekha. Ngati okwatirana angapezeke kuchoka pakalipano kuti pasakhale ozunzidwa, ndiye kuti maukwati oterewa angaganizidwe motalika komanso amphamvu.
Chitsanzo china cha chikondi patali. Chikondi cha tchuthi. Pali mwamuna ndi mkazi. Pakati pawo pali chikondi ndi kukopa. Pamene akupumula, amasangalala. Koma, chimachitika ndi chiyani pamene ulendowu watha ndipo wina ayenera kupita kudziko lake?
Monga lamulo, maubwenzi oterowo kawirikawiri amakhala ndi tsogolo. Kusiyanitsa, wokondedwa aliyense amabwerera kuchokera ku nthano kupita ku moyo wake wamba, momwe amachitira ndi zomwe zimamuyenerera.
Inde, mulimonsemo pali zosiyana. Ambiri a inu mukhoza kufotokoza nkhani pamene chikondi cha malo osungiramo zachiwerewere chinayambira mu ubale wathunthu ndipo chinatsogolera ku kulengedwa kwa banja. Ndipo mtundawo sunali chopinga chokhumudwitsa kwambiri - Chikondi!
Zaka makumi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi ziwiri zinabweretsa zozizwitsa zambiri ku miyoyo yathu komanso kuyanjana pakati pa anthu. Mwachitsanzo, mabanja ambiri payekha amasankha maubwenzi patali. Amakhala kutali ndi wina ndi mnzake, amalankhulana kudzera pa intaneti, telefoni. Nthawi zina amakumana ndi nthawi, kudzipereka okha kukondana wina ndi mnzake.
Nchifukwa chiyani okwatirana amasankha chikondi patali? Amakhulupirira kuti kukhala pamodzi ndi kutsogolera moyo wamba kudzapha chikondi chawo ndi chikondi chawo wina ndi mzake. Iwo ali ndi chikhumbo choteteza chikondi ndi chilakolako mu ubale wawo.
Kwa ambiri, mtundu uwu wa chiyanjano ungawoneke, kuwukhazika mtima pansi, wodabwitsa. Koma, Zonse zofanana. Mfundo zimasonyeza kuti maubwenzi ndi chikondi patali, mwa awiri awiriwa alipo nthawi yayitali.
Chitsanzo china, chikondi patali ndi chikondi chenicheni. Inde, simunamve! Masiku ano, chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kuntchito ndi panyumba, ambiri samapeza nthawi yopita ku kanema kapena masewera a kanema. Amasankha njira ina yolankhulirana - intaneti. Sizowoneka, m'magulu, kupeza munthu pafupi naye, amene amamuukitsa ndi chikondi.
Kodi mungatchule bwanji ubale woterowo? Chikondi chiri patali. Amatha kukhala nthawi yaitali, koma popanda msonkhano waumwini, posachedwa adzatha.
Nkhaniyi ikugwiritsidwa ntchito pa mutu wakuti: "Kodi chikondi chimatha bwanji patali ndipo chiri ndi ufulu wokhalapo?".
Kuchokera pa zonsezi, zitha kutsutsidwa kuti chikondi chiri patali. Koma chomwe chidzatha ndi nthawi yokha.