Kodi chingayambitse kugonana musanalowe m'banja?
Kugonana musanalowe m'banja kumabweretsa kusokonezana ndi mwamuna amene amafunikira yekha.
Pali amuna omwe amaumirira kuti mkwatibwi ndi namwali. Ndipo anthu ambiri akulimbana nazo. Kugonana musanakwatirane kungathenso kumayambitsa matenda opatsirana pogonana, kutenga mimba zosafuna, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimachotsa mimba. Koma tiyeni tione chifukwa chake atsikana ambiri amakonda kugonana asanakwatirane.
Taganizirani zifukwa zokana. Chifukwa choyamba ndi msungwanayo akuopa kulankhulana kwambiri. Iye akuwopa kuti wokondedwa wake akhoza kutaya chidwi mwa iye, atalandira izo. Palinso mantha kuti achibale ake ndi mabwenzi ake amutsutsa ndipo samamumvetsa.
Atsikana ambiri amaopa kugonana, ndipo amaopa ululu umene achinyamata angayambitse.
Chifukwa chake chotsatira chingakhale kusatsimikizika kwake. Sadziwa ngati mwamunayo amamukonda kapena ali ndi mtundu wina wa chidwi. Ngati adzisungira yekhayo, ndiye bwino kumupatsa nthawi yosankha ngati ali yemweyo.
Ngakhale m'nthawi yathu ino pali mayiko omwe agonana asanakwatirane. Choncho, chipembedzo chikhoza kuima pambuyo pa chisankho chake. Sitiyenera kuweruzidwa ndi kuweruzidwa, chifukwa chisankho ichi ndi chifukwa chake chingakhale chovuta. Nthawi zonse munthu wachikondi amakonzeka kumvetsera zofuna zake komanso zosankha zake.
Ndikofunika kwa mtsikana kuchokera kwa mwamuna kumvetsetsa ndi kumuthandiza. Iye sayenera kuumirira yekha, chifukwa pochita zimenezi akhoza kuthetsa kugonana. Ngati mtsikanayo sali okonzekera, ndi bwino kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza chisankho chake komanso kusamangirira.