Nthawi zambiri, mumakonda kwambiri, mumayamba kukomana komanso posachedwa, zomwe ziyenera kuti zinachitika, usiku wina adakufikitsani kunyumba ndipo, ataimirira pakhomo, milomo yanu imatsekedwa pamodzi pansi pa "kupsompsona". Ndipo apa ndi-yanu yoyamba, kulandila kulandira kopanda kosalakwa, pambuyo pake mutu umapita mozungulira, ndipo maganizo amasefukira. Ndipo chirichonse chikanakhala chabwino, pali vuto limodzi lokha - manyazi aunyamata, omwe aliyense adadutsa. Kodi mumayamba kubisala maso anu, malingaliro anu amayamba pang'onopang'ono? koma molimbika mutha kusokonezeka ndipo funso lokha limapsa: "Mmene mungakhalire pakali pano?" Tiyeni tiyese pamodzi kuti tiyankhe momwe tingachitire bwino ndi mnyamata atangompsompsonana koyamba?
Atsikana ambiri chifukwa amayamba mantha kwambiri samatha kumvetsa "koma izi ndikumpsompsona." Kawirikawiri, izi zimakhala chifukwa choopa momwe ntchitoyo ingakhalire komanso zotsatira zake. Kuwopa komweku kopsompsona koyamba kungathe kufotokozedwa poyerekeza ndi mantha a chinachake kusintha, kuphunzira chinachake chatsopano, chosadziwika kale. Koma boma pambuyo popsompsonana likufanana ndi kumverera kosazindikira kuti inu mwachita chinachake cholakwika, chinachake chachilendo kwa inu, mpaka pamtingo ngakhale chamanyazi, cholakwika. Kuopa kuti wokondedwa wanu adzakutsutsani. Izi, ndithudi, ndi mantha achizolowezi pafupifupi mantha onsewa. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi m'mutu mumayamba kufotokoza mosiyana maganizo, kuchititsa manyazi komanso mantha pamaso.
Choyamba, musayambe mantha, ndipotu simunachite chilichonse chophwanya malamulo, ndizochitika zachilengedwe zomwe ziyenera kuchitika, chifukwa ndi zabwino kwa amayi athu (tiyeni tiwathokoze kwa iye chifukwa cha nthawi yosaiŵalika iyi). Mukadzikweza nokha ndikutulutsa mitsempha yanu kutali, mutha kuyamba kumvetsetsa bwino ndikuganiza bwino. Nthawi yomweyo mumakhala wodekha komanso wokwanira kuti muzindikire. Tayang'anirani izo kuchokera kumbali inayo - tsopano muli ndi chinachake choti muwonetsere abwenzi anu, ndipo komabe inu, pamapeto pake, munpsyopsyona kwa nthawi yoyamba, ngakhale iye (chibwenzi chanu), monga momwe mumaganizira komanso simukudziwa momwe mungachitire (mwa njira, ndiye inu mudzakumbukira ndi kuseka kamodzi), koma izo zinachitika. Choncho, "mitsempha!" Idzakhala chikhalidwe chathu choyamba kuti tipeŵe "kutengera matenda apsopsosis."
Manyazi - chabwino, monga ndanenera pamwambapa, izi ndizochitika zachilengedwe, mwa njira, kudzipsompsona kokha kumbuyo, komwe kuli manyazi, zonse zimachitika ndipo aliyense ali wamoyo. Chinthu choipitsitsa chomwe mwakhala mukukumana nacho ndi mnyamata, chifukwa chiyani mukuwopsya pano. Choncho, pitirizani kubisala maso anu nthawi zonse, kuwaponya pansi, mnyamata wanu palibe - ali patsogolo panu. Iwe, pamapeto, ndi ndani wamanyazi, kapena chiyani? Imani, mundikhulupirire, nayenso amanyazi, mumuthandize ndi maso ake.
Iwo anasankha izo ndi iwoeni, ndipo tsopano za mnyamata. Atangompsyopsyona, amayesa kusokoneza kuseka. Dikirani mpaka nthawi yomwe mumapezeka kunyumba kwanu kale, ndipo mutha kuyimirira pamtima wanu, chifukwa cha izi, mwa njira, usiku wonse (khulupirirani kuti simungathe kugona). Choncho tsono, chokani, ganizirani zomwe zingakhale mwana wanu, mutayamba kuseka kwambiri, ndikuganiza kuti sangachite nsanje. Dziike nokha m'malo mwake. Ndi bwino kuseka, kutulutsa mkhalidwe ndi kumwetulira, kotero inu palimodzi - sungani mkhalidwe wanu wovuta. Komanso, zikanakhala bwino kunena mawu okondana monga "uwu ndikumpsompsonana kwathu koyamba" ndikukonzekera "kapena chinthu china cholinganiza, ndiwe mtsikana, ndi malingaliro, monga tikudziwira, ndife okhwima muzochitika zonse. Ndinayiwala kuti ndinene, koma tayimani, potsiriza, muthamangire kunyumba, amaganiza kuti mumuthawa, osati kuchokera kupsompsona. Amuna, ngakhale chipsompsone choyamba kapena chachiwiri, amamasuka kwambiri za izi ndipo chifukwa cha changu chanu chobisala kunja kwa makoma a nyumba yanu, akhoza kuganiza mosiyana (kuti mukuthawa, mwachitsanzo, kuti iye, chabwino, basi, akupsompsona kwambiri).
Mwa njira, ngati, ngati chibwenzi chanu chizoloŵezi kumpsompsona molondola ndipo mwamsanga mutangompsompsona mumakufotokozerani pa mutu womwe mukuchita molakwika. Musakhale wamanyazi, anyamata nthawi zonse amakonda kusonyeza kuti ali abwino kuposa ife atsikana muzonse. Kotero molimba mtima ndi molimba mtima amuyankhe iye monga chonchi: "Palibe, ndili ndi mphunzitsi wonga inu, ndikukhala ndi nthawi yophunzira ... choncho zonse ziri patsogolo." Mnyamatayu adzazitenga ngati chiyamiko chabwino ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndizo nthabwala kwa inu. Ngati mnyamatayo sananene kalikonse, musati mudzinenere nokha kuti sakumpsompsona bwino (chabwino, ngati simukukonda momwe amachitira). Ndikuyembekeza kuti mumamvetsetsa momwe mungakhalire ndi mnyamata mutangompsompsona. Kumbukirani, kupsompsona koyamba ndi bwino kukupsompsona. Amapezeka mmoyo kamodzi ndikusasokoneza mphindi ino, ndi mitundu yonse ya tsankho ndi kuphwanya mutu wake, ngati mwachita bwino, ndipo ngati sakonda, sindikudziwa kuti ndikupsompsona bwanji. Monga akunena, Moscow wakhala akumanga masiku angapo. Simukudziwa momwe mungaphunzire tsopano.
Mwa mawu, mutapsompsona, muzikhala mwamtendere, muyeso. Musakhale amantha. Choyamba, ndikuganiza kuti sikungakhale kukumbukira kukumbukira kuti palibe cholakwika ndi izo. Pewani manyazi, pitirizani kuchita zonse zomwe mwachita maminiti asanu apitawo, mpaka mutangompsyopsyona. Sungulani kwa mnzanuyo, yesetsani kuyankhula pa mutu wina, potero mukutsitsimutsani nonse ndikuchotsa mavuto. Dzitetezeni kwathunthu ku zomwe zinachitika, musati "pachika" panthawi ino pa izi. Lekani kulingalira za chibwenzi chanu kuti sakukonda chinachake kapena akukutsutsani chinachake, ndipo sanasinthe maganizo ake okhudza inu. Pambuyo pa zomwe zinachitika ndiye kuti anali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi inu, chifukwa munayamba kuyandikana kwambiri, ndipo ubale wanu unasintha mtundu wosiyana, ndikupita ku gawo lalikulu. Choncho musadandaule mutu wanu ndi malingaliro opusa, koma musanapite kwanu, mupsompsenso, kuti zonse zikhale zabwino komanso zosasintha zomwe zasintha pamoyo wanu. Pumulani, lolani chirichonse chipite, pamene chikupita paokha.