Nthawi yoyamba

Kupsompsonana koyamba ndi wokondedwa, kodi iye ankakonda chiyani? Zosayembekezereka kapena, mosiyana, kuyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali, wokonda kwambiri kapena wachifundo, monga kugwira kwa petal, kodi mukukumbukira kupsompsona kwanu koyamba? Ndipo ndani adanena kuti akhale yekha? Ndine wokonzeka kutsutsa kuti tsopano kupsompsona kwataya ukupyoza koyamba koyamba, koma bwanji?

Mu moyo, ndimatsatira lamulo loyambirira. Ngati zakhala zikuchitika kale, ndiye kuti zitha kukhala mobwerezabwereza. Ngati pangakhale matsenga koyamba kumpsompsona, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse ikhoza kubwerezedwa, padzakhala chikhumbo. Sikofunika kuti izi zithetsane kapena mbali, mungathe kulingalira. Ndipo ndi bwino kubvomerezana ndi kugonjera pamodzi. Zili monga maloto odabwitsa. Mwa njira, lamulo ili silikugwiritsanso kupsompsona, tsiku loyamba, ulendo woyamba ku cinema, kugonana koyamba, ziribe kanthu.

Chimene chikundikhumudwitsa kwambiri za maubwenzi ndi wokondedwa ndi imfa ya zachilendo. Anthu amazoloŵera kuzoloŵera ndi kuchitapo kanthu mosasintha ngakhale kusintha kwakukulu kwambiri m'moyo. Dzulo iwe unawuluka pa mapiko ako ndi chimwemwe, ndipo lero iwe umangoputira mapewa ako: inde, alipo, ndipo ndi chiyani? Ndipo chifukwa chiani? Kodi kunali koipa pamene mutu unali wamaliseche ndi chimwemwe, pamene dziko lonse lapansi likuwombera munthu mmodzi? Ayi, osati zoipa. Komanso, tonsefe timasowa chikondi ichi, ngati sichingatheke. Pokhala ndi zosangalatsa, aliyense angafune kubwereza zomwe zinamuchitikira. Kawirikawiri timachita zinthu zopusa, timayang'ana zomwe zatayika kumbali. Ndipo mmalo mopfuula ndi chisoni kapena kuyamba zonse zovuta, ndikwanira kungoyang'ana amene ali pafupi, ndi maso omwewo.

Ndi munthu yemweyo amene adayamba kutonthoza mtima wanu, kumbukirani momwe zinalili, phunzirani kukonzanso chimwemwe kuchokera pa kukhalapo kwake ndikumuphunzitsa. Ndikofunika kuti ndiphunzire, koma mphamvu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndizofunika, ndikukutsimikizirani.

Sindikunena kuti ndi zophweka, makamaka tsiku ndi tsiku. Kuwonongeka kwachilendo, pali kusintha kwakukulu komanso kosavuta kuwonetserana mwa khalidwe la wina ndi mzake. Kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano, tonsefe timafuna kuwonekera bwino, okoma mtima, okongola kwambiri, owona mtima, koma ndi nthawi yomwe timasangalalira. Ndipo siziri nkomwe mkanjo wakale kapena zazifupi. Zonse ndi za khalidwe.

Ine nthawiyina ndinali ndi chokuchitikira. Ndinayang'ana mwamuna wanga osati ndi maso a mkazi wanga. Osati monga munthu yemwe ndi wanga, amene ndimakhala naye kwa zaka zambiri, koma monga munthu amene ndangomumana naye komanso yemwe ndimamukonda. Ndinayesetsa kwambiri kuti ndizoloŵe ntchitoyi. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo iye mwini adadziŵa kuti mawu omwe ndimayankhula nawo, momwe amachitira ndi mawu ake, anasinthidwa mosagwirizana, ngakhale kuti mawuwo anali osiyana. Mwamuna wanga anaona izi ndipo anali atcheru. Popanda kuzindikira, adayambanso kuchita zinthu mosiyana. Mwa mawu abwino kwambiri a mawu.

Ndipotu, zonse ndi zophweka. Tikamayankhulana, timayambitsa wokakamiza kapena wokondedwayo khalidwe linalake, ndipo amadzimvera okha molakwika monga momwe tikuyembekezera kwa mdani wathu. Kawirikawiri pali mtsogoleri ndi kapolo, koma maudindo akhoza kusintha zonse pa zokambirana kapena msonkhano umodzi, komanso m'moyo. Ndikulongosola mwachidule kwa kanthawi mwadzidzidzi ndipo mwadala ndikugwira ntchito ya ojambula pawokha.

Ngati mukuganizabe pa kuyesayesa kotero, kumbukirani, sikuli koyenera kuti khama lanu lidzabweretsa zotsatirapo, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mukhale oleza mtima komanso osasiya njira yosankhidwa. Mukhoza kuphweka ntchito yanu powonetsa kusintha kwa khalidwe. Mwachitsanzo, msungwana amasintha tsitsi lake, tsitsi lake kapena amatenga zovala za mtundu wina, munthu akhoza kuitana wokondedwa wake kwinakwake. Zimaperekedwa pa nthawi ya masana kapena pambuyo pa ntchito kuti mubwere kumalo osonkhana. Ngakhale ngati nthawi zonse mumadyera palimodzi panthawi yopuma, chiwerengero sichidzadutsa. Chofunika kwambiri ndicho kupanga chikhalidwe chosagwirizana ndi chiyanjano chanu, ndi njira yosavuta yothetsera munthu khalidwe lomwe silili khalidwe lake panthawiyi komanso mu mgwirizano womwe wapatsidwa.

Ndipotu, chilichonse chimangokhala ndi malingaliro anu. Kudya kunyumba ndi makandulo, bedi la maluwa otsekemera, bafa ndi chithovu chokoma, ndondomeko yabwino yotsalira pa friji kapena patebulo, mphatso yabwino yaing'ono - chodabwitsa chirichonse chidzachita. Ndimabwereza: padzakhala chikhumbo ndi chipiriro.

Sindikufuna, ndikukhumba iwe chikwi choyamba chipsompsone ndi yemwe mumamukonda.