Chikondi ndi ...

Kumva chikondi, kukonda ndi kukondedwa - zonsezi ndizosiyana ndi munthu. M'madera a zinyama, mungathe kukonza chiwonetsero cha chifundo ndi chikondi.

Kodi chikondi chinabwera bwanji? Kodi zinachokera kuti? Pochita zinthu ndi anthu, kuphatikiza kwawo m'mabanja, mabanja, mabanja, chitukuko cha chikhalidwe - zonsezi zinamuthandiza munthu kuzindikira kuti ali ndi malingaliro ozama kwambiri kwa munthu wina.

Wokondedwa yekhayo amatha kumvetsa zomwe akumva ngati palibe. Wokonda yekhayo amamva moyo wonse, amapuma mapepala onse, amawona mitundu yonse yomwe ikuphatikiza dziko lathu.

Madokotala amatanthauzira chikondi ngati kukopa kosasunthika, ngati njira yapadera yolumikizira mitsinje yambiri, mphamvu, zachikhalidwe komanso zachikondi. Anthu opanga chikhulupiliro amatsimikizira kuti chikondi ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri komanso zimalimbikitsa kukongola m'madera osiyanasiyana.

Kukondana ndi kosavuta, kukonda n'kovuta. Kuti mudzipereke kwathunthu kumverera kwanu, okhawo olimba, okhwima, okwanira anthu amatha kudzilolera kuti adzilowetsere kwathunthu ndi chikwapu cha maganizo. Ambiri amaopa chikondi. Osamvetsetsa zomwe zikuwachitikira, nthawi zina anthu amadzibisa okha, kutseka dziko lawo lamkati, poopa kusamvetsedwa kapena kuwotchedwa. Koma okhawo omwe amakhalabe otseguka ku matsenga omwe chikondi chimabweretsa ku miyoyo yathu adzazindikira kuti mpaka mphindi ino iwo sanakhalepo nkomwe.

Chikondi nthawi zonse chimaphatikizapo kufunika kopereka. Ine ndekha, pa malo oyamba, ndi zabwino zonse zomwe zili pafupi nafe, sizikufuna, koma pali chofunikira chenicheni chopatsa wokondedwa dziko lonse lapansi. Wokonda yekha ndi wowona mtima amapereka theka lamoyo wake wamkati, chimwemwe, kumvetsetsa kwake, kumvetsetsa, nthabwala komanso zabwino. Nthawi zina, pamene chisoni chimabwera chifukwa chochoka kapena kupatukana, mukufuna kufotokoza chisoni, kugaŵana ndi munthu amene akufotokozera.

Amakonda kusokoneza nkhope, mofanana ndi mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kutaya chikondi popanda kuwona, ngakhale kwa kanthaŵi kochepa, dziko lonse lapansi likuchepa kwambiri, mutu umatha kuyamba, ndipo zovuta zomwe zimakhala mumtima mwawo zimapezeka.

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti kukhalapo kwa chikondi kumatsimikiziridwa pa msinkhu wa sayansi. Ndikumverera kumene ndiko tanthauzo lofunika kwambiri pa moyo, kumatikoka ife, kuyendetsa dziko lonse lapansi. Koma chikondi chimapangitsa kuti munthu akhale ndi maganizo abwino, amatha kupweteka, kusaganizirana komanso kuwonongeka. Ndi za chikondi chosadalirika cha chikondi.

Simungakhale okonzeka kukondana, simungaphunzire kumanga chikondi molingana ndi malamulo kapena malamulo ena. Iwo amangokhala palibe. Koma chikondi chingatiphunzitse zambiri. Choyamba, perekani, kugawa, kupereka. Chachiwiri, chikondi chimatiphunzitsa kukhala ndi moyo, osati kukhalapo. Chachitatu, chikondi chimatiphunzitsa kukhala osangalala. Ndipo kukumbukira uku kudzakhalapo kwanthawi zonse, kukumbukira komweko kudzasankha zomwe zingachotsedwe, ndipo monga lamulo, nthawi zokhazosaiwalika zokhalapobe mu ubongo wathu - pamene tinkakonda!

M'dziko lamakono, tingathe kunena mosapita m'mbali kuti chikondi ndi bizinesi. Ubale weniweni wa nyenyezi, chidziwitso cha umoyo wawo - zonsezi zimapangitsa munthu kukhala ndi maganizo ochepa kwambiri, amachepetsa.

Mtsikana wina anati chikondi chenicheni ndi pamene zinthu zonse zimagwirizana. Ngati palibe chiyanjano, ndiye kuti maganizowa sangatchulidwe chikondi chenicheni. Pakamwa pa mwanayo, monga momwe akudziwira, ndi zoona. Ndikufuna kuti anthu onse azikonda ana, popanda kanthu, koma monga choncho!