Kuonjezerapo, mwamuna ndi apo alibe kuti ziribe kanthu momwe mukuyesera kuti musatseke. Ngakhale kuti ambiri, ngati mukuyang'ana ziŵerengero ndizowerengeka. Ndiye, ndithudi, chithunzi china chimamangidwa, chomwe chimatsimikizira kuti "chifukwa chiyani akazi amakhala ochezeka kuposa amuna? ". Ngati simukuwerengera anthu onse payekha, ndipo tsatirani mawerengedwe, ndi maganizo, ndi momwe amayi amachitira. Izi zikhoza kufika pamaganizo otero.
Poyamba, amuna anali opeza, anali atakhala chete, ntchito yosangalatsa, kupeza chakudya. Iwo sankatha kulankhula, chinthu chachikulu chinali kumaliza chakudya ndi kudyetsa banja. Amayi omwe adasankhidwa kuti azisamalidwa ndi amuna onse, komanso kuti amangokhala m'nyumba ndi nyumba, kuti nyumbayi inali yotentha komanso yokonzeka bwino, kuti chakudya chinali chokoma, ndipo ana anali okongola komanso okongola (ngakhale chifukwa ichi, nayenso, ndipo anayankha mwamuna, koma osati muyeso iyi). Ndipo m'kupita kwa nthawi, mwamuna ndi mkazi ali ndi zizoloŵezi zina, komanso mwa chisinthiko, komanso m'mapu a makhalidwe abwino. Izi, zowonjezera, zinachititsa kuti amayi azikhala ochezeka, ndipo amuna ndi olondola komanso osakhudzidwa pa zokambirana zawo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, mwina amayi amati zambiri, koma zachabechabe zomwe sizinkafunikira. Amanena zonse zogwiritsira ntchito zowonongeka, zomwe sizikufunikira komanso zosafunikira. Chomwe chinganenedwe m'mawu awiri, iwo amatha kukhala chiwonongeko chachikulu mu dzikoli. Kwa amuna, iwo salola izi chifukwa nthawi ndi yofunika, ndipo zinthu zazing'ono sizili zofunika. Chifukwa chake, pamapeto pake, zikuwoneka kuti ndizochepa. Ngakhale mudakali pano, mutha kukumbukira izi.
Mwamuna, atachita ntchito yina ndikuchita china chake, chinthu china chapadera sichifuna kuunika. Uwu ndiwo ntchito yake, ndipo amachitira izi mopatulika, osati kudzitamandira ndikusawuza wina aliyense za izo.
Kwa amayi, iwo sangakhoze kukana izo basi. Kutentha phala, msuzi, chowotcha ndi zinthu zina, iwo amapereka izo kuyesa chibwenzi chawo, azilembapo, azigawana ndi wina aliyense, funsani ndemanga ndi zina zomwe akuyesa, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo mukambirane zomwe adagula ndi kumene adagula, ndipo chifukwa chiyani iye, ndipo ndi vuto lapaderadera lomwe linam'fikitsa ku sweta ili, osati kwa wina aliyense.
Ndichokulankhulana kwakukulu komanso kufunikira kwa tsatanetsatane zomwe zingathe kufotokozanso kuti akazi pakali pano ali pafupifupi theka la olemba malemba onse padziko lapansi. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo akulemba mabungwe, monga lamulo, palibe choyenera kukambirana, monga nthawi zonse kugula, akulangizidwa zomwe mungagule ndi zina zotero.
Choncho, atapenda magalimoto onse kumadera onse ku RuNet, akatswiri anabwera ku malo enieni, malo odziwitsa, kuchokera ku nyanja ya chidziwitso, komanso mabungwe a zamalonda, ali ndi amuna ambiri kuposa akazi. Iwo amawonera TV pa intaneti, kuwerenga zolemba za sayansi za mabuku ndi nkhani. Ngakhale amayi, monga tatchulidwa pamwambapa, akukambiranabe, ndipo amapanga gawo lina la intaneti, lomwe limasunga ma blog, limalemba ndi zina zotero. Izi zikutanthauza kuti pamapeto pake tingathe kuganiza kuti ogwiritsa ntchito kwambiri (mauthenga ndi mavidiyo) pa intaneti ndi achinyamata, komanso anthu a zaka zapakati, ambiri mwa iwo ndi amuna.
Ndipo pa malo okhala ndi mazokambirana, kuyankhulana ndi kungowonongeka kwa banal ngati sikunayambe, ndiye pafupi theka ndi atsikana. Popeza ndi "kulankhulana" kwa iwo omwe amawoneka kuti ndi osangalatsa komanso osangalatsa kusiyana ndi kuwerenga, mtundu wina wa chidziwitso chomwe alibe wina woti azigawana nawo, koma chomwe chimakhala chosangalatsa kwambiri kwa amuna.
Pofufuza zokhudzana ndi zolembedwa pamwambapa, tikhoza kunena chifukwa chake akazi amakhala ochezeka kuposa amuna.
Tiyeni tiyambe kuyambira pachiyambi.
Choyamba, maziko a chirichonse anali akale, pamene anthu adapeza chakudya ndi kusaka, ndipo ndi nthawi zomwe zinasiya zochitika zina pa mapu a maganizo.
Akazi, ndiye, ankangogwira nawo ntchito zapakhomo, ndipo zonse zinali mwamtendere ndi iwo, ndipo ntchito yeniyeniyi siinatanthauzire ndondomeko yeniyeni ya chifuno, zomwe amayi anayamba kulankhula zambiri, osati pazamalonda, koma pozungulira mutuwu. Kotero, psyche yawo inayamba kutanthawuza khalidwe ili kwa zaka zambiri zikubwera.
Chachiwiri, kuunika kwa zonse zomwe amai ndi abambo amachita. Ngati munthu achita chinachake, amachichita mosasamala kanthu kawunika, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kugwira ntchito nthawi yochepa kwambiri, popanda kufunsa mafunso osafunikira. Ndipo mu moyo wake wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi njira iyi, chirichonse chiri cholunjika kwambiri ndi cholondola.
Ponena za amayi, chirichonse chiri chovuta apa. Chifukwa cha zomwe adachita, kuti makamaka pazifukwa zamaganizo adzafuna kulingalira, ndipo adzalandira chiwerengero ichi. Kuchokera kwa anzanu ndi anthu ena. Adzayamba kuchita nawo njira zonse zomwe zingatheke kupambana, kugawa maphikidwe, kuyankhulana ndi zina zotero, zonsezi zimabweretsa chikhalidwe cha amayi.
Chachitatu. Ludzu lakudziŵa ndi zosowa ndilosiyana, lomwe limatsimikiziranso ndi chitsanzo cha intaneti ya Russian, malinga ndi zotsatira za kuyesedwa ndi kusanthula zambiri za chiwerengero, olemba kafukufuku anadza kumapeto otsatirako akutsimikizira kuti amayi ambiri ali ndi chidziwitso chochuluka, motero, ndikukumbukira kuti amuna adatsutsidwa ndi zomwe akuyembekezera ndi kuwerenga zambiri zoyera popanda chatsopano chotsitsa, ndipo popanda kukambirana. Azimayi amawoneka makamaka pa malo kapena pazithunzi zochepa, zomwe zimawalola kuti akambirane, kapena pa malo osakhala ndi mitu yonse, cholinga chachikulu chomwe chilankhulo cha banal ndi kusinthanitsa maphikidwe ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimakondweretsa kwambiri kugonana kofooka.
Ndikuyembekeza kuti nkhaniyi inakuthandizani kumvetsa chifukwa chake mkazi amakhala ndi chibwenzi kuposa munthu. Pakuti pali mfundo zambiri ndi zotsutsana pano kuti muyankhe funso ili.