Mitundu ya ufulu wa kugonana

Palibe amene angatsutsane kuti ndife osiyana - aliyense ali ndi mabuku omwe amakonda, njira yolankhulira, kapangidwe ka zovala. Pogonana, tonsefe timasiyana, chifukwa aliyense ali ndi chilakolako chawo chogonana. Ndi amene amatiuza zomwe timakonda komanso momwe timachitira pabedi. Kodi ndi chikhalidwe chanji cha kugonana? Chifukwa chiyani iye ali chimodzimodzi chonchi, osati china?

Anthu omwe amatha kudziletsa nthawi yaitali, monga lamulo, amakhala ofatsa . Anthu oterewa asanayambe kugwirizana, ganizirani kasanu. Iwo amalingalira ngakhale chisangalalo chosayerekezereka chosaganizira popanda kungoyambira kale ndi komwev. Ndipo kugonana kwa chinthu chosasokonezeka kumatulutsidwa palimodzi.

Amuna omwe ali ndi malingaliro amadzimadzimodzinso amatha kuponyedwa (okonzeka kuvina ndi masewera), ali okwera, ali ndi "mawu" a mawu. Amuna omwe ali ndi chikhalidwe chimenechi nthawi zambiri amasankha atsikana okonda chibwenzi - chifukwa cha chikhalidwe cha akazi amatha kuona ma satellites odalirika.

Azimayi okhala ndi ubweya wabwino ndi abwino kwambiri - ali ndi maso akulu, tsitsi lofewa, nkhope zofewa, zodabwitsa, koma masitepe a estrogen (mahomoni aakazi) amalimbikitsa chilakolako chogonana. Azimayi omwe ali ndi kutentha kotero amafunika kuyambira nthawi yaitali, ndipo sikuti iwo amatha kugonana.

Ambirife timakhala ndi chiwerewere . Anthu oterewa amatha dologderzhavatsya za kugonana, ndipo amatha kuthetsa usiku wamkuntho ndi moto wotentha. Ndimavuta kutcha mazira, koma samafa popanda kugonana.

Gawo lamphamvu laumunthu ndi chikhalidwe chotere lingathetsere zofuna zake mosavuta. Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri amakhala okonda kwambiri, koma amatha kulamulira chilakolako chawo. Amuna oterewa ali ndi zazikulu zazikulu, zomangamanga, ziwalo zonse za thupi lawo zimagwirizana.

Akazi omwe ali ndi mtima wotero amakhala ndi moyo wokhazikika. Akazi oterewa amatha kufotokozera kusungulumwa komanso moyo wogonana. Azimayi okhala ndi mtima woterewa amapangidwa mwangwiro, ali ndi malamulo okwanira a thupi.

Anthu omwe ali ndi chilakolako chogonana nthawi zambiri samakhala okongola, koma amakhala ndi chidwi chokakamiza. Pambuyo pa anthu oterewa ndi kovuta kukana, iwo ndi okongola kwambiri. Anthu omwe ali ndi khalidweli amakula mofulumira, amalowa m'moyo wokhudzana ndi kugonana asanakwane (asanalandire chilolezo choyendetsa galimoto ndi pasipoti) ndipo amasiyana mosiyanasiyana, koma kale ali wamkulu.

Chigawo cholimba cha anthu omwe ali ndi khalidweli nthawi zambiri amakhala olimba, okongola, osasunthika, nthawi zina amwano. Amuna oterewa anayamba minofu, mawu otsika, kukula kochepa, kuwonjezeka kwa "tsitsi", nthawi zambiri zotchedwa superciliary arches, zida zowoneka bwino, chinkhuku.

Azimayi omwe ali ndi khalidweli amakhala ndi chifuwa chokwanira, ali odzaza ndi otsika. NthaƔi zambiri kuseka kwawo kumakhala kofala, mawu a pectoral ndi hypnotic, komanso amatha kufika mpaka 10 pamasamba pamphindi.

Chiwerewere chotchedwa Freud

Izi zodziwika kwa psychoanalyst aliyense mwa njira yake yomwe anagawa anthu ndipo anali kulondola. Kuti mumvetse zomwe iye anali kulondola, muyenera kudziwa mtundu wake.

Anthu achilendo. Anthuwa ndi 1/4 mwa anthu onse. Anthu awa, mosasamala kanthu za amuna ndi akazi, amakonda chikondi mwachindunji m'dera lino. Anthu oterewa amaganizira kwambiri mmene akumvera, okonda, okonda, komanso ovuta. Kawirikawiri amatsekedwa, ndi anthu a melancholic kapena a phlegmatic. Muzogonana, nkofunikira kuganizira za stroking, kukhudza, kupukuta.

Mtundu wamtunduwu umatengedwa kuti ndi wovuta. Anthu oterewa amakopeka ndi chiwerewere, ndipo amakopeka kwambiri ndi kugonana. Kawirikawiri zimakhala zosavuta, zowonjezereka komanso zowonongeka, sizilimbana ndi zolaula ndi anyamata kapena akazi okhaokha.

Mtundu wamlomo ndi wofala kwambiri. Mtundu wa anthu oterowo umakonda kupsompsona, chifukwa kamwa ndi malo ovuta kwambiri. Iwo ali otseguka, amalingaliro, achangu, oyankhula. Kwa iwo, kugonana ndiko kusinthana kwa mphamvu, njira yolankhulirana. Kugonana kwao kumafunika kukhala ndi maganizo: njira yodzidziwira nokha ndi dziko, chilakolako kapena chikondi pakati pa anthu awiri.