Ngati simungakhale mayi: kupanikizika kapena chirichonse chidzakhala bwino?

Ndidzanena nthawi yomweyo - Ndine munthu wokondwa, chifukwa ndine mayi. Kwa ine, monga Novoseltsev adanena kuchokera mu kanema "Office Romance," mnyamata ndi ... akadakali mnyamata.

Koma posachedwa, ndinaganiza kuti amayi anga kale ali atatu. Sindinkadandaula ngati mnyamatayo anali msungwana kapena mtsikana, zinali zodabwitsa kuti ndikumva ngati mayi wamtsogolo. Mimba, mofanana ndi amayi ambiri, siidakonzedweratu, koma, motero, kupitilirabe. Pamene mayeserowa akuwonetsa awiri, moona mtima, akusokonezeka. Mwana wanga wamwamuna wamng'ono kwambiri sali ndi zaka ziwiri, ndili paulendo wobereka, gulu lonse la mafunso lafika posachedwa - zomwe zidzachitike ndi ntchito, kodi ndizitha kuyendetsa bwino makhalidwe abwino, "kodi tidzakokera" mwana wachitatu ndalama, kodi aliyense anganene chiyani ndipo unyinji wa chirichonse chomwe chinangondikantha ine pamutu.

Koma patapita masiku ochepa, chilengedwe chinakhala chokha: Ndinamverera mkatimo - moyo watsopano ndipo muyenera kuchita chirichonse kumoyo uno unali wokondwa.

Pa sabata lachisanu ndi chiwiri la mimba, ngati phokoso lochokera ku buluu, mavuto amaonekera: zizindikiro za kuwopsya pochoka padera. Dokotala mwamsanga anatumizira ku ultrasound, kumene ziopsezo zinatsimikiziridwa. Anapuma mpumulo wathunthu, "Utrozhestan", "Magne B6" ndi valerian. M'chipatala simunapite (palibe malo oti muike mwanayo), koma moona mtima amachita zonse zomwe adokotala adamuuza. Atsikana odziwika omwe akukhala kunja, akutsimikiziridwa, amati, sitimvetsera madokotala oterewa, amati, zonse ndi zachirengedwe.

Patangotha ​​masiku angapo, kutaya kwawopsya kunayima, kumverera bwino, sikupweteke kulikonse, sikunatenge. Mwachidule, ndinali wotsimikiza kuti chilichonse chidzakhala bwino. Panthawi yachipatala, ndimaganizira ndikuganiza za zinthu zonse zapadziko lapansi, ngakhale ndinapanga dzina la mwanayo (pa chifukwa china chinali chotsimikizika kuti mtsikana adzabadwa).

Patangopita mwezi umodzi pa msonkhano wotsatira ndi dokotala, ndinaperekedwanso malangizo a ultrasound kuti akhale otetezeka. Ndipo apa ine ndinamva mawu owopsya: "Koma iye alibe moyo. Zakhala pafupifupi milungu iŵiri kuchokera pamene mwanayo adalira. " Ine ndinamva izo kupyolera mu drumbeat mutu mwanga. Ndiye ndikukumbukira momwe mwamuna wanga amandikumbatira ... chipatala ... anesthesia ... medabort ... mankhwala opha tizilombo. Ndiyenera kunena kuti kwa masiku onse 4 ndikukhala m'chipatala, sindinayambe ndikudalira madokotala kapena maganizo omwe amachokera kuchipatala chonse. Zikomo chifukwa cha zambiri. Ndinatsimikiza kuti tili ndi madokotala.

Koma chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri chinayamba mtsogolo. Monga ngati ndikumvetsa kuti zonse, sindiri ndi pakati. Ndipo malingaliro a inertia anawonekeranso ponena za mwana yemwe analibenso kumeneko - momwe angatchulire, momwe angakonzitsiremo nsalu, komwe angatenge ndalama pa chirichonse. Izi ndizomwe ndikudziwa kuti sindine wopenga, koma thupi loyamba lachisanu linakana kukana choonadi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo pa nthawiyi amati "kupweteka kwa imfa ya mwana amene amayembekezera kwa nthaŵi yaitali kumapweteka mavuto. Chinthu chachikulu pa nthawi ino sikuti mutseke nokha. Thandizani achibale ndi achibale ayenera kukhala mankhwala aakulu pakapita nthawi yopititsa padera. " Ndipo akatswiri amalangiza kuti mabanja omwe akukumana ndi tsoka, "musakhale chete ndipo musadziteteze. Tiyenera kukambirana zambiri, kugawira ena mavuto athu. "

Mankhwala anga anakhala mankhwala anga kapena "blocker" ya kuvutika maganizo. Ndinazindikira kuti ndili ndi ana awiri amoyo ndi wathanzi omwe, mwachiyeso chirichonse, amafunikira chikondi, chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro changa. Ndipo ine ndi mwamuna wanga tinali ndi mwayi. Koma ndikutha kumvetsa amayi omwe akufuna kubereka mwana woyamba ndipo sangathe. Zonse zimadalira banja ndi abwenzi. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - kuchokera kwa mkazi mwiniwake. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha mwanzeru: kugwera mu kuvutika maganizo ndi kuwononga malingaliro onse otheka ndi moyo wanu wonse kapena kudzigwira nokha, kuyendetsa bwino. Ndipotu, lingalirolo ndilofunika, kotero mukuganiza kuti tsogolo lanu ndi lotani.

Ndinakwanitsa kusankha bwino. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zidzakuthandizani. Pambuyo pa zonse, chinthu chachikulu ndicho thanzi ndi chidaliro m'tsogolo.