Ngati mukumva zizindikiro za kupanikizika, yesetsani kupeza chifukwa chake. Kotero zidzakhala zosavuta kumvetsetsa momwe angakhalire ndi momwe angachitire ndi zomwe angachite pofuna kupewa izi ndikuyesera kuiwala za izo pamene mukuchoka kuntchito.
Mwachitsanzo, taganizirani zochitika zambiri ndi momwe mungakhalire.
Kusakhutitsidwa kwa akuluakulu ndizo chitsanzo choyamba. Sizobisika kuti mukakhala pa nthawi, mukugwira ntchito yanu moyenera komanso moyenera, abambo adzakhala ndi nthawi yoti akutsutseni. Chinthu choyenera pa nkhaniyi ndi kupeza munthu amene angakumvetsereni. Kuthetsa mtima, mudzapeza mtendere wa m'maganizo ndipo mudzatha kupitiriza ntchito yawo. Kapena kumbukirani kupambana kwanu. Mukhozanso kulemba zomwe bwanayo akunena mu bukhu laling'ono, ndipo mutatha kuziwerenga kangapo, pezani chifukwa chake ndikuchikonzekera kuntchito.
Simungapewe miseche za inu, inunso. Mu mkhalidwe umenewu, yesetsani kuseketsa kunyoza. Musayesere kudzilungamitsa nokha, koma mosiyana, izo zidzakulitsa vutoli. Komanso musapange kufufuza kuti mudziwe yemwe akusungunuka. Pambuyo pake wamunyoza adzipereka yekha.
Mu tsiku limodzi "lokoma", kasitomala kapena bwenzi lanu akudandaula ndipo sakukhutira ndi ntchito yanu. Mu mkhalidwewu mutenge mpweya waukulu, tonthozani ndikupitiriza kukambirana. Ndipo ngati mulibe zifukwa zotsalira ndipo wofuna chithandizo akutsutsa yekha, ndiye bwino kumupempha kuti asiye kuthetsa mkangano umenewu, ponena kuti mukufuna kufunsira kwa woyang'anira. Panthawiyi, mwinamwake, kasitomala adzatha kuzizira kwake ndipo mudzakhala ndi nthawi yothetsera yankho.
Zimapezeka kuti wina akukufunsani kuti mum'gwire ntchito lero, chifukwa akudwala, kapena ali ndi mavuto a m'banja. Muzochitika izi, gawani ntchitoyi mwamsanga ndi ena onse. Ndipo ndikugwira ntchito yodzidzimutsa kokha. Komanso musakhale mochedwa kuntchito.
Malangizo aang'ono awa adzakuthandizani kuti mukhale osatekeseka.